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  1. 05-01-2010, 09:24 PM #1
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    Shit.... Venting my chest out!

    So here is the fvcking story since my first baby came my wife got lesser and lesser time to me.... Well that's understandable but what pisses me off is, I'm just asking 2 hours of us alone this Sunday just the 2 of us... my baby will go to my parent's house just for two fvcking ours.... you know what I mean, having sex without worrying if the baby will wake up!!!!! 2 fvcking hours alone with me... She doesn't want to the baby to be out of her sight....

    I'm thinking of fvcking other woman now it's been 9 months without privacy! I'm going crazy!
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    that sucks bro...

    sex with other women? then the next thing you know you will have child support and no time with the wife or baby...lol

    just tell her how you feel bro and work with her to get the problem resolved

    good luck

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    Sometimes first time mothers are kind of addicted to their babies and have a phobia of leaving them.. having a family is a life changing thing bro and it takes some getting used to. A lot of us by nature have a selfish side. I'm not saying that you're being selfish and I'm not saying that she's being selfish, but its sometimes hard for us to understand the way they think. Does she not want to have sex with you at all, or does your baby wake up frequently?

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    Quote Originally Posted by *RAGE* View Post
    that sucks bro...

    sex with other women? then the next thing you know you will have child support and no time with the wife or baby...lol

    just tell her how you feel bro and work with her to get the problem resolved

    good luck

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    Quote Originally Posted by Igifuno View Post
    Sometimes first time mothers are kind of addicted to their babies and have a phobia of leaving them.. having a family is a life changing thing bro and it takes some getting used to. A lot of us by nature have a selfish side. I'm not saying that you're being selfish and I'm not saying that she's being selfish, but its sometimes hard for us to understand the way they think. Does she not want to have sex with you at all, or does your baby wake up frequently?

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    I hear you. It should get better over time. Once she actually breaks the ice with some "without baby" time, it'll be easier for her the next time, and easier the next. Hope it works out for you bro.. sounds frustrating.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Igifuno View Post
    I hear you. It should get better over time. Once she actually breaks the ice with some "without baby" time, it'll be easier for her the next time, and easier the next. Hope it works out for you bro.. sounds frustrating.
    I'm really frustrated as hell bro! I thinking of cheating just to comfort what I feel bro! it sucks really.....
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    Quote Originally Posted by jbm View Post
    I'm really frustrated as hell bro! I thinking of cheating just to comfort what I feel bro! it sucks really.....
    I can't really give you any advice there bro... that's up to you. Imagine of the tides were turned though.. would you give her another chance? I'm not judging.. trust me, but really think that through.. whatever you decide..
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    Quote Originally Posted by Igifuno View Post
    I can't really give you any advice there bro... that's up to you. Imagine of the tides were turned though.. would you give her another chance? I'm not judging.. trust me, but really think that through.. whatever you decide..
    It's been months I talk to her in a diplomatic way... We even fight 2x over this matter but still she insist what she likes... Sometimes I feel like I wanna go to other place for sometime to think and understand her....
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    just have a wank jbm, you know u want to


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    Quote Originally Posted by stevey_6t9 View Post
    just have a wank jbm, you know u want to


    your not helping bro!!! lolol....
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    Haha.. I just did.. good advice stevey.. way to come to the rescue..
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    Quote Originally Posted by jbm View Post
    So here is the fvcking story since my first baby came my wife got lesser and lesser time to me.... Well that's understandable but what pisses me off is, I'm just asking 2 hours of us alone this Sunday just the 2 of us... my baby will go to my parent's house just for two fvcking ours.... you know what I mean, having sex without worrying if the baby will wake up!!!!! 2 fvcking hours alone with me... She doesn't want to the baby to be out of her sight....

    I'm thinking of fvcking other woman now it's been 9 months without privacy! I'm going crazy!
    I have been there mate two kids of my own,your good wife has to take some time away from the kid just keep at her she will come round as for another woman I say no you dont need the greif get a good movie sit down on your own mind on your own with no worrys of baby or your good wife and pull the head off it or you could lose the lot is it worth all that sh1t
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    Quote Originally Posted by jbm View Post
    So here is the fvcking story since my first baby came my wife got lesser and lesser time to me.... Well that's understandable but what pisses me off is, I'm just asking 2 hours of us alone this Sunday just the 2 of us... my baby will go to my parent's house just for two fvcking ours.... you know what I mean, having sex without worrying if the baby will wake up!!!!! 2 fvcking hours alone with me... She doesn't want to the baby to be out of her sight....

    I'm thinking of fvcking other woman now it's been 9 months without privacy! I'm going crazy!
    LOL, 9 months!!!!! Give it 18 years and see how you feel. I still have my 18 yr old son and 22 yr old daughter in the house. One or the other is always home. This is a family home, just like your's is now.

    It's no longer just about you and your wife. Now you have a family. Does your baby sleep in another room? That's about all the privacy you're going to get. Wait until your baby gets around better. They'll walk in on you and your wife while you're having sex, walk in while you're in the bathroom, embarrass you in public, the fun is just starting.

    Im not saying it's wrong or you should feel guilty being frustrated, I've been frustrated for 22 years. You should be thankful you're still having sex with any frequency. That often drops off as the baby is taking so much energy from your wife.

    Welcome to fatherhood!!!!!!!
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    i could never do what you married/family guys do
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    Quote Originally Posted by cgb6810 View Post
    LOL, 9 months!!!!! Give it 18 years and see how you feel. I still have my 18 yr old son and 22 yr old daughter in the house. One or the other is always home. This is a family home, just like your's is now.

    It's no longer just about you and your wife. Now you have a family. Does your baby sleep in another room? That's about all the privacy you're going to get. Wait until your baby gets around better. They'll walk in on you and your wife while you're having sex, walk in while you're in the bathroom, embarrass you in public, the fun is just starting.

    Im not saying it's wrong or you should feel guilty being frustrated, I've been frustrated for 22 years. You should be thankful you're still having sex with any frequency. That often drops off as the baby is taking so much energy from your wife.

    Welcome to fatherhood!!!!!!!
    Well maybe I must concentrate more on test and bodybuilding than sex... lolol!
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    Quote Originally Posted by scorpion62 View Post
    I have been there mate two kids of my own,your good wife has to take some time away from the kid just keep at her she will come round as for another woman I say no you dont need the greif get a good movie sit down on your own mind on your own with no worrys of baby or your good wife and pull the head off it or you could lose the lot is it worth all that sh1t
    thanks bro... I must extend my patience more!
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    Yeah, I have a 4 yr old and a 6 month old. I don't see what the problem is. How old is your kid, 9 months? Unless the baby wakes up every couple hours (which shouldn't be the case at that age) you should be good to go come bedtime. As others have said, it's not going to get any better. That's a lot easier than having to lock your door in case your 4 year old walks in cause of a bad dream or something. I think you both just need to calm down. The baby will be fine while you guys have some "alone time".
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    JBM, didn't mean to bring you down. Fatherhood is great! But, it changes your life for ever. Im at the point now where Im looking forward to grandchildren.

    You'll have some time here and there. Just a phase of life you're going through. It gets better.
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    Quote Originally Posted by cgb6810 View Post
    JBM, didn't mean to bring you down. Fatherhood is great! But, it changes your life for ever. Im at the point now where Im looking forward to grandchildren.

    You'll have some time here and there. Just a phase of life you're going through. It gets better.
    thanks for the advice bro.....
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