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Thread: Do you keep your membership here on the board on the down low with your partner?

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    Do you keep your membership here on the board on the down low with your partner?

    Many of us find this place a refuge, a place to relax, tell tales, swap stories, compare notes, that sort of thing. But it occurred to me that there is probably a good percentage that don't disclose to their partner their membership here.

    I'd like to hear your rationale for whether you keep this place on the down low or above board.

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    My wife not only knows about my membership but also knows my account password! We have full disclosure...email, facebook, cell phones, whatever. Nothing is a secret!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lunk1 View Post
    My wife not only knows about my membership but also knows my account password! We have full disclosure...email, facebook, cell phones, whatever. Nothing is a secret!
    I respect that! Great way to be

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    I don't hide it. She knows I'm on a board(s). She's seen my avi. But I don't think she really cares which board. She did ask why a steroid board, and I told her primarily, in the beginning, it was due to the HRT/nnutrition/40+ sections

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    TR,

    You forgot to include, 'i have no partner but still do not disclose to others'.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Times Roman View Post
    I don't hide it. She knows I'm on a board(s). She's seen my avi. But I don't think she really cares which board. She did ask why a steroid board, and I told her primarily, in the beginning, it was due to the HRT/nnutrition/40+ sections
    At least you communicate about it... So she's aware

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    My partner could care less about what I do on the net.

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    mine knows she's not interested but still knows.

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    Mine knows nothing, but she did tell me I could do any drugs I wanted... Which I know is a trap.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Soar View Post
    Mine knows nothing, but she did tell me I could do any drugs I wanted... Which I know is a trap.
    That's interesting...

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    Quote Originally Posted by ElectraMaddox
    That's interesting...
    Telling.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MickeyKnox View Post
    TR,

    You forgot to include, 'i have no partner but still do not disclose to others'.
    you are right. I've been the silent roomate all these years, and those kids? I'm telling you it was a miracle. Just like mary, these kids arrived spontaneously in their mothers womb without any male intervention

    Quote Originally Posted by ElectraMaddox View Post
    At least you communicate about it... So she's aware
    oh, she's aware. she may not remember which board. but she was puzzled when the check arrived from the board owners. She's like, what's this for again? You tell kids not to take steroids and they send you $100? How many kids did you tell that to again?

    She'd be more involved if she were interested in it. But she's not. All she knows is that I spend some good time here.

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    Mine thinks its funny that I do anything online cause I make fun of people who spend their days online either in chat room, gaming, game forums etc... she thinks training should be done in the gym, not online

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    Quote Originally Posted by Times Roman View Post
    you are right. I've been the silent roomate all these years, and those kids? I'm telling you it was a miracle. Just like mary, these kids arrived spontaneously in their mothers womb without any male intervention



    oh, she's aware. she may not remember which board. but she was puzzled when the check arrived from the board owners. She's like, what's this for again? You tell kids not to take steroids and they send you $100? How many kids did you tell that to again?

    She'd be more involved if she were interested in it. But she's not. All she knows is that I spend some good time here.

    Awe that's so funny. I guess that's normally how it is, if you're interested you want to know more if not you just let things be

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    My wife knows. She could careless.

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    I don't have a wife.....but if I did I'd tell her. Once I take that big step I just feel like it would be better to be honest 100%. AAS, sex, whatever. I don't wanna keep secrets from the person I'm spending my life with...

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    My wife not only knows of my account, I've discussed some of the posts with her.

    I will say though, she does sometimes get annoyed about how much time I spend on here.

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    I'm pretty sure she knows.........call it a hunch......

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    My wife just complained about me being on here so much.....so ya she knows lol.

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    Everything was impossible until somebody did it!

    I've got 99 problems......but my squat/dead ain't one !!

    It doesnt matter how good looking she is, some where, some one is tired of her shit.

    Light travels faster then sound. This is why some people appear bright until you hear them speak.

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    I tried to hide it and failed. So I let her go.
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    "It's human nature in a 'more is better' society full of a younger generation that expects instant gratification, then complain when they don't get it. The problem will get far worse before it gets better". ~ kelkel

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    Quote Originally Posted by austinite View Post
    I tried to hide it and failed. So I let her go.
    Muhahahahaha muhahahahaha . Gotta have your priorities straight !!!

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    Everything was impossible until somebody did it!

    I've got 99 problems......but my squat/dead ain't one !!

    It doesnt matter how good looking she is, some where, some one is tired of her shit.

    Light travels faster then sound. This is why some people appear bright until you hear them speak.

