Hiding AAS from your wife/gf?

[jasc]

Just got done reading a thread about this from 09.. Had to be one of the best threads on here and rather than revive the dead.. heres a new one...

Who has to hide their gear?

Personally I got real lucky.. my gf, even though into fitness, hated gear. Had all the misconceptions and evils the media boasts about engrained (sp?) in her head. Anyway after I decided to use she wasn't happy, but she know's I do what I want anyway. After having numerous talks and even letting her read info on this site, she agreed it wasn't too bad. First few days on she was iffy.. now she loves it, the increased sex drive, she gets excited to pin my glutes, and continuously makes comments about me getting bigger n more cut and squeezes my arms n such.. after reading the other thread sounds like I got real lucky.. Not boasting or bragging, but figured I should state my experience since I started this.. I was planning to hide my use but glad I didn't, plus we live together n work the same hrs so it woulda been pretty shady...

What about you guys? tell? hide? make up false workouts?

[Hazard]

Heh..... wait till you get married LOL!

Mine use to pin me..... then got married and she became a modern day Don Hooton. So fvck it..... I don't keep it at home..... don't pin at home..... and I don't bring the subject up. If she doesn't see me doit - she can't prove I doit. I'd rather hide it and be happy than live with a mouthpiece the rest of my life.....

~Haz~

[redz]

I was straight up with my wife, she was absolutely fine with it. She considers it the same as taking supplements and has never once had a single complaint against it.

[Hazard]

Plus there are two sides to every woman.....

Theres the woman you meet and are open with..... shes understanding and everything is just ducky. Then theres the woman that will rat your ass out or tell everyone she knows once you do something to piss her off.

Don't think your wife or gf would ever do that to you? Try fvcking up bad enough or leaving her when things just don't seem to be working out...... we'll see then.....

~Haz~

[ghettoboyd]

Plus there are two sides to every woman.....

Theres the woman you meet and are open with..... shes understanding and everything is just ducky. Then theres the woman that will rat your ass out or tell everyone she knows once you do something to piss her off.

Don't think your wife or gf would ever do that to you? Try fvcking up bad enough or leaving her when things just don't seem to be working out...... we'll see then.....

~Haz~

so where are we at with the wife lately i havent been on much and last i knew things where going well for you guys....enquiering minds want to know...

[ddp2727]

I see both sides of this and have a buddy that his girl was honest to god cool as hell about the whole thing. Even went and picked up the gear for him. But like hazard said, once shit hit the fan, she ratted him and his source out to everyone, including the local drug task force. Me personally I don't tell my wife for that reason but if she were to find out she would not care.

[uksteve]

yeah, i tried to hide, but she wasnt stupid. now she loves it. she asks to pin me and when im next due a shot. i even came home one night and she had the sexy nurse gear on for it.. takes the pain away from a prop shot!!

[Hazard]

so where are we at with the wife lately i havent been on much and last i knew things where going well for you guys....enquiering minds want to know...

PM comming your way brotha

~Haz~

[Booz]

since ive been using ive told each girlfriend ive had after a while,they have also been told if they dont like it they know what they can do..................

[Hazard]

since ive been using ive told each girlfriend ive had after a while,they have also been told if they dont like it they know what they can do..................

well look at the size of you..... I'd be scared to rat you out

~Haz~

[Booz]

lol....

most women are ok with it and if not it is because they are concerned with your health,you should take the time to explane to them what it actually does for you....
the good and the bad....................

[gixxerboy1]

I told every girl and never had them have an issue with it.

I did like have a girl in the heat of a fight try to rat me out. I dont know if i would tell another GF but i wouldnt keep it from my wife. If she was keeping a secret like that from me id be pissed.

[T.J]

Beware! The noobs are here!

My,to be,wife,I think,is allready stuffed up with so much propaganda that no other knowledge can enter her brain.....

So,,got to hide it,,, but then again Im not a real cycler yet,, just use d-bol kinda like suplement cause I just happen to have them laying around.lol

Thinking about starting a beginner cycle soon though and kinda worried about post cycle effects like depressions and loss of sexdrive,,Im generaly a possitive guy and allways have a huge sexdrive so she'll mosdef notice something.

[jasc]

Plus there are two sides to every woman.....

Theres the woman you meet and are open with..... shes understanding and everything is just ducky. Then theres the woman that will rat your ass out or tell everyone she knows once you do something to piss her off.

