Advice with boyfriend

**Deltsarehot8** · 12-22-2006, 07:17 PM

So, on monday i am going to Georiga to visit my boyfriend! And we are starting our new life together and going to figure out where to live! I live and go to school in Colorado, but he lives in Georgia and is going to be joining to Air Force soon. My boyfriend is wonderful and i love him very much! I have moved to GA before to live with him, should i do it again?
Thanks

**Snrf** · 12-22-2006, 07:20 PM

dump the boyfriend, move in with me! woooot!

**Snrf** · 12-22-2006, 07:25 PM

I know its superhuman, im jk.

this is the kind of thing other people can't decide for you to be honest.
I'm sure you know what you wanna do at heart, its your decision

**STYLE74** · 12-22-2006, 07:26 PM

Originally Posted by Deltsarehot8

So, on monday i am going to Georiga to visit my boyfriend! And we are starting our new life together and going to figure out where to live! I live and go to school in Colorado, but he lives in Georgia and is going to be joining to Air Force soon. I've been thinking about joining to Air Force with him for awhile now, but in order for us to be stationed together we have to be married. I love him and want to spend the rest of my life with him and he with me.
We have been having some problems because we've been apart for so long. Do i move again, so that we can be together or do i stay here in Colorado and go to school and him move here, or do we move to a completly new place for both of us?

Thanks

I really think that this is something you and him have to sit down to discuss and see what's best for both of you. In the end it's you and him that have to be happy and you both have to weigh out the positive and negative of all scenarios. You should both agree on something fair for both of you.
-JP

**abstrack** · 12-22-2006, 07:27 PM

This is something you need to discuss with him. I find it kind of odd to bring your problems to the board, when your BF is a respected member.

**STYLE74** · 12-22-2006, 07:27 PM

Originally Posted by Snrfmaster

I know its superhuman, im jk.

this is the kind of thing other people can't decide for you to be honest.

I'm sure you know what you wanna do at heart, its your decision

Exactly right.

**StoneGRMI** · 12-22-2006, 07:27 PM

Decided amongst yourselves. Don't ask people on a forum for life altering advice.

**Deltsarehot8** · 12-22-2006, 07:27 PM

Originally Posted by Snrfmaster

I know its superhuman, im jk.

this is the kind of thing other people can't decide for you to be honest.
I'm sure you know what you wanna do at heart, its your decision

i know i just am have a hard time with it, i guess

**Deltsarehot8** · 12-22-2006, 07:29 PM

Originally Posted by abstrack

This is something you need to discuss with him. I find it kind of odd to bring your problems to the board, when your BF is a respected member.

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he said it was fine dont think i didnt ask him, i respect him and asked him if it was ok

**abstrack** · 12-22-2006, 07:36 PM

I wasnt implying you didnt respect him, but this is something two loved ones should discuss. I'm am sure you are both intelligent mature adults and can over come this obstacle if it is one for the both of you.

**Hunter** · 12-22-2006, 07:38 PM

Not trying to be rude but he has cheated on you and you have cheated on him. It seems like you both have some growing up to do before you make any crazy decisions such as marriage.

**Deltsarehot8** · 12-22-2006, 07:39 PM

Originally Posted by mn_fighter

Not trying to be rude but he has cheated on you and you have cheated on him. It seems like you both have some growing up to do before you make any crazy decisions such as marriage.

I have NOT cheated on him!!!

**Hunter** · 12-22-2006, 07:46 PM

Originally Posted by Deltsarehot8

I have NOT cheated on him!!!

Sorry I misread a thread then but I have not followed this to closely but I still think you both should really think this through. I mean it seems to me alot of growing up in the relantionship to be done before you consider marriage.

**Deltsarehot8** · 12-22-2006, 07:50 PM

Originally Posted by mn_fighter

Sorry I misread a thread then but I have not followed this to closely but I still think you both should really think this through. I mean it seems to me alot of growing up in the relantionship to be done before you consider marriage.

yes i realize that but thanks

**collar** · 12-22-2006, 07:52 PM

i think you have to think what is the best thing for you and what is going to make you happy.

think of yourself first, its selfish buts the right way.

but what ever it is you decide make sure its what you have clearly made up in your mind and not to say what if.......

but good luck with it.

**l2elapse** · 12-22-2006, 07:55 PM

whos your bf on this board?

**Deltsarehot8** · 12-22-2006, 08:06 PM

Originally Posted by justinandrews7

whos your bf on this board?

superhuman

***perfectbeast2001*** · 12-22-2006, 08:10 PM

If you love each other you should do whatever it takes to be/stay together.

**Deltsarehot8** · 12-22-2006, 08:11 PM

Originally Posted by perfectbeast2001

If you love each other you should do whatever it takes to be/stay together.

Thank you thats the kind of response i was looking for!!! Thanks

**abstrack** · 12-22-2006, 08:14 PM

LOL. You didnt need beast to tell you that.

If the relastionship is worth anything then you should go with your gut instinct.

**Deltsarehot8** · 12-22-2006, 08:20 PM

Originally Posted by abstrack

LOL. You didnt need beast to tell you that.

If the relastionship is worth anything then you should go with your gut instinct.

lol ya thanks

**STYLE74** · 12-22-2006, 08:26 PM

DAMN!!!! That explains the Girl is too wet thread and super and delts going back and forth. Durr, why didnt i see that. You two are good!!!

**Superhuman** · 12-22-2006, 08:34 PM

wow now my private life is all over the board.... haha this is kinda awkward. you guys have been hearing my side of everything when I talk about her!

