Wifes Pregnant Lifes OVER!!!!

[dhriscerr]

Yeah so my wife just told me last night that she missed her period at the end of last month, and she didn't want to tell me because she thought I'd flip on her. Well she got a pregnancy test and took it tonight, it says she pregnant. I already have a 10 month old! and Im going to college full time, not to mention I just lost my job 3 weeks ago, So basically I feel like my life is FVCKED, I've never wanted to crawl in a hole and never come out again so bad in my entire life. Basically I'm thinking I am going to have to get a damn factory job now and go to school at night so I can make money and have benifits and have my wife stay home with the 2 kids and babysit, so that way she doesn't have to pay for babysitting and she can make more money doing that then she does at her job now!!!! AAAAAAAAAGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHH I JUST WANT TO CRY!!!!! FVCK, all I can think is why me, why now??? What pisses me off more than anything is she wasn't on the pill the first 2 years we were married and we did it like rabbits and ever since she had our daughter she was on the pill and we did it like 1-2 times a month and I always pulled out, not that its that safe, but I figured pulling out with the pill would be good!! I dont ever want to go near another woman the rest of my life!!!! and I dont want a damn factory job, they suck there the worst jobs in the world!!!! And once I get a job and she babysits, then when I get my degree I'll want to change jobs but I dont want a laps in my health insurance so I'll never change, and I destined to have a horrible life!!! Baby's are suppose to bring joy to a marriage, and this is tearing me apart!!

[Benches505]

Gratz on the baby and sorry about the headaches. I'm held back from so many things due to my having kids...and I wouldn't trade it for a billion dollars!

[Schmidty]

look at the bright side, you might not want to be at this point but atleast ur alive. Congrats on the kids

[PROTEINSHAKE]

kids-some people dont want em...some cant even have em... makes me wonder why that is sometimes...

sorry for the complications you are having..I hope the wife/baby & new one to come will be healthy..things always work out somehow man. good luck

[x_moe]

seems like you got married at an early age, congrats on the baby tho

[CoreyTampa09]

Wait, you cant bust in a girl if shes on birth control....if not then damn ive gotten lucky millions of times haha. My advice to you, if your wife is smart and you got some extra cash try and start her up on a ebay businnes. Can help with some extra income.

[dhriscerr]

got married at 19 yeah stupid I know! Trust me I know, and It's not that I dont want another kid, I love the one I got and wanted another one, just wanted to wait until I had my degree and a career, not some busted ass job. Atleast they will be out of the house by the time Im 40 and I'll be young enought to still do all the cool shit with them. FVCK this sucks!

[Schmidty]

Married at 19 damn. im 19 and i dont see myself walkin down the aisle any time soon. I may as well be married tho. Is ur relationship with ur wife still good, aside from the kid

[Doc.Sust]

Wait, you cant bust in a girl if shes on birth control....if not then damn ive gotten lucky millions of times haha. My advice to you, if your wife is smart and you got some extra cash try and start her up on a ebay businnes. Can help with some extra income.

me too! i can tbelieve you got her preg while on the pill and pulling out, i would have bet that would be a winning combo for no pregnancy

[dhriscerr]

Yeah, well, Im on cycle too!!! and have been for 5 weeks now wish I woulda started 10 weeks ago then that woulda maybe helped also.

[Doc.Sust]

Yeah, well, Im on cycle too!!! and have been for 5 weeks now wish I woulda started 10 weeks ago then that woulda maybe helped also.

j=geez, how the hell did this happen? well this is a miracle baby than, it must have been meant to be if it happened considering how slim the possibilty it was to get her pregnant. i know it seems so bad now, but you will look back in a few years and realize that it was all worth it and you will be happy that you have a great child

[Bojangles69]

If thats your wife in the avy Id have like 70 kids by now.