Don't think your wife or gf would ever do that to you? Try fvcking up bad enough or leaving her when things just don't seem to be working out...... we'll see then.....

~Haz~

I agree.. She knows a lot about me and I do trust her with everything at this point, but i've got everything in 1 box that can be moved real quick if need be.. But for now its great... Might have to never get hitched, don't want that 180.. plus its easier to walk

yeah, i tried to hide, but she wasnt stupid. now she loves it. she asks to pin me and when im next due a shot. i even came home one night and she had the sexy nurse gear on for it.. takes the pain away from a prop shot!!

Now thats a keeper!

[seattleironpumper]

My wife could care less she knows I do what I want anyway, she is just concerned about me getting in troule with the law and to be real honest I dont give a shit who finds out or knows if they dont like it they can kiss my glutes.....

[lc1213]

my wife is fine with me doing aas. i told her straight up that i wanted to do it and she was totally positive about. she helped me research the compounds, sides, and pct protocol. she also does all the pins for me. she was actually shocked that i wanted to try aas. she actually asked me when i was going to do another cycle.

[Ashop]

Heh..... wait till you get married LOL!

Mine use to pin me..... then got married and she became a modern day Don Hooton. So fvck it..... I don't keep it at home..... don't pin at home..... and I don't bring the subject up. If she doesn't see me doit - she can't prove I doit. I'd rather hide it and be happy than live with a mouthpiece the rest of my life.....

~Haz~

I like your theory,,,out of sight,,,out of mind.

[john004]

My fiance has always been ok with it we have both always been into training and dieting, she cooks and prepares all my meals.. I wasn't surprised when I had extra winstrol laying around I didn't use this cycle and she asked to use it. Her firsy cycle, started today.. 2.5mg winny a day gonna see how her body reacts then if all is good goto 5mg/day. All my girlfriends said they liked having a big boyfriend so all were cool with it.. I live in south florida it seems like everyone does AAS tho

[songdog]

Haz is dead on.They will use it against you when the shit hits the fan.

[TheClinch]

^^ this is sad but true

[TheClinch]

I don't hide my steroids from my wife. It was a long road to get her to even agree to open mindedly listen to the pros and cons, but since then it has been a non issue. EXCEPT, now I don't have an inch of leeway to get away from an irritable day without the finger pointing.

All in all I am happy it is in the open between us but I do live with the understanding that she can burn me at anytime, even if at the best of times I believe its impossible she'd do it.

Women are emotional creatures therefore can not be trusted to be rock solid when there are
waves. Nature of the beast unfortunately...

[Choppers]

My wife kindly injects in those hard to reach areas. she never complains either, especially when shagging her senseless every night when on cycle. She sees and reaps the benefits just as much as I in some respects.

Besides the improvement to my mood and well being is priceless.

[baseline_9]

My GF is fine with it...

I couldn't keep it from her, just not me...

She will come round to my house on a friday night, me and my m8 will be pinning in the kitchen (no that's not a gay thing DSM), she will just say 'hi' give me a kiss and go drop her bag off in my room.... It's normal...

I'm glad she is fine with it, because I would not want to keep it from her

[Revelations]

yeah the guys with girlfriends/wives that understand are extremely lucky.

My wife would not understand or reason with me if I had a doctor or priest tell her it was ok..lol She believes that creatine and protein is dangerous! So I will have to hide my cycling from the wifey (whenever I start). Plus I know if I even had an attitude about anything she would blame it on the "juice"....I might have to find a new wifey lol j/k

[Nuzzi]

if its your wife definately tell her your plans, its better to be honest then have her catch you. That way you can talk it out, maybe show her some stuff on the forums to ease her mind about roid rage or anything like that. a good relationship is based on trust and respect. you dont know what you have till you lose it.

[tomt45]

I am no longer with this girl, we broke up about 4 months ago and this played a big role in my decision to end things with her. She absolutely would not hear my side of this issue. Right when we got together I tried to be up front with her and explain that this is something that I want to do and plan to do for years to come. Her mind was made up that it was not ok so I did what any good boyfriend would do and I hid it from her...haha Once or twice she got suspicious but still to this day doesn't know that I did it while I was with her. There was many things that lead to our break up but this was a big reason for me. I need to be with a girl that is ok with everything about me...good and bad. Don't try to change for a girl because it will never work out. I won't be with a girl that isn't cool with me doing gear in the future.

