Girl problems....

[Jeremy34]

Ok guys, this is a story, read carefully. Here it is:

My buddy and I both like 2 different hot chicks. Now we want to do this fair....My friend is very outgoing and feels confident with either girl, so he has left it up to me to decide which one I want. They're both just as hot, but he wants me to choose. So I'm gonna pick the one that I feel I have better odds with, but unlike my friend, who is (BigGenes), I am a little on the shy side, so my question is: What would you guys do to approach a girl, find out her interests, get to know her better, and finally, find out if she likes you......any help would be much appreciated. Guys who just thinks they're pimps need not respond lol.

[Jeremy34]

Just so you guys know, here is a little background.

Girl #1....I'll call her Ab girl (because she teaches an ab class at the gym). I met her a while back and she constantly asked me to go to her ab class and seemed to be pretty flirtatious with me. My friend later met her in a club and hit on her while at the same time letting her know I was there and was interested in her, so basically she then knew both of us had an interest. Recently, she has been flirtatious with both of us, which leads us to believe she's just a flirt and is telling each one what he wants to hear.

Girl #2....Tanning girl (because she works at the place we both tan). In all honesty, I have more of an interest in this girl, but she is harder to read than a Hebrew novel. We both got the hots for her at about the same time, just as with Ab girl, so its the same situation. One day when I went to tan, a friend of hers was there and I could immediately tell she thought I was hot. This totally sucked because I like tanning girl, not her friend. Anyway....my friend asked her out before I did, but then she didn't call him back, so he gave up on her. My friend's sister is friends with tanning girl, and even better friends with her friend that liked me, so she kept trying to push me toward the friend. I agreed to call the friend and go out with her, but then I didn't, therefore I basically gave up on tanning girl because I knew her friend liked me and that girls usually don't go after guys that their friends like.

This brings us to the main dilemma. I really like tanning girl, and my friend told her I like her tonight.....She didn't respond in a way anyone could read on if she likes me or not, so I don't know what my chances are with her. He has put the ball in my court, asking me to choose one, so we can help each other out with which ever one we are going to try and get. We really have to decide in a day or two and make this pact, so this is my question.....How do I find out if I have a chance in hell with tanning girl? Should I ask her out now? Please help, my friend and I both need it lol.

[BigGenes]

Just so you guys know, here is a little background.

Girl #1....I'll call her Ab girl (because she teaches an ab class at the gym). I met her a while back and she constantly asked me to go to her ab class and seemed to be pretty flirtatious with me. My friend later met her in a club and hit on her while at the same time letting her know I was there and was interested in her, so basically she then knew both of us had an interest. Recently, she has been flirtatious with both of us, which leads us to believe she's just a flirt and is telling each one what he wants to hear.

Girl #2....Tanning girl (because she works at the place we both tan). In all honesty, I have more of an interest in this girl, but she is harder to read than a Hebrew novel. We both got the hots for her at about the same time, just as with Ab girl, so its the same situation. One day when I went to tan, a friend of hers was there and I could immediately tell she thought I was hot. This totally sucked because I like tanning girl, not her friend. Anyway....my friend asked her out before I did, but then she didn't call him back, so he gave up on her. My friend's sister is friends with tanning girl, and even better friends with her friend that liked me, so she kept trying to push me toward the friend. I agreed to call the friend and go out with her, but then I didn't, therefore I basically gave up on tanning girl because I knew her friend liked me and that girls usually don't go after guys that their friends like.

This brings us to the main dilemma. I really like tanning girl, and my friend told her I like her tonight.....She didn't respond in a way anyone could read on if she likes me or not, so I don't know what my chances are with her. He has put the ball in my court, asking me to choose one, so we can help each other out with which ever one we are going to try and get. We really have to decide in a day or two and make this pact, so this is my question.....How do I find out if I have a chance in hell with tanning girl? Should I ask her out now? Please help, my friend and I both need it lol.

Tan girl, b/c I think I have a better shot with abb girl. Either way I honestly think I can get either one. But ab girl would be easier. Personally they're hottness is equal.

[Polska]

if either of these girls knew you guys made an internet thread about this...........

