Originally Posted by muriloninja
wtf TFG?
How much does it take to realise this sorry sack of **** thinks nothing about her? If he cares/loves her he would be there with her working things out. Instead he is playing some very farked up emotional games that will do nothing but tear her apart mentally.
I am sorry but this totally farking pisses me off, do not settle for this ****. My god, wake up and sign those god**** papers already. Like i said earlier, he can only hurt you as long as YOU allow him to.
We can only give advice, i do not know anything about you personally but from what i have read here, you have my sympathy as i know it is hard to make sense out of everything that is going on.
Of course it is easy for me to sit here and say leave him, sign the papers bla bla bla....i have nothing invested and i can give you an outsiders perspective and sometimes that is what we need when we go through times like this because we do not think clearly with all the turmoil going on at the time.
You should know from past relationships, time is the only thing that will help you. I can only provide you with encouraging words and i am sincere in what i say.
You only have one life to live on this earth, make the best of it while you are here. Do not waste time on somehting that is as futile as this relationship.
Keep your chin up and a smile on your face and one day you can look back at this with a smile and realise it was all a learning experience.
:)