ok guys i am 18 yrs old and i've been talking to this girl for a little over a month now, like we hang out every day, do everything together, we are basically boyfriend/girlfriend but without the title, so yeah we always in touch, we even make love and everything... i want to call her my girlfriend so badley, but she just got out of a long relationship and isn't ready, she says she has to be ok with herself before she can be ok with someone else, plus she is going away to college in the end of august... i live on long island and she is going upstate so it's not too bad.. anyway it's just too hard doing all this stuff, her not being my girlfriend andknowing she is going away to college, it kills me inside, i'm the kind of guy who wants a relationship, likes all that lovey dovey stuff, i won't have sex unless i'm in a relationship, i have made love to two girls in my life and i turned about a whole towns worth of ***** down because it's just not me.. anyway she says if it's worth the wait then i should stick it out but i tell her i can't do this no longer unless we are in a relationship, it's just going to be too hard when she goes away.. she cries i know she cares for me she gets so jealous and cries all the time when i talk about this, she isn't those kind of girls that just uses people i know her... i really care for her and think about her so much and she does the same for me, but she can't have a relationship right now and i want one... should i suck it up and keep seeing her or should i just end it because i know i will prob just get hurt later when she goes away...