BUt yeh they say 10 mins of joy for a man = 9 months of joy for the woman lol. Understand shes prob going through a good deal of shit too.
She has to know, maternally, that her kid will have a 100% supportive and protective environment. So I'd try my best to man up and make sure she knows everything will be fine. I know its not the most practical advice but put it this way.
What choices do you really have? Abortion? If not you might as well just accept the shit, make the best of it, and try to be happy about it. Because your wife WANTS you to be happy. Dont bring a kid into this world feeling like it was mistake, thats worse than abortion imo. So just do whats best for the child and your wife, your where the pants in the family.
Sometimes its hard but fvck it, just take it a day at a time and youll be cool.

[dhriscerr]

Yeah abortions out of the question, not that I dont believe in it because I do think that its a choice. But were married and we already have one and planned on later having another, it would just be retarted to do that. Yeah about the what choice do I have? and 100% supportive enviroment, I know Im going to make sure she does, its was just all so fast, between losing my job and this and so many things in my life. I know ill get through it and everything will work out in the end, and I will have 2 beautiful baby's,.....a damn it this one better be a BOY, she got her girl!!! Thanks for the support guys, I guess thats really what I needed right now!

[PROTEINSHAKE]

maybe its not yours?? just kiddin...trying to cheer up this thread a bit

[Doc.Sust]

Yeah abortions out of the question, not that I dont believe in it because I do think that its a choice. But were married and we already have one and planned on later having another, it would just be retarted to do that. Yeah about the what choice do I have? and 100% supportive enviroment, I know Im going to make sure she does, its was just all so fast, between losing my job and this and so many things in my life. I know ill get through it and everything will work out in the end, and I will have 2 beautiful baby's,.....a damn it this one better be a BOY, she got her girl!!! Thanks for the support guys, I guess thats really what I needed right now!

now back to the other question, is that your wife in the avatar, enquiring minds want to know

[Kale]

j=geez, how the hell did this happen? well this is a miracle baby than, it must have been meant to be if it happened considering how slim the possibilty it was to get her pregnant. i know it seems so bad now, but you will look back in a few years and realize that it was all worth it and you will be happy that you have a great child

I would be checking on the where abouts of the mail man !!!

[Doc.Sust]

I would be checking on the where abouts of the mail man !!!

milk man too! just kidding

[king6]

me too! i can tbelieve you got her preg while on the pill and pulling out, i would have bet that would be a winning combo for no pregnancy

I have never nutted inside a girl. I have with a condom, but not uncovered. If I do it uncovered, I always pull out. But if you still got her preggers with pulling out, that makes me worried. I was always afraid of getting a girl pregnant, but that is because I am unwed. At least you are married, you are not like those guys that get their girlfriends pregnant at 18, and have to deal with parents, and jobs, and child support.

[Doc.Sust]

now i am worried,i am not letting lose in my girlfriend anymore

[dhriscerr]

I think the pill makes her fertil, she wasnt on it and I nutted in her all the time no baby's she was on the pill for 3 months then got pregnant the 1st time, then she was on it for 10 months and got pregnant again. No that is not my wife in the avatar, I'd love it if it was though. I thought about that 2 maybe its not mine, but I take her to work and pick her up and she never wants to go anywhere. I really highly doubt it, and what difference would it make, Im not the one on the pill its her, I know my swimmers are good. Its not like I got my tubes tied and then she got pregnant. ???? Oh well it better be a boy!!!

[dhriscerr]

This is my wife, shes in the middle of the 1st 3 pics and obviously she's not me so the better looking one in the last 2.

[king6]

Your wife has some hot friends.

[dhriscerr]

Im assuming your talking about the 2 hotties flanking her in the first pic??? Both were marine wives also. I alwasy wanted to bone the one on the right with her bra strap hanging out.

[STYLE74]

Congrats on the baby bro and your wife is very pretty.

[Hoggage_54]

Im assuming your talking about the 2 hotties flanking her in the first pic??? Both were marine wives also. I alwasy wanted to bone the one on the right with her bra strap hanging out.

Me too!

[dhriscerr]

I just went through more pics of her friends, she has alot of hot friends! Hot cousins too!

