I assume your going for strength from your post so take a powerlifting bench stance. Legs tucked under, shoulders blade pulled down and back. Arch in the back and grabbing the bar as tight as you can the whole range of motion with an explosion at the bottom once you touch your chest. On a powerlifting bench you will touch around your nipple line, explode up and almost "rock" the weight back. Tough to explain but differs from a bodybuilding bench because your weight is not moving up in a straight line. Tough to explain but watch some powerlifting videos and you'll notice
