Give me a reason not to

[Diary of a Mad-man]

I have to meet my x wife and her new husband (a cop) Oct 18th. As many of you know, this sucks. He is my sons 2nd stepdad. I want him to know who the **** is boss, as many of you must understand.

Here is my question:

My last shot of Test 250mg (cycle lasted 9 weeks) was on 7-5-08. I stopped my nolva on 8-27-08.

According to my calculations, you all say, wait you cycle (9 weeks) plus your pct (7 weeks starting after 2nd week of no shots), so, are you saying wait till next year basicly?~?~?!?!?!?!

I know I should wait, but everything in my head is telling me to start in 2 weeks, giving me a time off of 12 weeks from my last shot.

I keep thinking of ways to explain my story, and I hope, most of you know where I am coming from, wether or not i am being a dumb ass right now. You can fill in the blanks yourselves, my xwife = evil.

Please give me a reason not to start a new cycle in 2 weeks.

[smokethedays]

the wait is not mandatroy, it is a safety policy, thats all.
you don't even have to wait 2 more weeks, IMO start asap with a shrot ester Test (Base or Prop) or oral (anavar or D-bol). for 3-4 weeks. Along with longer ester (Deca or Tren E if statrted with either Test or Test E or Cyp if you chose orals to kickstart.

[AnimalGear]

Um is this necessary...?

[oneshot]

Why do you want to start so soon? Are you planning on kicking this guys ass or something? Poor choice if so

[godkilla]

is that you sustaman?

[Skully44420]

is that you sustaman?

[JiGGaMaN]

If this is a real question then you should really not be using. You are not of sound mind.

[smokethedays]

If this is a real question then you should really not be using. You are not of sound mind.

[Freakish]

im kinda lost?you wanna go on gear for what?put a beating on this guy?and u sayin u cant without gear?or what?im i bein stupid?im lost

[Voice of Reason]

I want him to know who the fvck is boss, as many of you must understand.

He just wants to do a cycle so this cop knows who the fvck is boss... Geez many of you must understand. (/wtf)

[Flagg]

This is a weird thread.

I thought you was going to ask us how the best way to talk to this guy was. And it went from a domestic problem to an anabolic one.

weird.

[Flagg]

He just wants to do a cycle so this cop knows who the fvck is boss... Geez many of you must understand. (/wtf)

Well that sounds ridiculous. What's he gonna tell the ex wife. "Okay, I want to meet this guy, but in 10 weeks time. OKAY!?"

[GT2]

I am still confused as to what exactly you're asking??

[stpete]

Why does meeting this guy and starting a cycle such a big deal? Mett the guy, shake his hand, tell him good luck and that's it. My ex's ex is a deputy sheriff. I don't fvck with him.

[40plusnewbie]

I have to meet my x wife and her new husband (a cop) Oct 18th. As many of you know, this sucks. He is my sons 2nd stepdad. I want him to know who the **** is boss, as many of you must understand.

Here is my question:

My last shot of Test 250mg (cycle lasted 9 weeks) was on 7-5-08. I stopped my nolva on 8-27-08.

According to my calculations, you all say, wait you cycle (9 weeks) plus your pct (7 weeks starting after 2nd week of no shots), so, are you saying wait till next year basicly?~?~?!?!?!?!

I know I should wait, but everything in my head is telling me to start in 2 weeks, giving me a time off of 12 weeks from my last shot.

I keep thinking of ways to explain my story, and I hope, most of you know where I am coming from, wether or not i am being a dumb ass right now. You can fill in the blanks yourselves, my xwife = evil.

Please give me a reason not to start a new cycle in 2 weeks.

How about this for a reason:

He's going to be around your kid(s) 24/7 and if you rub him the wrong way he might treat them even just a little bet *less nice* since they are not his own biological kids and he thinks their dad is a dickhead.

So the reason is to prevent your kids from missing out on the best possible life they can have, to not be the cause of him resenting them a little bit (as irrational as that would be) because he resents their dad. That's some psychology stuff but it's for real dude. Not saying it WILL happen, but it COULD.

[Kale]

I have to meet my x wife and her new husband (a cop) Oct 18th. As many of you know, this sucks. He is my sons 2nd stepdad. I want him to know who the **** is boss, as many of you must understand.

Here is my question:

My last shot of Test 250mg (cycle lasted 9 weeks) was on 7-5-08. I stopped my nolva on 8-27-08.

According to my calculations, you all say, wait you cycle (9 weeks) plus your pct (7 weeks starting after 2nd week of no shots), so, are you saying wait till next year basicly?~?~?!?!?!?!

I know I should wait, but everything in my head is telling me to start in 2 weeks, giving me a time off of 12 weeks from my last shot.