[Hoggage_54]

More pictures please!

[dhriscerr]

Tommorow, I gotta get some sleep, if my mind will even let me???

[BgMc31]

Don't sweat it, homie!! Think of it as a blessing! My wife and I had all three of our kids by the time I graduated from college and all three pregnancies (actually it was 4 she had a miscarriage) she was on some type of birth control. My daughter the condom broke. My oldest son was a pill baby. My youngest son was a IUD baby. I still managed to graduate from college (and so did my wife), while playing football (full ride scholly). Wasn't drafted but picked up as a free agent. Played 4 yrs with two different teams. Was self employed for a couple years and now I'm the VP of a marketing firm (at 33). So life isn't over brotha!!! Shit can still work out for you!!!! Good luck, my children are the greatest thing in my life. And yes, me and the wifey are still together.

[Jason865]

Women are dream destroyers

[mavsluva]

Hey dhriscerr, my wife and I are in the market for a child. I'm not able to have one of my own so let me know your asking price.

Kidding, but really we are in the process of adopting a child. I think you'll become a better man because of this news. I think you know that you will, and it's time for you to believe so as well. I'll be praying for peace to be found within your heart so that you can fullfill the heart of your future child.

[wascaptain5214]

yall look like a happy family in the pic. you have been blessed to have another child, you just freaken out a little. once it sets in and the little bundle of joy comes, you will be ok. good luck

[vitor]

I would give her a good dose of the RU-486(abortion pill) and tell her it was vitamins....Its mean, but it would solve the problem...

Ending up with a "Factory-Job" is the most horrible thing that can happen, I worked in a place like that(along side school) a few years ago, Never again!!!!

[PROTEINSHAKE]

bro, after seeing the pics....you have a beautiful family & another one on the way...you should be proud...I know many couples that cant have kids AT ALL--no matter what they do. things will work out. Do what you have to do to provide for those kids. all the best-

[stuball]

I would give her a good dose of the RU-486(abortion pill) and tell her it was vitamins....Its mean, but it would solve the problem...

Ending up with a "Factory-Job" is the most horrible thing that can happen, I worked in a place like that(along side school) a few years ago, Never again!!!!

Its mean ???? Its outright illigel !!! How the fvck do you think a person could live with themself after doin something like that, how do you think he could look her in the eyes everyday knowing he killed a baby she loved.. You need therpy bro.

[Mick_540]

alright here is my 2 cents worth.

Plenty of people have had more kids in worse situations than you!! Yeah you will be tired, it will affect your training, you might have to work a crappy job for a while and study at night, but you have your whole life in front of you. Who cares if you don't get a real job until you are in your late 20s?? Who cares if the only way you can continue training is to hit the gym at 5am?? these are the sacrifices you make as a father and at the end of the day nothing will make you happier than being a dad! End of story! So go tell your wife how excited you are that you are going to have another little one to call you "DADDY".

[ACE24]

With a mouth like your wife's, how the phuck did she get pregnant? Damn, I would put that mouth to work.

I felt the same day way about my first child, now I look back and feel like a retard for ever thinking my life was over. I train with both my boys, coach their baseball teams, attend all their school functions and LOVE every minute of it. I am very proud of my two kids and you will be too.

[Foskamink]

look at the briahgt side, if you got tow boys, they will be tough and stick together at close age. if you got two girls they are going to be hoes, and if you got one of each they will fight alot but will protect each other.

[BITTAPART2]

^^dude^^ thats his wife bro that was alittle harsh.
anyways, trust me you hear this a lot but you will never understand how much joy a child can bring to your life until you have one yourself yes your life just changed a lot but unfortunatly life is never predictable, this is a lesson we all learn, we have to roll w/ the punches. keep your head up and keep telling yourself it will be ok and you will see so many wonderful things when you have a child.

[donniebrasco]

R.I.P


HERE LIES DHRISCERR, ONCE BIG

lol.

whats one more ay.