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    Ever date a hot women and find flaws?

    Am I alone? I have a tendency to date 9/10 and 10/10 girls who at first I find extremely attractive but then I seem to find flaws and question how good looking they really are...I know its very superficial but I can help it.

    Il notice dumb things like the size of their nose or the way they smell in the morning, or parts of their body...I then question if the girl is really as hot as I think she is and if other see it? lol Then my eyes start to wonder and I leave the girl.

    This has happend with just about every girl I have dated except for my current gf who is amazing! but I will admit I have found my self looking at her this way at times...haha anyone eles?

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    cant help you on this one man, as soon as i **** most chicks its on to the next one, its like my brain says "mission accomplished". Lets see some pics! ha

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    It's your way of being scared of commitment.


    I just don't trust women so I don't look for flaws to leave I just leave or never really stay. I get what I want and stay distant.

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    of course i have. we all have em

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    yep..... I been there.....

    Usually the nite I meet them is when they look their best lol..... that could have something to do with being fvcked up tho lololol!

    ~Haz~

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    i dont get this thread.....every woman have flaws depends is to what purpose u want to use that woman for? for ****ing then fvck and move on. And seeing how u said 9/10 to 10/10 tells me u r extremely judgmental and cocky most woman especially if they are 9/10 to 10/10 wont put up with your shit(unless u r Brad pitt and/or extremely wealthy) and move on

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    Haz what u think of EQ?

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    Quote Originally Posted by stack_it View Post
    It's your way of being scared of commitment.


    I just don't trust women so I don't look for flaws to leave I just leave or never really stay. I get what I want and stay distant.
    Yeah makes alot of sens! my current gf is the only real meaningful realationship I have ever had...before that it was all two week flings and one night stands.

    As my relationship gets more and more intense and talk of marrage start to come up it scares the shit out of me! even though I have an amazing gf who is a knock out I still find flaws and prob exaggerated them in my mind...I start to question if she is as good looking as I once thought which sounds horrible I know! Then I find my eyes start to wonder even though I try my hardest to be good! lol

    I think I have some deep seeded childhood issues or somthing haha

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    Quote Originally Posted by calgarian View Post
    i dont get this thread.....every woman have flaws depends is to what purpose u want to use that woman for? for ****ing then fvck and move on. And seeing how u said 9/10 to 10/10 tells me u r extremely judgmental and cocky most woman especially if they are 9/10 to 10/10 wont put up with your shit(unless u r Brad pitt and/or extremely wealthy) and move on
    No no I agree every one has flaws no matter how good looking. Its not a vain thing its more just mental...I dont know how to explain it and perhaps its a guy thing but its just the way my brain works.

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    Quote Originally Posted by awms View Post
    No no I agree every one has flaws no matter how good looking. Its not a vain thing its more just mental...I dont know how to explain it and perhaps its a guy thing but its just the way my brain works.
    if u had a normal GUY brain u wouldnt be having relationship with 9/10 and 10/10 u will be ****ing them....and most woman know what they are good for....u r scared of commitment dont worry just keep fvcking them and move on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by calgarian View Post
    if u had a normal GUY brain u wouldnt be having relationship with 9/10 and 10/10 u will be ****ing them....and most woman know what they are good for....u r scared of commitment dont worry just keep fvcking them and move on.
    I did for a while...All I did was pick up chicks nad part. Its funny because thats how I met my gf...I spotted her at the bar, thought she was gorgeous so I started talking to her...talked to her the whole night and at the end of the night when she didnt put out in my head I was like "wtf this has never happend before" lol the next day I couldnt get her out of my head which had I slept with her that night I wouldnt have given a shit about her...the rest is history and now we are a couple lol

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    I dont usually think they are over the top hot, but I usualyl get the "what the hell is she doing with you" comments from my friends each time they see me with a new girl. Once Im with a girl, I dont even notice the flaws if you are talking about superfiscial stuff. Im usually more focused on mine and that overshadows any thought on critiquing hers

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    Quote Originally Posted by stack_it View Post
    It's your way of being scared of commitment.


    I just don't trust women so I don't look for flaws to leave I just leave or never really stay. I get what I want and stay distant.

    I'm still this way....its an excuse....so true stack it

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    Quote Originally Posted by Knockout_Power View Post
    I dont usually think they are over the top hot, but I usualyl get the "what the hell is Calgarian doing with you" comments from my friends each time they see me with a new girl. Once Im with a girl, I dont even notice the flaws if you are talking about superfiscial stuff. Im usually more focused on mine and that overshadows any thought on critiquing hers

    Awe...I think Cal is just perfect for you! I would never say that to you!

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    Quote Originally Posted by awms View Post
    I did for a while...All I did was pick up chicks nad part. Its funny because thats how I met my gf...I spotted her at the bar, thought she was gorgeous so I started talking to her...talked to her the whole night and at the end of the night when she didnt put out in my head I was like "wtf this has never happend before" lol the next day I couldnt get her out of my head which had I slept with her that night I wouldnt have given a shit about her...the rest is history and now we are a couple lol
    so the reason u r with ur gf cause u didnt let u fvck her first night? so u r ego maniac as well....look what ur ego got you into in a relationship and u r afraid of commitment.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kawigirl View Post
    Awe...I think Cal is just perfect for you! I would never say that to you!
    he is a little cuddle bear isnt he?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kawigirl View Post
    Awe...I think Cal is just perfect for me ! I would never say that I wanna fvck him badly
    i had my doubts abt that

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    that's silly. Every one has flaws. Instead of looking at the negative, try to find the positive in women. You'll be happier once you do.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Knockout_Power View Post
    he is a little cuddle bear isnt he?
    i didnt cuddle her but she was soo small hard to realize where here things were.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Times Roman View Post
    that's silly. Every one has flaws. Instead of looking at the negative, try to find the positive in women. You'll be happier once you do.
    I'll say it again...its not trying to find that perfect person, its finding that person imperfectly perfect!

