ALL THE TIME:
I see newbies post something simple and simply dumb. Its not their fault and they are usually asking if they are correct. Then twenty non-newbies jump their ass. "OMG WHERE DO YOU GET YOUR INFO FROM" or "WTF ARE YOU THINKING DUMBASS!"
My quetion is why? Why be a condescending douche to someone who doesnt know better and asked a question respectfully? Do you have little man syndrome? I fully understand someone getting their ass jumped if they are being a little punk know it all when they dont know shit but thats not the case half the time. Half the time it does't matter how much ass they kiss, some dickhead is gonna rip him and run him off.
Being a crude, unwelcoming cocksucker, will hurt this forum. When someone respectfully asks a dumb question like, "hi, new here, I wanna get jacked, Im 18 and ready to cycle, what should I take?" Ten motherfuckers are gonna, as crudely as possible, run them off. "You are way to young and you are way to untrained and fat, hit the diet section and wait six years" thats not welcoming.
I tested this out on some new, too young to cycle members: #1 I was extremely polite. #2 I engaged them with gratitude. #3 I explained politely that they could hurt themselves and why it would be better for them to wait. #4 I asked them to please stay because this is much more than a place to learn about AAS.
NOW HERE IS THE KICKER, THEY ARE STILL HERE AND I TALKED THEM OUT OF CYCLING!
When you explain to someone politely, that you respect them and you are glad they came... the rest of what you say has a lot more bearing. "Read the pin ups and the educational threads, before you post dumb shit!", thats not gonna get very far. They are trying to engage in a conversation in a new world, to them. YES SOMETIMES ITS REDUNDANT DUMB SHIT.
I have seen this forum with a lot, lot more members and its fucking awesome! I love arguing with older members because they aren't going anywhere and we all know it. Now a newbie on the other hand does not get this. Most of them skip right over the pin ups and educational threads and post, lots of them getting their ass ripped. About two ass rippings and they are gone... its sad... like a baby got kicked. Then, older members talk about how sick they are of these fucking dumb newbies posting without reading the pin ups. Well, guess what? Those newbies are the future of this site... BE POLITE.
I was recently confronted about this and now that I tested out the other way, (grattitude and politeness) I see how easy it is to make a member stay.
THINK ABOUT IT BEFORE POSTING TO A NEWBIE... Are they being polite? Am I being rude?