[BBrian]

Nice theory Nazzi, unfortunately not all relationships are healthy to begin with. Add one of the biggest misconceptions around drug use, and reasoning proves even more difficult.

I've always been honest with my girlfriends about my prior and current cycling, and I've rarely gotten any flak for it, and certainly have never been given an ultimatum over it. My current girlfriend is a registered dietitian, and while she isn't terribly fond about my using 'roids, she is supportive and appreciates my being honest with her. And of course she isn't complaining about having sex multiple times a day either. Well until she starts getting sore that is.

[JohnnyVegas]

My wife isn't against AAS use as a whole. What she doesn't like are the UGL products that are made under who-knows-what conditions. She is a smart girl and knows that doses can be inconsistent, the vial might not contain what the labels says and that contamination/bacteria are more of an issue. She wants me safe and is rational about it.

[Revelations]

My wife isn't against AAS use as a whole. What she doesn't like are the UGL products that are made under who-knows-what conditions. She is a smart girl and knows that doses can be inconsistent, the vial might not contain what the labels says and that contamination/bacteria are more of an issue. She wants me safe and is rational about it.

Yeah this is one of my main concerns as well, so I know it would bother her even more than what I stated earlier..My wifey thinks creatine is a steroid already so whenever I do start a cycle I will just give all of the credit to the creatine and protein and increasing the calories..lol

[JAB1]

I just started my first cycle and wife is fine with it. I had to educate her as I was learning and now she is behind me 100%. Of course if things went ugly I could make sure theres no proof, but in all reality, if my wife decides to turn on me a little aas is the least of my worries in the grand scheme!!lol

[oldnsedentary]

If you do not tell her, what is the explanation going to be when you go from sex several times a day when on, and not being able to get it up for a few days in PCT????

[baseline_9]

My wife isn't against AAS use as a whole. What she doesn't like are the UGL products that are made under who-knows-what conditions. She is a smart girl and knows that doses can be inconsistent, the vial might not contain what the labels says and that contamination/bacteria are more of an issue. She wants me safe and is rational about it.

^^ Too right ^^

[tomt45]

If you do not tell her, what is the explanation going to be when you go from sex several times a day when on, and not being able to get it up for a few days in PCT????

Never had that problem. Don't get me wrong my libido will crash for a few weeks but I can still get it up whenever I want. I did the same as you Revelations. I would always attribute my gains to some new supplements and an increase in protein. She always believed me because she has the misconception that if I ran once cycle I would turn into arnold overnight...

[ljk2442]

This thread is awesome... Here is my situation... She knows I have used... I at first told her it is just Pro Hormones, then when I was using HGH she was okay with it because I told her I was assisting the recovery of a slight tear in my pec. The three biggest things that piss her off are the following: 1)when I get acne on my shoulders and chest during PCT. But its not that bad....2) Another thing that drives her nuts is the fact I slam protein like its my job and my farts are unbearable, the dutch ovens just get to her...3) The fact that I spend money on "worthless" protein and pre work out supplements. She says its useless...

[Whoady]

Does she squeeze your balls and tell you how small their getting? Lol.

[JohnnyVegas]

3) The fact that I spend money on "worthless" protein and pre work out supplements. She says its useless...

Tell her it is time to stop spending money on useless makeup and pushup bras. Oh, she says they make her look better? Point made. Hopefully.

[BBrian]

Tell her it is time to stop spending money on useless makeup and pushup bras. Oh, she says they make her look better? Point made. Hopefully.

Hah! You rock JV.

[tomt45]

I got bad acne one time during pct too. I told her it was because I have been eating a ton of protein and dairy products. Fortunately I never had that problem again. I was always concerned she would notice the pin marks on my quads but never did. I know she was suspicious a few times but I could always explain everything away. I am a good liar...haha I was a drug addict for 6 years so that made me pretty good at lieing to people. From now on I am being up front with any girl I get into a relationship with. I don't want to lie and hide it anymore. Its too stressful and I never felt good about telling the lies but I felt like I didn't have an option. She gave me the ultimatum that if I did it that she would have to end the relationship.

[alexISthrowed]

I don't plan on coming off so I better find a chick that's cool with it. I doubt I would ever tell a gf but I wouldn't keep that from my wife.

[gixxerboy1]

i dont hide it from your wife. She likes when im "on"