Last week I began having abdominal pain, within a few days I started noticing my belly button bulging and when I touched it it hurt and felt liquid like. I went to my PA who in turn gave me some pain meds and suggested a surgery consult and an ER visit if the pain got worse. By the time I got home the pain was much worse and my wife refused to let me wait it out til my surgery consult so we went to the ER. Within 12 hours I was having emergency surgery for an incarcerated hernia. I am home now two days later with 11 staples in my stomach and a month of bed rest. This is my second hernia, first one was so big you could fit 4 fingers up inside my stomach. It took forever to recover from. Now I am scared of the recovery for this one. My wife would like me to stop lifting now that I have my second hernia surgery, I want to just take it light for a while, I dont know what to do. Advice please. Especially if anyone here has had one or more hernia surgeries. Thanks