**STYLE74** · 12-22-2006, 08:39 PM

Originally Posted by Superhuman

wow now my private life is all over the board.... haha this is kinda awkward. you guys have been hearing my side of everything when I rant about her!

It's all good bro. I know you both can work it out together and everything will be fine.

**bigbouncinballs** · 12-22-2006, 08:59 PM

whoa, if there's cheatin involved you gotta come to me. i've cheated on her bout five times, she's cheated about three. still doin just fine. if you're tryin to work through it and keep things goin ya gotta involve me

fyi, i have no idea what the story is, just had to get that in in case i can be of some use!

**Tru2** · 12-22-2006, 09:01 PM

Finish school first.

Then move.

**Deltsarehot8** · 12-22-2006, 09:06 PM

Originally Posted by bigbouncinballs

whoa, if there's cheatin involved you gotta come to me. i've cheated on her bout five times, she's cheated about three. still doin just fine. if you're tryin to work through it and keep things goin ya gotta involve me

fyi, i have no idea what the story is, just had to get that in in case i can be of some use!

he cheated on me a couple times, but i have never cheated on him.

**bigbouncinballs** · 12-22-2006, 09:12 PM

Originally Posted by Deltsarehot8

he cheated on me a couple times, but i have never cheated on him.

then i'm utterly useless

**thetank** · 12-22-2006, 09:21 PM

hahaha man this is twisted. its like couples therapy with 15 000 open seats, r however many members are on here.
in all honesty, when your asking for suggestions, or advice on something personal..its probably in your best interest to do so where the person the topic revolves around doesnt frequent, or in this case, happen to moderate the very medium of communication. you might as well go to the dudes work and hand out a memo on the subject.
oh, but while superhumans around, i just wanted to include hes a ****in outstanding guy, a gentleman and a scholar, and deserves praise and recognition for crediting the planet with his fine addition to humanity. hell IDE move across north america for him.

**Deltsarehot8** · 12-22-2006, 09:24 PM

Originally Posted by thetank

hahaha man this is twisted. its like couples therapy with 15 000 open seats, r however many members are on here.
in all honesty, when your asking for suggestions, or advice on something personal..its probably in your best interest to do so where the person the topic revolves around doesnt frequent, or in this case, happen to moderate the very medium of communication. you might as well go to the dudes work and hand out a memo on the subject.
oh, but while superhumans around, i just wanted to include hes a ****in outstanding guy, a gentleman and a scholar, and deserves praise and recognition for crediting the planet with his fine addition to humanity. hell IDE move across north america for him.

I know he's an awesome guy!! and im planning on moving, and he knew that i posted it, and he says stuff about me on here and he knows i can see it

***G-1000*** · 12-22-2006, 09:28 PM

Well if you cant make up your mind. Your more then welcome to move in with my wife and i. I'm sure the 3 of us can have a great time.

**stayinstacked** · 12-22-2006, 09:29 PM

well my first question would be how long and how serious were u two 2gether when he screwed around? Was it long distance at the time or no? And second, do you really forgive him and love him? You have to forgive him totally b4 you make your decision, or it will only worsen the situation. If you can't let it go it will get worse.

**Hackamaniac** · 12-22-2006, 09:31 PM

How old are you??

**IBdmfkr** · 12-22-2006, 09:35 PM

He's cheated on you twice and you're still with him. LOL You're pathetic.
You may respect him but obviously he has no respect for you, nor would I if my wife stayed with me if I cheated, but then again I wouldn't ever do that to someone I claimed to love.

**Deltsarehot8** · 12-22-2006, 09:36 PM

Originally Posted by stayinstacked

well my first question would be how long and how serious were u two 2gether when he screwed around? Was it long distance at the time or no? And second, do you really forgive him and love him? You have to forgive him totally b4 you make your decision, or it will only worsen the situation. If you can't let it go it will get worse.

we were really involved like 3 yrs involved. He did it while i lived with him in GA thats why i moved back to CO. and then when i was in africa he did it, and a couple other times

**Deltsarehot8** · 12-22-2006, 09:37 PM

Originally Posted by I**mfkr

He's cheated on you twice and you're still with him. LOL You're pathetic.
You may respect him but obviously he has no respect for you, nor would I if my wife stayed with me if I cheated, but then again I wouldn't ever do that to someone I claimed to love.

he cheated on me more than twice

**stayinstacked** · 12-22-2006, 09:38 PM

Originally Posted by Deltsarehot8

we were really involved like 3 yrs involved. He did it while i lived with him in GA thats why i moved back to CO. and then when i was in africa he did it, and a couple other times

How'd you catch him? Did he fess up or did you actually catch him?

**abstrack** · 12-22-2006, 09:39 PM

Originally Posted by I**mfkr

He's cheated on you twice and you're still with him. LOL You're pathetic.
You may respect him but obviously he has no respect for you, nor would I if my wife stayed with me if I cheated, but then again I wouldn't ever do that to someone I claimed to love.

LMFAO

**IBdmfkr** · 12-22-2006, 09:40 PM

I'm not sure I have any advice for you then, obviously you enjoy being mistreated and disrespected seeing as you keep going back expecting a different result.

Good luck, I'm sure you're gonna have a great marriage. I'd say go ahead and move that way you can atleast stay in the loop when he continues to bang other chicks. Be sure to let us know when it happens so we have something to talk about around here.. it should be entertaining.

**Deltsarehot8** · 12-22-2006, 09:40 PM

Originally Posted by stayinstacked

How'd you catch him? Did he fess up or did you actually catch him?

i knew he did, but he lied to me for over a year about it until he fessed up

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