thats sounds like my wife. She will buy a purse and say its x amount. then i will see the receipt on the counter 2 days later and it was more and she bought a matching wallet.
I dont care about shit like that. But if im buying something expensive ill usually tell her first. Not that she would ever say no or that im even asking.
She never cared if i went out with the guys, she would tell me to go. She didnt care i went to strip bars. She would send me a text if i was there asking if i was having fun and telling me to get a dance.