What can you say about people who are married but dont wear a ring?

[fatale]

Seems like an obvious answer but I would just like to hear an opinion about it. Let just say the husband never intended to buy a ring for his wife.

[stunner5000pt]

is this from personal experience or are you REALLY bored?

[abstrack]

To each their own. I wear my ring no matter what. I quite frankly request my wife to wears hers also.

Well, we both have our initials tatted on our wedding fingers, so technically she always wears it no matter what.

[fatale]

is this from personal experience or are you REALLY bored?

Bored and just curious

[stunner5000pt]

Bored and just curious

if i met someone like that i wouldnt trust them with anything

chances are they have their ring off with intention to be unfaithful

[Pooks]

no idea... i'm single.. but i know i'm pretty possesive so i'd always wear my ring i'm sure.. and i'd want my wifey to do so also.. or there would prolly be problems, like me thinking she's cheating on me or soemthing .. LOL nightmare time, divorce time.. prolly screamin at each other time too..

hmmmm..
good thing i didnt marry my ex-gf ... thats a jack move i can easily picture her trying to pull off... hey honey i won't wear my wedding ring anymore...like its nothing.. while i'd be like.. Ahhh the wedding ring.. if i remove it, it will give me bad luck or something LOL...

[fatale]

if i met someone like that i wouldnt trust them with anything

chances are they have their ring off with intention to be unfaithful

Pretty sad,eh!

[abstrack]

If my wife didnt wear her ring, I wouldn't assume her to be cheating on me. Some times she chooses to wear costume jewelry whichs is fine with me.

I trust her so it sint an issue, but she knows that i prefer her to wear it, so she does.

[stunner5000pt]

Pretty sad,eh!

what is ?
me?

in that case

[fatale]

what is ?
me?

in that case

I am responding to your previous post, I said its pretty sad that some people would pretend that they are single when they are actually married.

[stunner5000pt]

I am responding to your previous post, I said its pretty sad that people would pretend that they are single when they are actually married.

now why would they do that??

i thought marraige was about commitment against all odds.. some crap like that

[fatale]

now why would they do that??

i thought marraige was about commitment against all odds.. some crap like that

are u seriously asking that question

Because some people are cold hearted selfish manipulative being.

[stunner5000pt]

are u seriously asking that question

Because some people are cold hearted selfish manipulative being.

those bastards

well i guess im used to seeing my rather faithful (as far as i know) paretns... cant think i would have it a differnet way

[J.S.N.]

i'm not married, but i could never wear one. i can't stand to wear any jewelry at all, however i could do the tattoo thing.

[BEER WHORE]

rings dont mean shit man

[fatale]

rings dont mean shit man

I believe it does mean a lot of things, one thing that's obvious it shows that your are married. I believe wearing a ring meant that she is commited to her relationship and more likely that she's not going to cheat on her husband.

Wearing a ring basically symbolize that you promise your wife that you meant everything that you said on the altar.

[RA]

Every married person I know that doesnt wear a wedding ring sleeps around on their spouse.

[Homeguard]

My wife died 5 years ago. Still wear it.

[RA]

Sorry to hear that home

[Mizfit]

Well i think actions speak louder than words... i don't think not wearing a ring means someone is acting single...

It is how they behave that identifies whether they are married or single.


If i was married i would wear one and damn sure my husband would...

[Homeguard]

Sorry to hear that home

Cheers m8. No need to be sorry though, met that one true love/soul mate, so I consider myself lucky to have been her partner.

[G-1000]

I am married and i dont wear my ring all the time. I only have it on when we go out.

[fatale]

I am married and i dont wear my ring all the time. I only have it on when we go out.

That's an exception as long as your with your wife, You dont need it to wear it.

Like what I said ring basically symbolize that your are happily married and to tell that slut to back off because your eternally taken .

[biglouie250]

i think the ring is very important, it symbolizes a bond that is supposed to be unbreakable. but then again there are people who have that fantasy of nailing a married man or woman....so the ring might actually attract certain people as well.

[Mizfit]

i think the ring is very important, it symbolizes a bond that is supposed to be unbreakable. but then again there are people who have that fantasy of nailing a married man or woman....so the ring might actually attract certain people as well.

if the bond is there why do you need a ring - a material possession to show that? to me, the point that this thread was making was the ring implies ownership and with that makes me beleive there is a lack of trust.

[Homeguard]

if the bond is there why do you need a ring - a material possession to show that? to me, the point that this thread was making was the ring implies ownership and with that makes me beleive there is a lack of trust.

