Well, I lost access to the female forum since I have my hubbys name in my user name. I guess they think we share a name and don't understand that he has his own name over on the male forum. I use the same name on every board i post on because its easy for me to remember my name and PW to each site. I knew it was a mistake leaving my other board for here, guess I'll go back there now. Catch everyone some other time. Bye!