[Jeremy34]

if either of these girls knew you guys made an internet thread about this...........

so true....

[Psychotron]

The point of a first Date is to get to know the person, so just go straight up ask her what she is doing friday night.

[BigGenes]

The point of a first Date is to get to know the person, so just go straight up ask her what she is doing friday night.

Do you get much play dude? lol IMO the first date is for seeing how far she will let me go. If I get date one, its over, its locked up and said and done(lol). I talk alot on the phone with chicks and I am not going to ask out a girl that I know nothing about. I know making a good impression is a great thing for a first date, thats why you get to know them before asking them out. IMO

[SwoleCat]

Guys who just thinks they're pimps need not respond lol.

There goes my offering!

~SC~

[BigMike J]

There goes my offering!

~SC~

hahaha.



Dude don't be a pussy man. Girls like the badboy, if you want a girl like you try the library. If i were you and not very confident in my ability i would let the friend choose then once the other chick see's he likes her she'll have no choice but to settle for you.

Myself i don't want to be the one that the girl settles for.. fawk that ****.

[BigGenes]

hahaha.



Dude don't be a pussy man. Girls like the badboy, if you want a girl like you try the library. If i were you and not very confident in my ability i would let the friend choose then once the other chick see's he likes her she'll have no choice but to settle for you.

Myself i don't want to be the one that the girl settles for.. fawk that ****.

I wouldn't mind choosing. **** I wish we knew these chicks better and had pics of them, that way you guys could see how hot these girls really are. Oh and not all girls like bad boys, sorry to burst your bubble, I have had to play the nice guy for a chick more often than not.

[BigGenes]

There goes my offering!

~SC~

lol I don't care I am resonding anways. The friend he is talking about in his story(the other guy) is me.

[1badcamaro]

whats going to happen is that you're going to pick one, and then the normal reaction for him will be to realize that he wants that one...........i smell big fight

[BigGenes]

whats going to happen is that you're going to pick one, and then the normal reaction for him will be to realize that he wants that one...........i smell big fight

I know

[workdude]

Sounds like a set up to me.

[BigGenes]

Sounds like a set up to me.

Who is setting who up here? He saw one of them first, we both saw the other at a different time. Being the friend I am, he saw one first and I want them both, so I am letting him choose.

[MASStermind]

dude this ones simple, tan girl you cant read, ab girl asked you to the gym. AB GIRL!!!!

[BigGenes]

dude this ones simple, tan girl you cant read, ab girl asked you to the gym. AB GIRL!!!!

**** you!!!I want abb girl. lol

[partyboynyc]

a simple introduction works well for me. take it from there as it goes. no one likes to be "hit on" and it is insanely obvious to girls what you are doing. if you are sincerely interested say hello and see where it goes. no need to overthink. be yourself and be a gentleman. holy **** did i say that?

[BigGenes]

a simple introduction works well for me. take it from there as it goes. no one likes to be "hit on" and it is insanely obvious to girls what you are doing. if you are sincerely interested say hello and see where it goes. no need to overthink. be yourself and be a gentleman. holy **** did i say that?

He tried that and is still trying that. We need a quick fix here and I want to know which one is cool for me to ask out so as not to hurt a friendship. So I am interested in an answer too.

[Jeremy34]

bump

[BigGenes]

bump

Hey dude whats up. Oh BTW I want abb girl.

[MASStermind]

Bang them both and the friend. Thats what I'd do. Then let your friend bang all 3 also.

[BigGenes]

Bang them both and the friend. Thats what I'd do. Then let your friend bang all 3 also.

Wait a min, thats not fair. I should at least get to bang one of them first. Then the other 2

[Rob]

if you haven girl problems i feel bad for you son...i got 99 problems but a B!tch aint one!

[as-addicted]

And on the next episode of Days of our Life................................

[BigGenes]

And on the next episode of Days of our Life................................

ITS GENERAL HOSPITAL JERK OFF, GET IT RIGHT! LOL

[BigGenes]

if you haven girl problems i feel bad for you son...i got 99 problems but a B!tch aint one!

Oh your Mr. Cool now aren't you! lol BTW that song blows goat nuts.

