would you

[gixxerboy1]

there was this girl i was seeing before moved. She cool and very cute. Good cook and all that. She wants to move out to Texas and stay with me. She's falling for me hard. I do like her. I would have to support her, well feed her atleast until she got a job here. It sucks here in texas so im debating it. She couldnt do it for a couple months. She is supposed to come visit in a week or 2

[Kratos]

I probably would cause I'm kinda hoping for a relationship soon. Depends what you want from life from here out. Would she be moving just for you or does she like the area? Girls that worship you are the best gf's.

[xavier_888888]

I wouldnt do If I was on your position.

[gixxerboy1]

I probably would cause I'm kinda hoping for a relationship soon. Depends what you want from life from here out. Would she be moving just for you or does she like the area? Girls that worship you are the best gf's.

she has never been here. She wants to come for me but wants a new start to,
I just feel bad if it doesnt work and have to send her packing half way across the country.

She talked to her mom about it and her mom supports her coming her.

BTW she is only 20

[shifty_git]

If you like her and she makes ya smile, go 4 it!

Can always end it if things don't go well.

[Kratos]

Only 20, oh man it's gonna be a shit-show if it doesn't work out. Oh well give it a try.

[PEWN]

go for it .... like shifty said you can always end it before it gets to serious.

[goodcents]

she has never been here. She wants to come for me but wants a new start to,
I just feel bad if it doesnt work and have to send her packing half way across the country.

She talked to her mom about it and her mom supports her coming her.

BTW she is only 20

Lonely down there big sexy? I would have her come out but you know it won't last but hey nothing last forever any waysWhich chic is this?

[D-Unit 39]

Do it

[_CrossroadS_]

I won't live with another girl unless I have already planned to marry her. It's totally different when you both have your own place even if you stay together every night. Especially when it is your place and you pay for everything in it, and she isn't everything you expect. Then you get mad, and pull that "hey I pay the bills, run the show" bit, and suddenly she is breaking sh*t and you make her leave, and she takes your dog one day when you are at work, so you call the cops, have her arrested and get your dog back, then sleep with her friends for good measure...

Sorry. Long story short, I vote no.

[DSM4Life]

Bad call.

First off what type of girls says "Can i move down there with you ....oh by the way and i need you to support me as well !"

PASSSSSS

[gixxerboy1]

Lonely down there big sexy? I would have her come out but you know it won't last but hey nothing last forever any waysWhich chic is this?

I'm home sick

New girl she is AMERICAN.

[gixxerboy1]

Bad call.

First off what type of girls says "Can i move down there with you ....oh by the way and i need you to support me as well !"

PASSSSSS

she didnt say i would have to support her. Im jsut figureing ill have to help some until she gets settled. But if she is cooking, cleaning and ****ing its ok

[DSM4Life]

I don't care how hot she is, your just allowing yourself to be used.

[DSM4Life]

she didnt say i would have to support her. Im jsut figureing ill have to help some until she gets settled. But if she is cooking, cleaning and ****ing its ok

Why should you have to help her ? Are you her father ?

If she had a job and such i would say maybe. Take this into account, say you two break up then what ? She can't afford to move out and get her own place so what are you going to do with her now ?

To me it seems as though you would be backing yourself into a corner.

[Amorphic]

i wouldnt do it.

[gixxerboy1]

Why should you have to help her ? Are you her father ?

If she had a job and such i would say maybe. Take this into account, say you two break up then what ? She can't afford to move out and get her own place so what are you going to do with her now ?

To me it seems as though you would be backing yourself into a corner.

thats why im unsure.

[Amorphic]

thats why im unsure.

take DSM's advice, hes right. dont back yourself into a corner.

[gixxerboy1]

take DSM's advice, hes right. dont back yourself into a corner.

my other friends like its only $200 for a plane ticket to send her home.

I think im just lonely and homesick and trying to talk myself into it

[_CrossroadS_]

thats why im unsure.

You are taking a person, whose use of reason and rational/critical thinking will go out the window if you piss them off, into your home.

Why not just help her look for a job, then a place, then help her move in.

It's not deciding which flavor protein to buy, you are going to have a person in your home.

I would really think this one through...

[StoneGRMI]

I wouldn't do it. The other girls you have dated and posted pics of here were much hotter.

