Gonna give the input on the physics like you asked
Its not quite right to say time and space doesnt have any meaning. General relativity breaks down in a singularity. So in essence we just dont know what happens inside a black hole. We need a theory of quantum gravity before we know.
BTW be carefull when watching what the bleep do we know. I havent seen it myself but I have seen that movied discussed on a physics forum and its cram packed with bad science
Dont quote me on it. but I am quite sure dolphins and monkies are self aware...
Identity is just a function of some parts of the brain. Brain damages can cause that sense of identity to become distorted. A person can for instance stop recognising his arm. No matter if he looks in a mirror and se it attached to him and no matter if people tell him it is realy his arm he will blatantly refuse to accept that it is in fact his arm.
Quantum superpositioning is baiscly when a particle has 2 different energy, position, momentum at the same time because of superposition of the wavefunction. But this is just because of the wave nature of particles. If you however make some kind of measurement on the particle the superposition will collapse and the particle will assume randomly one of the 2 different states it posessed.
What is important to note however is that before you do the measurement you dont know anything about the particle. So its not right to realy claim it has two positions at the same time. We dont know what it do or where it is. The superposition is just what the mathematics claim the particle is doing. Its the quantum equvivalent of wave superposition(when two waves meet there amplitudes adds).
All we can ever know is that after we make our measurement we will find the particle in one of those two positions and the probability of it beeing at one place or the other is given by the equations.
So speaking of what it does before the measurement isnt realy physics, its meta-physics. Because no test can ever be devised to know what it does. The moment a measurement is made the superposition collapses.
I prefer to look at it as a mathematical oddity.
This is what einstein objected to, he could not accept that any object can have a undefined position.
About that object that could be seen with the naked eye. Do you have any link to it or anywhere I can read about it? It should not be possible because macroscopic objects dont exhibit quantum effects and just observing the object would force it into one or the other position. It sounds wierd...