[CarvedFromStone]

Step it up, act super confident and **** which ever one you want. Dont let your friend steal the spotlight, girls love confidence. Girls also love what they cant have so dont be over aggresive make them want you and tease em a little....im such a master at playing women hahahahhahahah

[BigGenes]

Step it up, act super confident and **** which ever one you want. Dont let your friend steal the spotlight, girls love confidence. Girls also love what they cant have so dont be over aggresive make them want you and tease em a little....im such a master at playing women hahahahhahahah

Not all girls. IMO abb girl seems really straight forward in going after what she wants. Tan girl is more of the quiet unreadble type. Tan girl seems like the type of girl that would want what she can't have and abb girl seems like the type that would want what ever she wants. Oh and the only way jerm can be more confident than me is if he is wasted. And we can arrange that.

[partyboynyc]

Not all girls. IMO abb girl seems really straight forward in going after what she wants. Tan girl is more of the quiet unreadble type. Tan girl seems like the type of girl that would want what she can't have and abb girl seems like the type that would want what ever she wants. Oh and the only way jerm can be more confident than me is if he is wasted. And we can arrange that.

well apparantly we have two confident out going people here and two reserved people. mix it up and one of you out going guys go with the reserved girl and vice versa, because two shy people together are going to drown quickly tryint to merely hold a conversation. which everyone of you is shy i would feed off of the confident one during the four way conversation. let him set the tone and you will relax. never worry about what the next thing to say is or you are not paying attention to what is being said at the moment by the girl. ****, if all else faisl just get drunk and nail these chicks for god sake

[BigGenes]

well apparantly we have two confident out going people here and two reserved people. mix it up and one of you out going guys go with the reserved girl and vice versa, because two shy people together are going to drown quickly tryint to merely hold a conversation. which everyone of you is shy i would feed off of the confident one during the four way conversation. let him set the tone and you will relax. never worry about what the next thing to say is or you are not paying attention to what is being said at the moment by the girl. ****, if all else faisl just get drunk and nail these chicks for god sake

Well he is shy at first. But the dude has no problem once he gets to know a girl. His last GF was outgoing as hell and they had a great relationship until she cheated on him and he dumped her ass. I think he would be good with either one, I just want him to choose already. They are both hot as hell.

[decadbal]

u should let them pic..

[BigGenes]

u should let them pic..

Yea thats a great idea. Lets call them over and tell them to pick. lol we think abb girl likes us both and tan girl won't give a ****ing opinion, so there in lies the delemma.

[partyboynyc]

Yea thats a great idea. Lets call them over and tell them to pick. lol we think abb girl likes us both and tan girl won't give a ****ing opinion, so there in lies the delemma.

tan girl loses and abb girl get's a threesome

[hung-solo]

tan girl loses and abb girl get's a threesome

[hung-solo]

this is a cluster fukk waiting to happen.. keep us posted!

[BigGenes]

tan girl loses and abb girl get's a threesome

I would be down for that.

[Mr. Death]

The first thing that catches my attention is the fact that you have friends telling these girls that you like them. No offence, but that is high school stuff bro. You need to let them know that yourself. Don't worry about what you talk to them about, just talk to them. Let them know that you are still around, but don't be in their face all the time and act too anxious. If either one of them is interested, they will let you know. Just look for the right sign and then go for it.

[BigGenes]

The first thing that catches my attention is the fact that you have friends telling these girls that you like them. No offence, but that is high school stuff bro. You need to let them know that yourself. Don't worry about what you talk to them about, just talk to them. Let them know that you are still around, but don't be in their face all the time and act too anxious. If either one of them is interested, they will let you know. Just look for the right sign and then go for it.

OK dude. Let me lay it on you like this. I have set up my boy jerm a ton of times. His problem is starting the convo, wants its started he is all good. So you may think its highschool shlt, but he gets play and thats all that matters.

He has done your advice already and nothing has panned out. The guy can talk, its just making the first move is his problem. IMO

[Benches505]

Ab girl is friendly and trying to expand her class. The oldest trick in the book for a woman in any type of sales is to flirt with the silly men.

Tanning chick would be the better option of the two but since your friend has already cast his line for you the only sure bet would be the friend