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    Engagement broken off!

    Sup peeps, long time no see. been quite pissed off lately cus of the fiance. First she says she's cool with AAS, then she says she cant handle it, then she's cool, then she freaks out again!!! Then it finally came down to it. First of all she basically made me quit smoking, chewing tobbaco, gets pissed that i work out so much, almost broke up with me cus of buying a crotch rocket ( too dangerous ill kill myself!!) Now she wants me to quit doing AAS (even tho i am more careful than anyone that uses and have researched for quite some time.) This girl is a goodie goodie. she doesnt do ANYTHING. on occasion she'll get "drunk" and act like a 2 year old LITERATLLY. Then she tells me that i am too big now (which i dont think so) and she liked me better when i was skinnier. also she finds me less attractive then she used too. She wants a guy who is PERFECT in her eyes. doesnt do anything against her will. Im so f*cking sick of it. So therfore i started acting like an ass. i hated it and then this morning she called and said she cant do this anymore. I was like, ok sounds good to me. have a nice life! man, sorry to vent im pissed that she's gotta be so dumb. so in the end i picked AAS over her. i guess it was just the fact of everything that added up over the past 3 years. Well, now there is an eligable good looking bachelor back to the board!!!! Hahaha, in a way im kinda happy. BTW, the cycle is going good right now. just ending week 3 and starting week 4 tommorow!

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    Quote Originally Posted by legobricks
    Sup peeps, long time no see. been quite pissed off lately cus of the fiance. First she says she's cool with AAS, then she says she cant handle it, then she's cool, then she freaks out again!!! Then it finally came down to it. First of all she basically made me quit smoking, chewing tobbaco, gets pissed that i work out so much, almost broke up with me cus of buying a crotch rocket ( too dangerous ill kill myself!!) Now she wants me to quit doing AAS (even tho i am more careful than anyone that uses and have researched for quite some time.) This girl is a goodie goodie. she doesnt do ANYTHING. on occasion she'll get "drunk" and act like a 2 year old LITERATLLY. Then she tells me that i am too big now (which i dont think so) and she liked me better when i was skinnier. also she finds me less attractive then she used too. She wants a guy who is PERFECT in her eyes. doesnt do anything against her will. Im so f*cking sick of it. So therfore i started acting like an ass. i hated it and then this morning she called and said she cant do this anymore. I was like, ok sounds good to me. have a nice life! man, sorry to vent im pissed that she's gotta be so dumb. so in the end i picked AAS over her. i guess it was just the fact of everything that added up over the past 3 years. Well, now there is an eligable good looking bachelor back to the board!!!! Hahaha, in a way im kinda happy. BTW, the cycle is going good right now. just ending week 3 and starting week 4 tommorow!




    Thats just an excuse to leave......She got tired of you so she made up an excuse to leave.

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    any one who try,s to change the person u are has there own problems

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    thats harsh bro chicks for ya they dont no wot they want n if they want "mr perfect" ther aint such thing


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    Quote Originally Posted by Hellmask
    Thats just an excuse to leave......She got tired of you so she made up an excuse to leave.

    hahaha, i think i got the point the first time!

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    Bro you need to have alife of your own. You can not be with someone that is going to ty and run it for you.

    You will be much better off.

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    she got phsyco on me this past couple of weeks. I mentioned "steroids" and she turned into a cannibal crazy b*tch. GUARENTEE she will call me sometime this week. If not thats ok, but thats what she's been doing saying that she "can't live without me!!!" everyone tells her that just because i dont do everything that she wants me too is not a reason to break up with me. she stills wants Mr. Perfect tho. Oops! time for my 5th serving dbol!

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    she says loves you & cant live without you but she wants you to change & fit her mold--thats not love brutha...good luck & sorry to hear the bad news. sounds like shes roid ragin'

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    Quote Originally Posted by legobricks
    hahaha, i think i got the point the first time!


    Damn computers.


    Yeah tell that bitch good ridence.....find one thats greatful.

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    Quote Originally Posted by getnjakked
    she says loves you & cant live without you but she wants you to change & fit her mold--thats not love brutha...good luck & sorry to hear the bad news. sounds like shes roid ragin'

    Hahaha, ya it rubbed off on her! j/k. ya i was making some jokes yesterday at her family get together. they were dumb dry jokes but she was like "Those jokes really pissed me off cus they were so dry and that is not you!!! Youve changed and the only thing that caused it was the roids!" i fellt like saying, b*tch your the one who changed my attitude on everything! ya im sorry to hear this has happened too. at least ill find someone who actually appreciates muscle.

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    boy o boy...she just seems to like confrontation with you now. she sounds really frustrated man..
    hell, my girl doesnt totally understand why i juice but she was willing to learn about it & she likes the results obviously.We agreed that if she sees a change for the bad in me while on-then i come off immediately--never had a problem & its all good.now if i need help shootin a glute...she'll even do it for me(shes a nurse)..thats love!!! sorry if I'm rubbin it in bro... find someone thats likes you for you....not someone that wants to try to change u.

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    my point exactly. she said the same thing bout a change in attitude but went against her word and said she doesnt like it all together AFTER she said she was ok with it.

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    this may be a dumb question....but does she even understand it? know anything about it?? or is she the typical ignorant person that says steroids are bad..it will kill you & shrink your penis? have yuo tried to get her to learn about it & maybe if she did she would be more open to it... but it seems like shes just looking for excuses at this point to fight.

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    There's two good sayings I've heard:

    1. Women are like cars. Lease them. 3 years, 36,000 miles and get another one.

    2. Putting a ring on a girls finger is like putting a downpayment on a piece of ass.

    Good luck.