But you said you would make "damn sure" your husband wore one

Contradiction

[biglouie250]

if the bond is there why do you need a ring - a material possession to show that? to me, the point that this thread was making was the ring implies ownership and with that makes me beleive there is a lack of trust.

if there is lack of trust and the belief of ownership in a relationship the ring doesnt add to that. Thats a problem the relationship prior to marriage. im not going to magically become a prick once im married and say "now your mine!!!"

wearing the ring doesnt prevent you from doing anything. its not a chastity belt! To me (although im not married) its about a sense of pride you have in your relationship with your significant other. Id be proud to wear a ring and let the world know ive found my mate.......

[steve0]

im not married but i whould wear one if i was married, except during certain activities, like lifting, riding, ect....i whould never do the tatto thing, becasue you can never take it off

[fatale]

wearing a ring= respect& promise , is a choice if you want to let people know that you are married and stay faithful or dont wear it at all and stick your dick into some pussy whore.

[biglouie250]

wearing a ring= respect& promise , is a choice if you want to let people know that you are married and stay faithful or dont wear it at all and stick your dick into some pussy whore.

very nicely put, nice avatar.

[Mizfit]

But you said you would make "damn sure" your husband wore one

Contradiction

hah im playin devils advocate all the time..

there are two reason why someone has a wedding ring..

1) symbol of the vow they take for marriage

2) Ownership

I would wear it for the first and would want my husband to do the same, but in the same instance i would not make him wear it all the time or expect him to if the circumstances were better not too. For example when i go to job interviews i remove all signs of my ethnicty or whether or not i am attached etc..

Also I know alot of men now adays don't wear rings - If a rolex is more suitable i think i would buy him a watch instead with a nice inscription - something with meaning - as long as i know he has it with him, not as a symbol of ownership, that's all i need.


I don't wear rings now and i'm not sure i would be able to wear a ring 24 7 - but i might wear it around my neck for example. I guess i should of been more thorough in my answer.. Sorry.

[spywizard]

fatale, that is true..

however in the real world, especially when men travel, a wedding ring is an invitation, women flock to a guy, either he is safe and won't make a pass at them, or he's safe because he will show them a good time and then go away..

either way, in my experience a wedding ring is a magnet for just the type of woman who wants to play around..

on the other hand, (figuratively) the ring does keep some women away, and those are the women you wouldn't mind your husband talking to cause they are the safe one's..

just my expereinec..

[Mizfit]

wearing a ring= respect& promise , is a choice if you want to let people know that you are married and stay faithful or dont wear it at all and stick your dick into some pussy whore.

how does a ring make people know your faithful..

I think most surveys will tell you over 50% of married people cheat.. i bet you most of thme have wedding rings

[zimmy]

my dad doesn't wear his ring all the time. Not always about trying to look single. He's done physical labor most of his life and doens't want to jack up his ring. Gold is pretty maleable after all. He wears it when he goes out dressed up style (when he remembers). Doesn't mean he's going to cheat. One of the most loyal people I know.

[fatale]

how does a ring make people know your faithful..

I think most surveys will tell you over 50% of married people cheat.. i bet you most of thme have wedding rings

That's why I said is a choice! Is more likely a person whose wearing a wedding ring is not to cheat than a person whose not wearing one. Then again, who am I to say that.I am just some being with no supernatural power, so what do I know right. He he

[Mizfit]

That's why I said is a choice! Is more likely a person whose wearing a wedding ring is not to cheat than a person whose not wearing one. Then again, who am I to say that.I am just some being with no supernatural power, so what do I know right. He he

Where are you from?

I don't know maybe the men and women in your country are more honest

[biglouie250]

Where are you from?

I don't know maybe the men and women in your country are more honest

miz, im going to marry my girlfriend. and i will wear a ring and i will NEVER cheat. ive never cheated on a girl in the past, and i dont intend on cheating on my soulmate(now i sound gay).

there are good guys out there hun! dont be so hard on us!!

[Mizfit]

miz, im going to marry my girlfriend. and i will wear a ring and i will NEVER cheat. ive never cheated on a girl in the past, and i dont intend on cheating on my soulmate(now i sound gay).

there are good guys out there hun! dont be so hard on us!!

No no not all men cheat.. i'm saying a ring doesn't mean he wont.

[biglouie250]

No no not all men cheat.. i'm saying a ring doesn't mean he wont.

i agree completely, its not a chastity belt. its all how someone views that ring and their relationship. if a guy values his relationship he wont cheat.

[Pooks]

Different Personalities, Different Needs...

obviously some people are materialistic, and into symbolizm, and etc to give them security.. those will want the ring to be worn...

other people on the other hand despise security and materialism, and closeness, they go on this lofty trust thing, sorta celestial? i dunno lol.. but those people would hate wearing a ring.