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    Quote Originally Posted by calgarian View Post
    i didnt cuddle her but she was soo small hard to realize where here things were.
    define "things"

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    Quote Originally Posted by Knockout_Power View Post
    define "things"
    i should shouldnt I ?cause its been a while u r using palm sisters.
    lets just say i didnt had to roll her in flour to find her wet spot.
    oh and what they tell r side effects of women body when they use test....its true......

    There u go Kawi u asked for it
    Last edited by calgarian; 03-22-2011 at 01:46 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by calgarian View Post
    i had my doubts abt that
    awe...sh*t...I just read this...lmao....touche!

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    Quote Originally Posted by calgarian View Post
    i should shouldnt I ?cause its been a while u r using palm sisters.
    lets just say i didnt had to roll her in flour to find her wet spot.
    she has 2 of them? (things)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Knockout_Power View Post
    she has 2 of them? (things)


    I would say three...Cals a freak

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kawigirl View Post
    I would say three...Cals a freak
    i wanted to go for forth hole but her ear opening is too small
    Last edited by calgarian; 03-22-2011 at 01:49 PM.

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    not to mention i had to hear her complain that she sore for a week after I use spit as lubricant....dont blame me I couldnt find lube its Edmonton

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    Quote Originally Posted by calgarian View Post
    not to mention i had to hear her complain that she sore for a week after I use spit as lubricant....dont blame me I couldnt find lube its Edmonton

    oh...no you didn't?!! (finger snap)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kawigirl View Post
    oh...no you didn't?!! (finger snap)
    i promise I will get lubricant from calgary ...after that much pounding do i still need to use it though????

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    Quote Originally Posted by calgarian View Post
    i promise I will get lubricant from calgary ...after that much pounding do i still need to use it though????

    I wouldn't know...let me ask KP's ass

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kawigirl View Post
    I wouldn't know...let me ask KP's ass
    oh now i know why it was stinky....but it was attached to you that y i did that corn hole

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    I got nuttin.....lol

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    I think it might have somthing to do with opportunity?

    Imo every one has let their eyes wonder from time to time its human nature...if you see a good looking person your brain cant stop you from seeing them lol but not every one has the opportunity to get with "good looking people" for what every reason (lack of looks, social skills ect ect) perhaps those who dont get many opportunities to sleep with who they choose convince them selfs that they would never think about another person in that way! that they only have eyes for their gf or bf!

    Opporunity is dangerous! its good when your single but in a relationship it test the bond of a relationship! I have found this to be very true!

    For examle:

    Take an avg looking guy with no social skill for example...let say he is married to an ugly women and although he says he would never cheat (which he has convinced himself he wont) and he ridicules others who do cheat with opportunity I beleve he would.

    Take this same guy and put him in a room with Jessica Alba naked on a bed...do you think he would cheat now even though he ridicules others about this? Hell yeah he would! because up until that point he would have never though he would have the opportunity to do so.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kawigirl View Post
    I got nuttin.....lol
    cause I took it all...

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    oh and Kawi u will hurt my private parts if you got a tongue ring as u were mentioning to me(u are pretty good without it). I love those sandles in which u opened the door for me

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    Quote Originally Posted by calgarian View Post
    oh and Kawi u will hurt my private parts if you got a tongue ring as u were mentioning to me(u are pretty good without it). I love those sandles in which u opened the door for me
    Funny...when i took the ball gag out of your mouth...you didn't say much....

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    Quote Originally Posted by awms View Post
    I think it might have somthing to do with opportunity?

    Imo every one has let their eyes wonder from time to time its human nature...if you see a good looking person your brain cant stop you from seeing them lol but not every one has the opportunity to get with "good looking people" for what every reason (lack of looks, social skills ect ect) perhaps those who dont get many opportunities to sleep with who they choose convince them selfs that they would never think about another person in that way! that they only have eyes for their gf or bf!

    Opporunity is dangerous! its good when your single but in a relationship it test the bond of a relationship! I have found this to be very true!

    For examle:

    Take an avg looking guy with no social skill for example...let say he is married to an ugly women and although he says he would never cheat (which he has convinced himself he wont) and he ridicules others who do cheat with opportunity I beleve he would.

    Take this same guy and put him in a room with Jessica Alba naked on a bed...do you think he would cheat now even though he ridicules others about this? Hell yeah he would! because up until that point he would have never though he would have the opportunity to do so.
    I agree with this..... Then theres also going to be the guy who realy really really wants to..... but wont because of all the other people he's ridiculed for it over the years. It's human nature..... plain and simple. I really don't believe we were meant to be monogomous..... but it's the social norm.

    ~Haz~

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hazard View Post
    I agree with this..... Then theres also going to be the guy who realy really really wants to..... but wont because of all the other people he's ridiculed for it over the years. It's human nature..... plain and simple. I really don't believe we were meant to be monogomous..... but it's the social norm.

    ~Haz~

    Its not just men...I find myself in the same predicament....all too often

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kawigirl View Post
    Funny...when i took the ball gag out of your mouth...you didn't say much....
    cause I was enjoying the cornhole....remember u were saying "its too big it hurts" ?

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