Well, today we're celebrating my birthday party with family, and of course my gf is coming. She's sick so it took awhile but finally we got her from her house and brought her over. She's taking a nap before we head up to grandparents... Okay, now that the background is done let me explain. I tell her I'd like to talk with her (when she's sleepy, she gets annoyed easily, who doesn't) She's like no... So I'm like, "How about after lunch?" She says she just wants to go home afterward. So I go off on her (not loud or mean but in a nice way) I tell her that I am feeling ignored and I'm tired of it. She says she's really stressed out from work and crap, and that's why we don't hang out anymore. I tell her nothing has changed since she started working there (we were still obsessed with eachother when she started) and that the only thing that has changed is her new friend Laura. I like her friend Laura, but god damn, she spends way too much time with her, all her free time and neglects me. Hardly calls, and when I do call, she "sounds" like I'm a bother. So I tell her that and I said, "Don't let your new friendship ruin our relationship, who don't you balance the too?" Then I told her I have been feeling as if she was going to leave. She was silent for a moment and then I gave her the look like I wanted an answer. She said, "What do you want me to say, I don't want to leave you and we've already established that." And then she looks all annoyed and goes back to bed. Wtf... I'm pissed intead of sad, and I need some advice on talking with her...
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Originally Posted by king6
