OMG
i did a search on myspace in my city...
DOOD
UGLY
everywhere
help LOL
if i ever become single im ****d ><
OMG
i did a search on myspace in my city...
DOOD
UGLY
everywhere
help LOL
if i ever become single im ****d ><
theres ugly ppl everywere ur luck to find a hottie thats single, thats why i am sinlge i am to picky
Yeah its alot better ot have a drunk clepto abusive girlfriend than an ugly.
Originally Posted by taiboxa
LOL thats funny ... but my friend met his soon to be wife on Myspace and she is pretty hot IMO
ugly people make it difficult for me to keep my protein shakes down![]()
yeah but rhonda is Uber hot!Originally Posted by SVTMuscle
oh your good to go then.Originally Posted by taiboxa
pics are needed
Booooo to uglies!
Hun u know they don't know
THEY MUST be INFORMED!Originally Posted by Mizfit
i have alwasy wanted to do that.. but how would you do it politcally correct..Originally Posted by taiboxa
plus they r decent looking to someone u know
noOriginally Posted by Mizfit
my standards are the universal standards
i will now use MySpace as my liazon and inform everyone who i find UnApplealing to the human eye and TELL THEM they must fix their appearance or be removed from civilization@!
I got a myspace - add ym email addressOriginally Posted by taiboxa
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I DONT KNOW IT LOL ur not on msni slow dont hate
man oh man bout 19 uttta 20people are UGLY around here ><
LoL! Seriously though, that depends on what you mean by ugly. I think the most valid way of assessing one's attraction must include all of your sense (not to mention your sense of your self. After all, you have to cop to your own subjectivity - your way of perceiving is affected by your personality complete with it's biases and motives).
I've met some really physically attractive, charming people who turn out to be rather ugly in terms of their behavior and general conduct.
I think it's attractive when people generally intend to do the right thing, look out for one another, act constructively and choose to be non-jugdemental and generally accepting (tolerance) of all people. I think "agape (AH-GAH-PAY) which connotes having an attitude of love directed toward all things is a very attractive trait or aspiration.
There's much more to a person than strictly physical attraction and it's destructive, I think, to get hung up on or overvalue "appearance" in any sort of way, IMO. But to each their own.
Originally Posted by taiboxa
Originally Posted by taiboxa
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Dude, you live in fvckin oklahoma....it isn't the OC, thats for sure.
ur in oklahoma wuddya think
Come to the state below you and you'll see what good lookin girlz look like![]()
ugggg lee uggg lee
or even come over here to Mizzou for a bit......on the way to class i saw about 60 girls today and 40 of them were definant yes's and then about 5 were maybe's and 5 were probablys and only 10 were no's!!!!!!!!!!!! it's amazingOriginally Posted by chest6
Yeah but have you ever met someone who you thought was a "no" and she becomes a yes after getting to know them? For me, it's not so contingent upon strictly looks. On the other hand, if the girl was profoundly obese or disfigured, I might have a hard time getting past that. I've dated woman who I'd consider awkward looking but their awkwardness becomes cute when you see their personality and energy shine through. Am I alone with this experience?
Originally Posted by RuhlFreak55
i feel the same way and im glad u wrote that down cause i could have never said it that wellOriginally Posted by Mike Dura
Too much free time?Originally Posted by taiboxa
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It's good to see that we share that value. I wish more people did.
Originally Posted by Foskamink
i once was shallow and rude to non attractive women.. but i learnt through this by meeting my current girlfriend.. shes as cute as a botton wonderful personality and sense of humor quiet and conservative on a level of my own.. always fun to be arround and could break me down and understand me.. at first i thought she was fat.. but i saw past that.. and got to know her and was compelled to know more and more and we would talk every day for months before we became a couple.. and now that i look back she was never fat her figure is actually what i like and perfect.. i was just too shallow and afraid of what others would say to admit it at first... but a long story short shes great and we are having problems and i really glad to say i think we will make it through the hard times.. some might say im just blind and she really is fat.. but she got a figure like JLO and im luvin it.. see page 25 of the wives/girlfriends page for pictures <3Originally Posted by Mike Dura
nope..Originally Posted by Mike Dura
i hope one day u can feel the same enlightmentOriginally Posted by chest6
it will change me forever for the better.
That's great! I'm happy for you. It sounds like your hearts in the right place. To find love is a great thing. But I think one has to clearly efine love first because we all mean different things when we use that word.
I like how Eric From and M. Scott Peck define love as "a desire to see the other person grow" and simultaneosly, to want to grow yourself. In this way of thinking, self and other are one so that you must have a healthy authentic self-love before you can love another.
These authors also reason that love is more than just a private feeling because I can never directly feel what you feel and I must rely on your verbal report. Yet I can see your actions, so it makes sense to define love with respect to behavior. If my significant others actions appear to be consistently pro-growth (with me and herself both), its safe to say that there's love there.
It's also about good communication, authentic care and the consistent application of good guiding principles, in my view. Self analysis and non-defensivenss are critical here.
I also think there is a degree of suffering in deep love and that's just because suffering is a natural part of life. Any really intense feeling seems to have a degree of suffering to it. Not everyone has the capacity for the version of love outlined above. Yet, the word is readily used......sometimes to fill in "the lack of."
I also believe that one's capacity for love depends on their development (or degree of maturity). Immature types abound, and you can clearly see that their brand of love cheapens the word.
Originally Posted by Foskamink
i agree with everything u said and i feel its been apart of my life this year. im glad u said everything and im going to take the chance to save it in a notepad so i can remind myself when i feel the need.Originally Posted by Mike Dura
I'll have to reserve my comment because I am not a "10". Must be nice to be in the driver's seat.Originally Posted by taiboxa
I don't think most people r a 10Originally Posted by mavsluva
Myself included.
I think the biggest problem is there is alot of ppl who think they r hot, when they r not.
If you toot toot your own horn so much, when you shouldn't - whihc a lot of ppl on my space and all over doo.. it makes one look even uglier
i agree u gotta think ur hot and be confident with urself and feel good.. but the toot tooting on ur own horn isnt cool and its even worse if others do it for u and u join in..Originally Posted by Mizfit
haha i say no one on this earth is a 10.. except maybe my girlfriend and jlo... mizfit ur in the 9 club with carlos
I completely agree. I'll continue to reserve my comment until I am perfect, though. However, I know this will never happen so I'll never consider myself hot or ugly. Nor will I ever categorize anyone else that way.Originally Posted by Mizfit
only 2 things come out of oklahoma.
I think you know what they are.
STEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEERS & QUEEEEEEEEEEEEERS
mooo
I always heard that about Texas..
i think u should think ur hot.. on a level that ur happy with urself and not embarresed.. but not to the level where u feel ur better then somone else..Originally Posted by mavsluva
i always thought why arnt the big muscular guys i know not bullys and aragant, because i would be if i wasnt small *before i started to work out*
but now im a happy size and above average i feel that im more humble and not judgemental to others and thats the way it should be
I haven't been to myspace yet, but I've been on Hot or Not, and boy is there alot of uglies on there. I don't know why someone would post a pic of themselves if they are ugly. How can they not know they are ugly? I mean, they do have to look at themselves in the mirror at some point right?
Originally Posted by Foskamink
I am very happy with myself, but I don't need to talk about myself to others that way to help satisfy my own imagine. I'd much rather someone tell me that I'm a very kind person with a good heart, than to hear someone comment about my looks. The nucleus of the heart will always be intact, while looks will eventually fade away.
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