Just made of those decisions thats so hard....

[Temptation]

you guys/girls definitly help...its nice not to have it all kept inside. I have some friends here in GA, but most are back in NY...plus im a guy, and not good at talking to people about shit like this...but its easier to talk to strangers online lol

I don't think you would have won the sympathy vote for "my girl left me for another girl"

[C_Bino]

LMFAO....Ahh that was gold.

You know you would do it to bro...lol

BTW Ih8urdsm, that pic you posted is not a girl, its not possible.

[Carlos_E]

she looks like she is PACKING!

[Ih8urdsm]

I don't think you would have won the sympathy vote for "my girl left me for another girl"

im a better looking guy than that girl is...and i'd be willing to bet, i would be a better looking girl dressed up, than that guy...i mean girl...

[Carlos_E]

i would be a better looking girl dressed up, than that guy...i mean girl...

Please for your sake and ours Don't go there.

[Ih8urdsm]

Im glad i can be such entertainment for everyone!!!






eh, just being sarcastic. I do appreciate everyones advice. Cause i do 'know' it all, but it helps a lot to have it come from outside people. Its reassurance, and support, so it helps.
Take it from me. I can NOT believe this has gone on for so long. I really feel like i've lost a lot of time, because i feel like i've been stuck in quicksand for so long, i havent been accomplishing the things i had set out to before i met her. And i dont know why i havent been able to realize this...and really hope i do now.

[C_Bino]

im a better looking guy than that girl is...and i'd be willing to bet, i would be a better looking girl dressed up, than that guy...i mean girl...

BD just PM'd me. He wants to see pics of you dressed up as a girl.

[Carlos_E]

Is this a boy or a girl?

[Ih8urdsm]

....

[Ih8urdsm]

Is this a boy or a girl?

since the link says bryanboymedia.com im gonna say boy...but dont turn my thread into one of those threads!

[Carlos_E]

since the link says bryanboymedia.com im gonna say boy...but dont turn my thread into one of those threads!

I'm sorry.

[Ih8urdsm]

BD just PM'd me. He wants to see pics of you dressed up as a girl.

too bad her clothes wouldnt fit me huh...;P

oh, and crap, she took her digi camera, and i had taken pics of my gear from my ugl i was gonna PM you Bino...25 bottles of niceness.!!! ill see if i can use my digicamcorder in the next few days and take them.

[Ih8urdsm]

BTW Ih8urdsm, that pic you posted is not a girl, its not possible.

Im waiting for someone to post the pic and say "I would kick that guys ass for fuccing with my girl!!" Lmao

[IBdmfkr]

hmm.. so you won't dress up like a woman for me? But you seem so submissive, I could get away with anything lol

[Ih8urdsm]

hmm.. so you won't dress up like a woman for me? But you seem so submissive, I could get away with anything lol

lol

[Temptation]

Back to a previous request...

I 2nd the seeing you dress like a girl request

[Ih8urdsm]

i wish i was one of those people to say 'ill take it out in the gym'...for whatever reason it doesnt motivate me like that. Maybe after some time i guess

[Nasser]

i wish i was one of those people to say 'ill take it out in the gym'...for whatever reason it doesnt motivate me like that. Maybe after some time i guess

I was gonna ask you if you could find a way to harness all of this negative energy and blast into the gym like a machine?
It's kinda like therapy, you should try Man.

[stayinstacked]

Let the bitch slit her wrists, shame on her for doing all of that to you. Shame on you for being stupid enough to put up with it.

[IBdmfkr]

Wow, we actually agree on something SS lol...

Amen.

[C_Bino]

too bad her clothes wouldnt fit me huh...;P

oh, and crap, she took her digi camera, and i had taken pics of my gear from my ugl i was gonna PM you Bino...25 bottles of niceness.!!! ill see if i can use my digicamcorder in the next few days and take them.