I keep thinking of ways to explain my story, and I hope, most of you know where I am coming from, wether or not i am being a dumb ass right now. You can fill in the blanks yourselves, my xwife = evil.

Please give me a reason not to start a new cycle in 2 weeks.

Based on this post your userid is entirely accurate

[DSM4Life]

I have to meet my x wife and her new husband (a cop) Oct 18th. As many of you know, this sucks. He is my sons 2nd stepdad. I want him to know who the **** is boss, as many of you must understand.

Here is my question:

My last shot of Test 250mg (cycle lasted 9 weeks) was on 7-5-08. I stopped my nolva on 8-27-08.

According to my calculations, you all say, wait you cycle (9 weeks) plus your pct (7 weeks starting after 2nd week of no shots), so, are you saying wait till next year basicly?~?~?!?!?!?!

I know I should wait, but everything in my head is telling me to start in 2 weeks, giving me a time off of 12 weeks from my last shot.

I keep thinking of ways to explain my story, and I hope, most of you know where I am coming from, wether or not i am being a dumb ass right now. You can fill in the blanks yourselves, my xwife = evil.

Please give me a reason not to start a new cycle in 2 weeks.

[Diary of a Mad-man]

Thank you Smokethedays: I guess I should have just asked, "how fast can I jump back on?" Without most of you having too think to hard beyond that, since 50% of your replies were asshole.

OK, gee, I never said anything about an ass beating.......So I am totally insane to want to look my biggest and best when I meet my Xwife for the first time in years with her husband??? I dont understand what is so hard to grasp. It would be no different if I had a highschool reunion in 2 weeks.

I want to look good basicly.

From what I understand, he already IS an asshole to my son.

Thanks for the SOMEWHAT constructive critisism.
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PLEASE if you have no positive replies dont bother to post... thanks

[gixxerboy1]

seriously mad man edit or delete your last post

[Dukkit]

yea, i would agree with gixxer and say edit that shit

or buh bye, admin doesnt take well to things like that

[novastepp]

maybe concentrate on being a good father, not impressing the guy who's currently doing your job.

[smokeyd]

bahahahaha

[*Admin*]

maybe concentrate on being a good father, not impressing the guy who's currently doing your job.

May I ask where it says he is not a great father doing a good job....


BTW.... being married to an Xwife does not mean he is doing the birth fathers job it means that the birth fathers Xwife remarried someone...


it sounds a little like maybe he is trying to look good for himself as well as to impress his X (maybe let her know what she lost) and let the current step-father know that he is able to handle him if he continues to give his child a hard time... not saying that either reason is a great one but just a thought...


as for should you start another cycle now as opposed to waiting... well only you can decide that and it is dependant on many factors as you know....

good luck and remember how you act toward the step father does determine how he will react from now on towards you and your son... be the bigger man wish him well and ask him to let you know if he needs help with your son in anyway you will be there to help support the choices made... this is not easy for the step parent either...

[Diary of a Mad-man]

maybe concentrate on being a good father, not impressing the guy who's currently doing your job.

Ouch, that DOES hurt, but my son lives 5 states away and is autistic. He is 6 years old and doesnt/wont/cant even talk on the phone. He also hasnt lived with me since he was 2 weeks old. He points and grunts at the fridge when he wants food. I get him from his grandparents maybe twice a year, so you see, I havent seen the x-wife and her 100 new f4ck toys that I pay $400 a month, wether they be cops or not. Thanks though. The guy whos doing my job huh..........?

Anywho, yeah, I just wanted to start gaining the weight before I saw them for cosmetic reasons, because I am immature and insecure. Like I said, think of it as wanting to look good at a highschool reunion. IS THIS OK WITH EVERYBODY?!?!?!?!?!?!?

I wanted to know the cons of starting a little before the 15 weeks i was suggested.

[novastepp]

Ouch, that DOES hurt, but my son lives 5 states away and is autistic. He is 6 years old and doesnt/wont/cant even talk on the phone. He also hasnt lived with me since he was 2 weeks old. He points and grunts at the fridge when he wants food. I get him from his grandparents maybe twice a year, so you see, I havent seen the x-wife and her 100 new f4ck toys that I pay $400 a month, wether they be cops or not. Thanks though.

Anywho, yeah, I just wanted to start gaining the weight before I saw them for cosmetic reasons, because I am immature and insecure. Like I said, think of it as wanting to look good at a highschool reunion. IS THIS OK WITH EVERYBODY?!?!?!?!?!?!?

only said that because you made some blatant comments about someone you didn't know. just following the suitor of the thread. which i see now you finally edited.