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    or the 3 rings of marraige:
    engagement ring
    wedding ring
    suffer-ring

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    dude if u love her i would quit AAS... that is ur choice though

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    Quote Originally Posted by Beefyman
    dude if u love her i would quit AAS... that is ur choice though
    you could say the same about her man......... if she loved him-she would be more open & receptive to it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by getnjakked
    you could say the same about her man......... if she loved him-she would be more open & receptive to it.
    good point.... never seen that one i got

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    Quote Originally Posted by getnjakked
    you could say the same about her man......... if she loved him-she would be more open & receptive to it.

    agreed. yes ive explained in all scientific and "understandable" detail about AAS and the difference of use and abuse. she still doesnt like them. she said she is going to think what she wants about them. yes she is ignorant. I do love her but know that i am not "in" love with her. she has been trying to mold me for quite some time now. sucks.

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    well, time to move on it seems bro....good luck & it will all work out.

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    that was just an excuse

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    U can't change for someone , but u can change because of someone.

    Right decision if things are rough now, they can only get worse

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    Not taking either side here, but....

    Most women need to know that the man that they choose to marry will be around a long time. Maybe she feels as if you're doing things to your life that could possibly jeopardize her future husband. Most women need and want stability in their relationships, so she probably saw your existing lifestyle as the opposite of that.

    All in all, only you know if you made the right decision or not. Personally, I think she has been testing you. Just trying to figure out what you're willing to give up for her. And based upon what you've said, it sound like there's a better chance that you will go back to her than she coming back to you.

    Best of luck bro!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mizfit
    U can't change for someone , but u can change because of someone.

    Right decision if things are rough now, they can only get worse

    agreed. sucks, but i want to do what I want to do. I even told her that whatever she wants to do, just do it! But everything i want to do, seems like I can't. i dont know, im just so young just want to do things i want to do still.

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    I'm not sure what to tell you here, except that all women hear voices in their heads (mostly do to their hormones) that guide & control them via emotions. This is why PMS is such an issue for some women & why women just out of no where will be unreasonable to no end. Also, this is why men seem to be more stable the majority (99%) of the time. I've been married for 18yrs, many of my friends similar times, so I can speak for the collective on this. It can be rough at times!

    Well, there are plenty of fish in the sea if this doesn't work out, but good luck anyway.

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    There are tons of women out there. I'd say from personal experience that 40% of women have no problem with aas. The remaining 60% were brainwashed by the media and refuse further education.

    My chick is totally fine with aas, because she knows that I will only look better from it, plus I have educated her and keep her informed on what I take.

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    Mannn why do some girls want to change you all the time I dont get it. You're better off with someone who loves you for who you are and supports your decisions

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    Quote Originally Posted by chest6
    Mannn why do some girls want to change you all the time I dont get it. You're better off with someone who loves you for who you are and supports your decisions
    Amen

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    Seems you made the right decision bro. I had an engagement broke off in April myself, and alot of things are great in the single life

    No matter how hard one tries, you can't change a persons nature - it's who they are. You are either compatible with this person or not. There is nothing wrong with compromise, but most of the time you should have the chemistry to see eye to eye, and there be no need to have to compromise on many things.

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    If she can't except YOU for who YOU are than you are better off without her anyway.

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    thanx guys, helps me out a ton. i guess she called one of my good buddy's on monday and asked what he was doing. he said he doesnt want to get in the middle of anything seeing as how he's been a bud of me for 6 years. he's a good lookin guy too, kinda pissed me off.

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    Quote Originally Posted by legobricks
    thanx guys, helps me out a ton. i guess she called one of my good buddy's on monday and asked what he was doing. he said he doesnt want to get in the middle of anything seeing as how he's been a bud of me for 6 years. he's a good lookin guy too, kinda pissed me off.
    Better off without her IMO. Just make sure you dont go back !!!!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by legobricks
    Sup peeps, long time no see. been quite pissed off lately cus of the fiance. First she says she's cool with AAS, then she says she cant handle it, then she's cool, then she freaks out again!!! Then it finally came down to it. First of all she basically made me quit smoking, chewing tobbaco, gets pissed that i work out so much, almost broke up with me cus of buying a crotch rocket ( too dangerous ill kill myself!!) Now she wants me to quit doing AAS (even tho i am more careful than anyone that uses and have researched for quite some time.) This girl is a goodie goodie. she doesnt do ANYTHING. on occasion she'll get "drunk" and act like a 2 year old LITERATLLY. Then she tells me that i am too big now (which i dont think so) and she liked me better when i was skinnier. also she finds me less attractive then she used too. She wants a guy who is PERFECT in her eyes. doesnt do anything against her will. Im so f*cking sick of it. So therfore i started acting like an ass. i hated it and then this morning she called and said she cant do this anymore. I was like, ok sounds good to me. have a nice life! man, sorry to vent im pissed that she's gotta be so dumb. so in the end i picked AAS over her. i guess it was just the fact of everything that added up over the past 3 years. Well, now there is an eligable good looking bachelor back to the board!!!! Hahaha, in a way im kinda happy. BTW, the cycle is going good right now. just ending week 3 and starting week 4 tommorow!
    Lets see...we both work out...both use aas...i already have a crotch rocket...hmmm...and your now available...WOW!
    HUGS!
    Someone's Little Pumpkie

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pinkvelvet
    Lets see...we both work out...both use aas...i already have a crotch rocket...hmmm...and your now available...WOW!
    HUGS!
    LMFAO !!!!!!!!

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    Good For You.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pinkvelvet
    Lets see...we both work out...both use aas...i already have a crotch rocket...hmmm...and your now available...WOW!
    HUGS!
    Haha!!! I think she has the right idea here.

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    Hahaha PINKIE!!!!! Long time no see!!!!! Hahaha, ya we should def get together and do the wild thing!!!! only problem is your in canada and im....way down in south eastern wisconsin. Road trip anyone?

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