
Originally Posted by
NewandUnsure7
Hello All...
WOW... never thought I would be asking the questions I am about to ask. I am not unfamiliar to forums and the like, but I broke all my normal rules because for the last couple of weeks I have been reading on different sites and I would just get more and more confused. So, I am just going to post here and if you want to hate me and tell me I am a loser for not following the culture already established on this site, I guess you will do as you feel you must.
I am here because I would like some help, advice, and a general education on things that I know 0-Zero about.
Me: 35 yrs old. 5'10" if my back isn't hurting. 230 lbs (yes, I am fat and overweight).
I have always been heavier than I should be. The good thing for me is that I never look as heavy as the scale reads. The best years of my life were in 2008-2011 when I was down to 190 lbs and feeling great. I had a couple of life changes in 2011 that sent me back to an old way of being lazy.
Finally, after a few years, I have found my motivation for wanting to get back in shape (or at least better shape). I have no wishes to be massive in muscle. I want to lose fat/weight and be tone. I hired a personal trainer and have been working out for a couple of weeks with him. He has been great. I have changed my eating habits and I eat healthier. I am almost Paleo in diet. I do like sandwiches for lunch so I eat 1 slice of bread a day.
I would like to "encourage" my body to lose more weight faster, help build muscle more quickly, and encourage recovery quicker. I am not going to be working out 4 hours a day. I work out 1 hour MWF with my trainer and I try to do at least 30 min of cycling 5-6 days a week. I have been working up to getting to 1 hour of cycling.
I am 1000% scared to death of doing something to harm my body. Because I have always been heavier than I should, I have never been happy with my chest and I say I have man boobs. I am afraid if I was to take anything that I could encourage gyno and that would kill me (mentally/emotionally).
I have taken Hydroxycut (and almost any other diet pill) before and I think it caused a prostate issue.
I understand that anything I was to do would have a potential for causing a health issue, but I am here to see what you guys think. Like I said, I know nothing about this all. So, if you are someone that has been gracious enough to respond to me with the intent on helping me out, thank you and please use small words with no abbreviations (after defining its ok).
Thanks!