Do i have the right to be mad?

[Renesis]

Thats kinda freaking scary is that a dude or a chick wtf?

[DSM4Life]

Thats kinda freaking scary is that a dude or a chick wtf?

I think its a chick *puke

[DSM4Life]

I have better ones but i dont want to get another vacation if you know what i mean.

[Renesis]

Liar, you know you loved it on vacation

[DSM4Life]

Liar, you know you loved it on vacation

I fell for this over and over and over again

[Oki-Des]

Hello,
First of all, he was insecure and found evidence in your phone. You can no longer play the privacy card. He looked at the phone and now you have to simply deal with this. Just because he found out because of snooping will not over ride his anger.

You must change your thoughts of reciprocating anger to simply understanding he is hurt. Nothing will hurt him more than to know you already are enjoying another relationship. If I were you, I would simply apologize to him for not being the appropriate match and that you wanted to move on without hurting him. He is the one who looked at your phone therefore he must experiencing the pain of knowing what he feared to begin with. Guys turn hurt ego's into anger quite rapidly, therefore communicating is most likely a waste of time.

Just move on as quickly as possible and do not linger or try to explain too much. It will only make things worse in the long run. Good luck

You did not do anything wrong, but his feelings may be so hurt that some time must pass before you will be able to speak again as normal people.

[DSM4Life]

Hello,
First of all, he was insecure and found evidence in your phone. You can no longer play the privacy card. He looked at the phone and now you have to simply deal with this. Just because he found out because of snooping will not over ride his anger.

You must change your thoughts of reciprocating anger to simply understanding he is hurt. Nothing will hurt him more than to know you already are enjoying another relationship. If I were you, I would simply apologize to him for not being the appropriate match and that you wanted to move on without hurting him. He is the one who looked at your phone therefore he must experiencing the pain of knowing what he feared to begin with. Guys turn hurt ego's into anger quite rapidly, therefore communicating is most likely a waste of time.

Just move on as quickly as possible and do not linger or try to explain too much. It will only make things worse in the long run. Good luck

You did not do anything wrong, but his feelings may be so hurt that some time must pass before you will be able to speak again as normal people.

Yup i understand all of that which is why i let it go. We talked it out like two grown adults and everything is ok now. Thanks for the reply.

[Renesis]

I fell for this over and over and over again

[Lexed]

I fell for this over and over and over again

lmao

[BrLifter17]

so it's been a few days. still live together? have you gone to a club together? i ask because i'm curious if he is looking at other guys/moving on.

[DSM4Life]

so it's been a few days. still live together? have you gone to a club together? i ask because i'm curious if he is looking at other guys/moving on.

Still living together, yes. Not sure if he looking at other guys or not. We don't go to clubs/bars together anymore which is ok with me. I just do my own thing and don't ask questions about what he is doing or where he is going.