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    Bad anger issue with friend need answers!!

    A friend of mine recently started a cycle and wont tell me what it is he is taking. Well a few weeks ago he put his hands on his girl and she ended up having to call the police! The guy is normally very level headed and handles himself very well. I have taken several different stacks and never had a single issue at all! Understandably things affect people differently and I know its not an excuse but I was wondering if anyone felt different stacks or specif compounds to make you feel a bit more irritable.

    Again I know its not an excuse and I personally have never had this issue but seems he does and its pretty nasty. I have already spoken with him and explained he needs to stop or control himself! He wants to use the excuse or the stack is making him loose it but I can not relate that that. In 2 years I have never had an issue with putting my hands on anyone much less a woman and it is becoming an issue between him and I now. I feel strongly about not getting physical with a woman and if it happens again him and I will be having issues of our own.

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    Sounds like at the core of the issue, he's an ass-hole. Steroids can't cause that. There are some compounds that increase intensity more than others, but anyone who can't control that shouldn't be using anyway. Hell I'd go so far as to say I'm not so sure he should be working out, the last thing the world needs is another big ass-hole.

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    I think your friend is just an a$$hole, now he can let his emotions go cause he has an excuse. I say BS!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Big View Post
    Sounds like at the core of the issue, he's an ass-hole. Steroids can't cause that. There are some compounds that increase intensity more than others, but anyone who can't control that shouldn't be using anyway. Hell I'd go so far as to say I'm not so sure he should be working out, the last thing the world needs is another big ass-hole.
    Yea I know he is kind of an ass anyway. Like I said I have never had an issue with anger at all! I was just wondering if anyone had any experience like this. He is not a big guy and is not a treat to anyone but a woman it just pisses me off that he had such disrespect to put his hands on a woman!

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    Quote Originally Posted by 2_slow_5.0 View Post
    Yea I know he is kind of an ass anyway. Like I said I have never had an issue with anger at all! I was just wondering if anyone had any experience like this. He is not a big guy and is not a treat to anyone but a woman it just pisses me off that he had such disrespect to put his hands on a woman!
    Nope never had a problem with anger nor has anyone I know as far as the gear is concerned. You should sit down with you friend and try and talk it out I mean find out where the problem lies. If that does not work grab him and stick his head in the toilet untill he see the light...OK J/K on the last part but if he is not a big guy a lot of people have the little man syndrome and there is a lot of information about it. that is if you want to help him...

    My two cents.

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    "little man syndrom" this is very true... Put on 10 lbs and all of a sudden they act like they are 300 lbs and own the gym.... Smack him on the side of the head. LMAO

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    Quote Originally Posted by c-Z View Post
    "little man syndrom" this is very true... Put on 10 lbs and all of a sudden they act like they are 300 lbs and own the gym.... Smack him on the side of the head. LMAO
    Agreed...

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    Its called stay away from dumb ass advice:

    if he does some stupid shit in a bar, at someone's house, other places, and you happen to be there do you really wanna answer to the cops for him or yourself.... hell no

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    Im am a very calm, and cool person. But if puts he's hands on a another female again, you should take it upon yourself to beat the f**k out of him for his own good.

    WE DONT HIT THE FEMALES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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    OUH damn how did I miss the hitting a female part... WOW I'm so stupid..... F THAT.... Pull that prick aside.. ANd be like listen bro.... Next time you hit her... I'm F*cking hitting you. End of story. Maybe he will wake up...........

    I had a similar situation like that... A buddy of mine since elementary school got physical with his wife and grabbed her by the throat. He thought it was funny when he told me the story. I told him to cut that shit out. And told his wife next time it happens call me. Min down the road. I will be there in .5 secs.

    That is not acceptable at all. Gives steroids a bad name when assholes start doing stupid shit like tha.

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    Quote Originally Posted by c-Z View Post
    "little man syndrom" this is very true... Put on 10 lbs and all of a sudden they act like they are 300 lbs and own the gym.... Smack him on the side of the head. LMAO
    took the words right out of my mouth. slap him around a little and he'll cut it out.

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    Did you ever think that mabey she deserved a smack, (not that deserve has anything to do with it) now I know its wrong but I sure know my girlfriend needed one at least once. Luckly for her Im not the type, but I did warn her if she ever disrespects me the way she did that she's out of my life. Your buddy mabey should do the same. You buddy has to look at the big picture and see that doing whatever you want at the moment doesn't solve shit. Oh and everybody deserves a smack, god dam I know I got mine. Im a little older now and know you get more bees with honey then vinager!
    Last edited by kojak_x; 07-04-2009 at 06:13 AM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kojak_x View Post
    Did you ever think that mabey she deserved a smack, (not that deserve has anything to do with it) now I know its wrong but I sure know my girlfriend needed one at least once. Luckly for her Im not the type, but I did warn her if she ever disrespects me the way she did that she's out of my life. Your buddy mabey should do the same. You buddy has to look at the big picture and see that doing whatever you want at the moment doesn't solve shit. Oh and everybody deserves a smack, god dam I know I got mine. Im a little older now and know you get more bees with honey then vinager!
    ^^^your buddy has found the thread.

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    If gear is making him want to hit women bring him out to a bar and let him mouth off to a couple drunk guys that will drop him ! Then you will see how tough he is! Women should never be hit! Yeh they do desrve a smack every now and then b that dont mean you do it!!

