…under any circumstances, if you were very sick, very young, very poor etc…or would you keep him/her no matter what…
…just thought I would ask another hard question…XXL
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…under any circumstances, if you were very sick, very young, very poor etc…or would you keep him/her no matter what…
…just thought I would ask another hard question…XXL
No, and NEVER would i do such a thing.
Id have an abortion before i gave my child up for adoption..That would NEVER be an answer to my problem for me!!
But thats just me
no way
hes 4 and my best buddy i have more fun with him then i can explain and love him more than anything
Wow...took the words out of my mouth. I have a 4 yr old son and feel the same. :)Quote:
Originally posted by Tapout
no way
hes 4 and my best buddy i have more fun with him then i can explain and love him more than anything
Sadly, i gave up a son for adoption.
I was very young (16 years old) and just couldnt ignore the fact that life with me would have been a strugle at best and therefor not the best for the child.
It was very painful to do, but the best choice. He went to a family that was very well off and full of love, ive researched info about him over the years and he grew up very happy and healthy.
Id love to say i would change it, but i wouldnt. the path i was on and the age i was made being a good provider impossible at that time.
Yes, if I thought it was in the best interest of the child. I think that this is a much better option than abortion.Quote:
Originally posted by MIKE_XXL
…under any circumstances, if you were very sick, very young, very poor etc…or would you keep him/her no matter what…
--dnb
hopefully none of us will ever have to make this choice.
Speaking as someone who was adopted I am glad my birth mother picked that over abortion, not that i feel abortion is wrong either. Lucky for me I grew up in great home and was able to meet my birth mother about 6 years ago, and she lives in same city and I have 1/2 brother so best of both worlds. Remeber at one time un-wed mothers was just a big no/no not like today.
Nope. I'm prepared to accept the consequences of my actions. If I felt that bringing a child into this world was unfair to the child, I wouldn't put myself in that situation to begin with.
If you got yourself into that kind of problem, you must think about the kid's best interest by taking care of him/her and loving him/her. It would be your responsibility.