[DSM4Life]

my other friends like its only $200 for a plane ticket to send her home.

I think im just lonely and homesick and trying to talk myself into it

If your that homesick , NYC is about 1.5 hrs away from me, start dinner and ill bring the lube....i mean movie.

EDIT
just saw your other post about you being in TX, no butt for you now.

[gixxerboy1]

If your that homesick , NYC is about 1.5 hrs away from me, start dinner and ill bring the lube....i mean movie.

EDIT
just saw your other post about you being in TX, no butt for you now.

its only a 2 hour flight

[DSM4Life]

its only a 2 hour flight

I hate planes. Looks like ill cook the dinner then.

[audis4]

if you care about her and you have extra money whats wrong with that?

if you're having doubts, which it sounds like you are, why not hold up for a bit? its not going to hurt either one of you. I would just have her 'hang out' for the summer, see how she likes it and go from there.

[BigLittleTim]

Fact: She IS an attractive girl, and is probably a nice person.

Fact: When someone moves long-distance to date/move-in with someone they barely know it seldom works out.

I predict nothing but heart-break dead ahead.

-BigLittleTim

[CheddaNips]

Feed her for *****? Im on cycle so i would say yes

[gixxerboy1]

if you care about her and you have extra money whats wrong with that?
if you're having doubts, which it sounds like you are, why not hold up for a bit? its not going to hurt either one of you. I would just have her 'hang out' for the summer, see how she likes it and go from there.

I like her. Havent known her that long. Money wise i can afford it but it wont cost much. She 20 so we arent gonig out drinking. She would rather cook then go out for dinner and she isnt into real expensive stuff.

So real expence extra food shopping?

[l2elapse]

where in texas are you

[SMCengineer]

I didn't read the rest of the post's, but from your description I wouldn't do it. Things could turn ugly quick. By "seeing" do you mean you were actually dating her and, if so, for how long? This sounds like it could be a bad situation.

What happened to that other girl you were trying to get with that you posted about? Why don't you try and make things work there?

[gixxerboy1]

I didn't read the rest of the post's, but from your description I wouldn't do it. Things could turn ugly quick. By "seeing" do you mean you were actually dating her and, if so, for how long? This sounds like it could be a bad situation.

What happened to that other girl you were trying to get with that you posted about? Why don't you try and make things work there?

we were working together at a bar and dating. So iknow her for a while dated maybe 5-6 weeks

that 18 year old. She is ok. I would hang out with her agian but she i way to immature its not going to go anywherw

[gixxerboy1]

where in texas are you

addison

[SMCengineer]

5-6 weeks is not ong enough to really know someone even if you did work with her. I personally wouldn't do it. Have you ever lived with a girl that you were dating?

[gixxerboy1]

5-6 weeks is not ong enough to really know someone even if you did work with her. I personally wouldn't do it. Have you ever lived with a girl that you were dating?

yes 3 of them. One girl moved in after 2 weeks we ended up together for 2+ years and we ended up engaged. another was about 6 months in and together for 4+

[SMCengineer]

^^so at least you have the experience to know what's best for you. You could always help her just find a place to move into instead of letting her stay with you.

[Oki-Des]

Go for it. If it does not work out you both know your place is your place (meaning she would probably leave) Just enjoy yourself and have fun with her. I had the same thing happen 6 years ago. I had never been faithful to anyone prior to her yet I have been and have been with her for the past 6 years.
The crazy thing is I am still in love with her.
Go for it!

[firmechicano831]

Number one lets see a picture of her. Second, once she gets there hit it really hard night and day. Then ask her, are u sure u want to stay cause things are just heating up right here. lol

[Panzerfaust]

there was this girl i was seeing before moved. She cool and very cute. Good cook and all that. She wants to move out to Texas and stay with me. She's falling for me hard. I do like her. I would have to support her, well feed her atleast until she got a job here. It sucks here in texas so im debating it. She couldnt do it for a couple months. She is supposed to come visit in a week or 2

I tried to ****ing tell you but you wouldn't listen.

[goodcents]

Number one lets see a picture of her. Second, once she gets there hit it really hard night and day. Then ask her, are u sure u want to stay cause things are just heating up right here. lol

See post 12

[goodcents]

I'm home sick

New girl she is AMERICAN.