[Diary of a Mad-man]

only said that because you made some blatant comments about someone you didn't know. just following the suitor of the thread. which i see now you finally edited.

Yeah, you think "blatant comments about someone you didn't know" = rubbing in what you said above?

Are you referring to my reply to DSM? Ever heard of overkill? I didn't need a gif or an insult or an insight into anyones sex life. Just a number like the first reply to my post.

Here's to you sitting here and getting your 20,000th post!

[novastepp]

Yeah, you think "blatant comments about someone you didn't know" = rubbing in what you said above?

Are you referring to my reply to DSM? Ever heard of overkill? I didn't need a gif or an insult or an insight into anyones sex life. Just a number like the first reply to my post.

Here's to you sitting here and getting your 20,000th post!

you have to take everything into consideration when giving advice. even if it's bad advice. from what we can gather from your entire post it seems motives aren't in the right place. hence some of the other responses.

[Diary of a Mad-man]

you have to take everything into consideration when giving advice. even if it's bad advice. from what we can gather from your entire post it seems motives aren't in the right place. hence some of the other responses.

go "pick a fight"

[VeraDeMilo]

Good luck... I can understand where you are coming from, as I was 10 years old when my parents got divorced. My mother got remarried a year later. I was very close to my father who was a very large, tough and intimidating guy. A piece of advice that I can give to you is that its fine to want to go in as big looking and intimidating as you can. The looks alone will let the guy know physically who's boss. But be polite and respectable. Kindness doesn't necessarily equal weakness.

This is going to be the guy who is with your child day in and day out. And he is going into a relationship with you ex-wife knowing that baggage comes with her, ie: an ex husband, more bills, a child with special needs who will require even more attention and care than a normal child. That act alone is respectable enough that he is stepping up to the plate.

And from first hand experience, any tension you cause between you and him or you and the mother will have a direct effect on the sons treatment. (Because without the child in the picture, you would not be in the picture, nor would any of the un-needed stress that is being caused by you)

Shake the guys hand, offer support, and ask him to take care of your boy for you since you can't be there. It doesn't make you less of a father.

My stepfather is a great man. He married my mother when she had 3 children from a previous marriage. And he went with less in his life so we could all have more, even if we weren't his by blood, he treated us like we were. And I can't tell you how much love and respect I have for the guy for doing that for us. But also know, that that doesn't replace any love or respect that I have for my own father. And if anything, now being an adult, I have even more respect for him, realizing how hard it must have been to lose your wife and have another man take your place at the table, get more time to spend with your children, and not pound the guys head in.

[Timm1704]

first off, although i think your first post was baffling and came across wrong, i still had a feeling that it was cosmetic reasons being the root of all this.

Second, the biggest issues as far as jumping back on sooner rather than later would be that you dont give your body time to get back to its normal state, and increase the risk of permanently harming your natural hormone production. I know my blood pressure can go higher when im on cycle, so i like to give it time to stay at its normal levels inbetween cycles.

Also, your receptors may not have been given enough time to "clear out" so to speak, meaning when you do jump back on steroids, your gains wont be so dramatic and the side effects you experience may be more severe

[zimmy]

I just have to add...you posted

I havent seen the x-wife and her 100 new f4ck toys that I pay $400 a month, wether they be cops or not.

That 400 is a drop in the bucket in taking care of your child. Many people think of it like they are paying for their x's to partying or whatever....but serious 400 doesn't cover much for a normal kid let alone a special needs child.

[Diary of a Mad-man]

I just have to add...you posted

That 400 is a drop in the bucket in taking care of your child. Many people think of it like they are paying for their x's to partying or whatever....but serious 400 doesn't cover much for a normal kid let alone a special needs child.

True. Good point. Thanks for the replies. I will take all of your advice. I am going to do my best to keep things cool.

Just had to throw the $400 in there. I know most people pay more. My son hardly lives with the mom, and stays mostly with his grandparents (who are loaded) in white trash state far away. They all (son, mom, gparents) live there. Its ironic that they are "loaded" and white trash, but there you go.

