Here is a tip from someone very experienced. When doing anything online, setting up a time and place to meet whatever. Ask them to take a face pic in front of a bed (can be the bed of a truck if not at home) holding up 3 fingers and you do the same. This does two things, shows that they are real and gives a current pic, not the old bait and switch with old pics.
Husbands are the least of your problems. It's if the woman starts to have feeling for you then you have a problem, move on!
She looks like fun

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