    Great place to start researching ! http://forums.steroid.com/anabolic-s...-database.html


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    Quote Originally Posted by austinite View Post
    I tried to hide it and failed. So I let her go.
    It was either her or the forum.......lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Perseverance1 View Post
    I don't have a wife.....but if I did I'd tell her. Once I take that big step I just feel like it would be better to be honest 100%. AAS, sex, whatever. I don't wanna keep secrets from the person I'm spending my life with...
    Eh, if your future wife wants to know what's going on on here, you should just tell her to get her own membership.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Honkey_Kong View Post
    Eh, if your future wife wants to know what's going on on here, you should just tell her to get her own membership.
    Not a bad idea, granted I'm sure I'll discuss (or at least try to) some of the threads on here with her as well.

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    My wife just joined! You guys remember when I was scared to tell her? Lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by warmouth View Post
    My wife just joined! You guys remember when I was scared to tell her? Lol.
    I'm gonna tell her anyway!
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    Quote Originally Posted by austinite View Post
    I'm gonna tell her anyway!
    Ha ha ha! If she sees your avi she will freak. DLB is her idol and fitness goal. Maybe you could "hint" as to what would be a good compound for her

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    Quote Originally Posted by warmouth View Post
    Ha ha ha! If she sees your avi she will freak. DLB is her idol and fitness goal. Maybe you could "hint" as to what would be a good compound for her
    Ha! 100 million dollars!

    jk, PM anytime
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    Quote Originally Posted by austinite View Post

    Ha! 100 million dollars!

    jk, PM anytime
    Ha ha. Ill send You the cash. Take a check? Lol. Ill get her to message you tommorrow with a few questions. Thanks a lot. And remember, I'm innocent around here I'm only still learning ha!

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    Quote Originally Posted by warmouth View Post
    My wife just joined! You guys remember when I was scared to tell her? Lol.
    Congrats that everything turned out well for you. How supportive she is just might be a hint that you've got yourself a keeper.
    Last edited by Perseverance1; 03-21-2013 at 04:12 AM.

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    My gf knows and she has gone through my old threads before without me knowing. There's some stuff I say on here that I don't really want her to see, just like when you talk with your boys. Got me in some hot water in the past, unfortunately now I have to censor myself a bit.

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    What about the option for lone wolfs?

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    Quote Originally Posted by S&S_ShovelHead View Post
    My gf knows and she has gone through my old threads before without me knowing. There's some stuff I say on here that I don't really want her to see, just like when you talk with your boys. Got me in some hot water in the past, unfortunately now I have to censor myself a bit.
    Ehhh...maybe it's just my opinion but I think women should let their men be...ya know, men. At least when they are with their friends etc.

    Hell, I bet you don't censor (or even care) what she talks about with her friends.....again, just my thoughts.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Euroholic View Post
    What about the option for lone wolfs?
    No lone wolf option bro, you've gotta get with the sheep and marry then have kids and get a minivan.

    That's your only choice.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MuscleInk View Post
    My wife not only knows of my account, I've discussed some of the posts with her.

    I will say though, she does sometimes get annoyed about how much time I spend on here.
    This. I have a 'Kindle' to so I can read electronic books. So if I am not on the forums, I am using the forum app on my phone. Then when we get into bed I'll read about nutrition or training! We actually had a really open discussion last week and she said that she felt training came above her in my priorities. Obviously I had to tell her no... but I think if it came down to " Me or training"... I would struggle with that choice.

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    Quote Originally Posted by krugerr View Post
    This. I have a 'Kindle' to so I can read electronic books. So if I am not on the forums, I am using the forum app on my phone. Then when we get into bed I'll read about nutrition or training! We actually had a really open discussion last week and she said that she felt training came above her in my priorities. Obviously I had to tell her no... but I think if it came down to " Me or training"... I would struggle with that choice.
    Ugh, that's rough man. I don't look forward to being in that position someday.........

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    No secret. The boyfriend likes my avatar.

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    Kind of hard to hide when we met on here lol... I'm relieved he knows b.c. I spend a good amount of time on here so it would be hard trying to hide it....

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    mine knows and complains about me being on here so much sometimes. we also have discussed posts etc.. i would NOT want her to join, as u have to have some "me" space.. itd be kinda like working together.. ummm.. no

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    My wife knows, but doesnt really give it a second thought. Im not on much, just at work really. She is supportive of my goals and respects that I have found a place to get quality education on this subject. I am amazed at how supportive she is of my using aas. Almost too much, We were at dinner with her folks a while back and we got taliking Pistorius. Her mom made a comment on aas and roidrage, etc. My wife got all defensive and explained how that is not accurate, etc. Her parents look at us and say, how do you know so much about this. I smiled and said birth control is technically a steroid, hormone manipulation, etc, and she hasnt freaked out and killed me yet.

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