NICCCEEEE. Maybe I will shoot a pic for you of my goodies. LOL. Or better yet walk into a local pharmacy and that will give you a good enough idea. LOL j/k.

[AnabolicAndre]

Wow I just read the entire story cause i started to read it then i was all like WHOAAAAAAAAA.

Im with everyone else. EFF her man. She needs to get a grip. Good luck to you brother.

[D7M]

only reason I read the whole thing is cuz I know what you're going thro, bro.

1. def don't have any communication w/ her. AT ALL!
2. Don't ever take her back (unless you have some good plan later to hurt her back)
3. no offense, but in your next relationship, grow a pair. don't take any shit from any one, it'll save you a lot of pain

[G-1000]

She cheated. Doesn't matter if it's a woman or man. She gotta go.

*Kick dat hoe to da curb!*

I second this

[Ih8urdsm]

just an update..I got this text message today:

"i know my anger seems like its towards u but its really towards myself. Decisions i've made have created this hell 4 me n now i have to deal with it. I'm just one of those people who has to learn the hard way. i am sorry 4 what i've done 2 you and thats part of why i cant be with you cuz the guilt is just 2 much."

I didnt respond to it, just so ya know...

She did come today to get a bunch of her stuff (it wouldnt all fit in her little Cabrio), and i did ask where she was staying and she didnt have an answer because she doesnt have anywhere to stay, just staying from friend to friend i guess, then she packed her stuff, and when i left the house to go to work, she was just in her car in the parking lot, because all her friends were with their families for easter so i guess she had no where to go until tonight. Its hard seeing someone you care about so much like that, but i was strong and didnt give in or anything. The text message came about 20 minutes after i went to work.

I really do feel a lot better already just being in a situation where i dont have to think things are going on behind my back and i dont even really think about her much at all. And i have been motivated at the gym which is good cause i was worried this might effect the cycle i just started.

Thanks bro's

[Wrath]

BD just PM'd me. He wants to see pics of you dressed up as a girl.

that and your 'kick your feet up and watch cartoon' comments were funny. You and stayinstacked are some funny dudes man...I swear lol.


But on the real...You have gotten GREAT advice in this thread and I hope everything works out. Just get some good workouts and go out with your boys man....'I don't chase them...I just replace themmmmmmmmmmmm"

Side note
Stay in atlanta...I am originally from up north but in atlanta and the south general it is unreal what you can get for the money. Them condos on Lindbergh and peachtree st that they just redid/refaced, 24 hour concierge, granite counter tops, italian marbled entry ways, stainless steel range/fridge, cherrywood floors, and jaccuzzi tubs in every master suite...this comes in every unit and 1 bedrooms start at 160,000....unrealllllllllllllllllll

[Ih8urdsm]

that and your 'kick your feet up and watch cartoon' comments were funny. You and stayinstacked are some funny dudes man...I swear lol.


But on the real...You have gotten GREAT advice in this thread and I hope everything works out. Just get some good workouts and go out with your boys man....'I don't chase them...I just replace themmmmmmmmmmmm"

Side note
Stay in atlanta...I am originally from up north but in atlanta and the south general it is unreal what you can get for the money. Them condos on Lindbergh and peachtree st that they just redid/refaced, 24 hour concierge, granite counter tops, italian marbled entry ways, stainless steel range/fridge, cherrywood floors, and jaccuzzi tubs in every master suite...this comes in every unit and 1 bedrooms start at 160,000....unrealllllllllllllllllll

Yea im going to stay for a while. Its weird cause my job here isnt as good as it was in NY, and i made more money this year than i did my last year in NY. And thats without the personal training money from this year, so with the cost of living be so much less, i feel like i made out well.
I want to just buy something to own. Renting blows and im just throwing money away basically.

[Nasser]

I'm glad your feeling better man!!!! Your on the right path, it's only gonna get easier, not harder and I think your doing your mental and physical health a very good thing.
Stay strong Bro and Best Wishes!