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    Talk to him if that dont work then maybe pop one on his chin. But remember he is a mad man at the moment so may kick your ass. lol

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    juice just amplifies who you are at the core, im a firm believer. ass now - ASS when on juice.

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    hands and hitting are two different things.

    3 reasons to hit closed fist-..............

    shes trained to fight
    she has a weapon

    your losing........

    There is a difference between a couple getting physical with each other and a man HITTING a woman. I hope we all can differentiate the two.

    Remember there is always 2 sides to every story.......

    Why did he feel the need to get physical?

    Alcohol or drugs involved(either party)?

    Why the cops? Who calls the cops on their own family/spouse? If its that bad,its time to get out of dodge. Seriously.

    All this IMO of course.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kristofer68ss View Post
    3 reasons to hit closed fist-..............

    shes trained to fight
    she has a weapon

    your losing........

    There is a difference between a couple getting physical with each other and a man HITTING a woman. I hope we all can differentiate the two.

    Remember there is always 2 sides to every story.......

    Why did he feel the need to get physical?

    Alcohol or drugs involved(either party)?

    Why the cops? Who calls the cops on their own family/spouse? If its that bad,its time to get out of dodge. Seriously.

    All this IMO of course.
    i disagree almost completely!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by HIITB$ View Post
    i disagree almost completely!!
    please elaborate.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Big View Post
    Sounds like at the core of the issue, he's an ass-hole. Steroids can't cause that. There are some compounds that increase intensity more than others, but anyone who can't control that shouldn't be using anyway. Hell I'd go so far as to say I'm not so sure he should be working out, the last thing the world needs is another big ass-hole.
    Totally agree, I know there are compounds to make me more aggressive but never to the point of hitting my wife and/or others. Self control, he has issue that we are not aware of him.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kristofer68ss View Post
    3 reasons to hit closed fist-..............

    shes trained to fight
    she has a weapon

    your losing........

    There is a difference between a couple getting physical with each other and a man HITTING a woman. I hope we all can differentiate the two.

    Remember there is always 2 sides to every story.......

    Why did he feel the need to get physical?

    Alcohol or drugs involved(either party)?
    This does not matter!
    Why the cops? Who calls the cops on their own family/spouse? If its that bad,its time to get out of dodge. Seriously.
    Why not call the cops, if your dad punched your mom would you call the cops after kicking his ass?
    All this IMO of course.
    I also disagree with this, the only reason I can see you hitting a women is if she is trying to kill you (i.e. knife, gun, etc...)

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    sounds like a real douche bag. couldve just turned around and walked away

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    Quote Originally Posted by RANA View Post
    I also disagree with this, the only reason I can see you hitting a women is if she is trying to kill you (i.e. knife, gun, etc...)
    thats pretty much what im saying.


    I wouldnt call the cops on my family and my dad died when i was seven

    alcohol is the number reason for domestic violence....... i dont drink btw.


    come on guys, common sense must prevail here.

    i know some tuff ass chicks, if you think you would take more than a few hits from these chicks without running or fighting back, well your crazy......lol

    Sorry, alot the gals i know arent fat, soft, weak or mentally stable.
    Last edited by Kristofer68ss; 07-04-2009 at 01:39 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by gordongecko74 View Post
    sounds like a real douche bag. couldve just turned around and walked away
    I have to agree . I just don't see any reason to argue or fight with anyone man or woman . At best we can agree to disagree . Sometimes fights are pointless , you ever looked back and thought , that was a good fight ? So what !

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kristofer68ss View Post
    please elaborate.
    Quote Originally Posted by RANA View Post
    I also disagree with this, the only reason I can see you hitting a women is if she is trying to kill you (i.e. knife, gun, etc...)
    That's pretty much why i disagreed with it...To me with the exception of a gun i cant see any reason to strike a female. Call the cops?? sure hell yeah if some chic is attacking me, well im not hitting her but i'll sure as hell call the cops.
    I dont know maybe it's i do contact sports and pretty physical person myself ubt i couldnt even really imagine hitting a female.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dont wanna be old View Post
    I have to agree . I just don't see any reason to argue or fight with anyone man or woman . At best we can agree to disagree . Sometimes fights are pointless , you ever looked back and thought , that was a good fight ? So what !
    Oh im not saying i disagree with fighting, lol, I think more guys should get smacked around (ie: this guy hitting his gurl)

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    Quote Originally Posted by HIITB$ View Post
    That's pretty much why i disagreed with it...To me with the exception of a gun i cant see any reason to strike a female. Call the cops?? sure hell yeah if some chic is attacking me, well im not hitting her but i'll sure as hell call the cops.
    I dont know maybe it's i do contact sports and pretty physical person myself ubt i couldnt even really imagine hitting a female.
    i understand where your coming from......

    99% of the time i would never strike a woman........there are always exceptions to the rule.

    In all seriousness though, if i felt my life or my family was in danger, I would not hesitate to take the appropriate physical measure of protection.

    I think alcohol or drugs being involved is very revelant. Domestic violence and alcohol seem to go hand in hand. I was curious if this correlation was present with this dispute as well.

    I believe a woman should not strike a man unless she is willing to be struck back. Fair is Fair.

    I just dont like involving the authorities unless its ABSOLUTELY necessary.

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