[zimmy]

I wasn't insulting how much you pay, I was just commenting. My fionce has been accussed of going out and partying with her child support money...and I gotta say...kids are fricking $ :\

[novastepp]

look it only seemed that you wanted to intimidate the guy. understandable. but the way you said it "show him who's boss" made me think you wanted to be on cycle so shit would go down and you would feel more prepared for it. seems that's not the case.

personally i think you should prepare a few lines about how much you love those kids. nothing will show him up more than you demonstrating that you are more of a man, and personally that comes from much more than muscle.

i wouldn't start my cycle until at least 4-6 weeks after pct just so certain receptors are freed, and your cycle will be much more beneficial if you can try and lean up a little in the meantime.

i cam off brash because i thought you were just missing a few screws and had intentions on fighting this guy. and in front of the kids you already don't get to spend time with sounded ridiculous. again, be stoic around him, but let him see your emotions when you are around your children. it reveals a lot, without showing him anything

[WOLFCRAFT]

I don't see what's so hard to understand...
If I were going to see an ex I hadn't seen in a while AND meet her new guy, yeah I would want to look as big and bad as possible.
Let HER see how good I'm looking and let HIM see that I'm not a little wimp to **** around with.
Plus I think you'd just walk into the situation with more self-confidence.
Pretty simple if you ask me.

And I think it's incredibly shitty of anyone to bag on this guy about it, you're not him and don't live his life.
I'm sure your reasons for juicing are no less crazy than his.

[JiGGaMaN]

I don't see what's so hard to understand...
If I were going to see an ex I hadn't seen in a while AND meet her new guy, yeah I would want to look as big and bad as possible.
Let HER see how good I'm looking and let HIM see that I'm not a little wimp to **** around with.
Plus I think you'd just walk into the situation with more self-confidence.
Pretty simple if you ask me.

And I think it's incredibly shitty of anyone to bag on this guy about it, you're not him and don't live his life.
I'm sure your reasons for juicing are no less crazy than his.

but would you jump on cycle to look bigger in 3 weeks? i still think this is ridiculous.

[40plusnewbie]

Thank you Smokethedays: I guess I should have just asked, "how fast can I jump back on?" Without most of you having too think to hard beyond that, since 50% of your replies were asshole.

OK, gee, I never said anything about an ass beating.......So I am totally insane to want to look my biggest and best when I meet my Xwife for the first time in years with her husband??? I dont understand what is so hard to grasp. It would be no different if I had a highschool reunion in 2 weeks.

I want to look good basicly.

From what I understand, he already IS an asshole to my son.

Thanks for the SOMEWHAT constructive critisism.
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PLEASE if you have no positive replies dont bother to post... thanks

Dude, I didn't mean to insult you. I misunderstood your post. I thought you were saying "give me a reaon why I shouldn't jack myself with tren so I can be an agressive and intimidating mo fo when I meet my wife's new husband.....give me a reason why I shouldn't (because I sure as hell want to!)

I didn't read it as "I want to look solid/buff/masculine/as desireable as possible to females/healthy/etc" when I meet him/them.

That's why I replied the way I did. Maybe it was my fault, I'm often mistaken, but that's the way I interpreted your post and that's the way I responded the way I did. Sorry I misunderstood.

R we cool bro?

edited it: I just re-read your op. Why do you feel there needs to be 'a boss'? Maybe you mean something different by that statement than the way I interpret it. I'm not sure. That's a serious question in efforts to give you positive and helpful feedback.

[Big]

How about this for a reason:

He's going to be around your kid(s) 24/7 and if you rub him the wrong way he might treat them even just a little bet *less nice* since they are not his own biological kids and he thinks their dad is a dickhead.

So the reason is to prevent your kids from missing out on the best possible life they can have, to not be the cause of him resenting them a little bit (as irrational as that would be) because he resents their dad. That's some psychology stuff but it's for real dude. Not saying it WILL happen, but it COULD.

Thank you. When my ex-wife remarried, I went out of my way to get along with her new husband. We ended up getting along very well, and as a result my boy had 2 guys he considered "dad". The entire idea of wanting to "show him who's boss" before you ever meet him is beyond me. What if he's a great guy and treats your ex and kids very well? How exactly are you "the boss" anyway?

[WOLFCRAFT]

but would you jump on cycle to look bigger in 3 weeks? i still think this is ridiculous.

Honestly I can't say if I would or wouldn't... it depends on the situation... but either way I would definitely ask other's advice first, which is all he was doing.

[40plusnewbie]

May I ask where it says he is not a great father doing a good job....


BTW.... being married to an Xwife does not mean he is doing the birth fathers job it means that the birth fathers Xwife remarried someone...


it sounds a little like maybe he is trying to look good for himself as well as to impress his X (maybe let her know what she lost) and let the current step-father know that he is able to handle him if he continues to give his child a hard time... not saying that either reason is a great one but just a thought...


as for should you start another cycle now as opposed to waiting... well only you can decide that and it is dependant on many factors as you know....

good luck and remember how you act toward the step father does determine how he will react from now on towards you and your son... be the bigger man wish him well and ask him to let you know if he needs help with your son in anyway you will be there to help support the choices made... this is not easy for the step parent either...

Awseome post bro, you deserve a raise.