Hi, I'm brand new to all of this. My husbands been on this site for years, thats how I know about it. I am 36 years old, I have a 12 year old son & a 10 year old daughter. I'm 5' at 110 lbs. bf 20%. I want to be 100 lbs and my bf 16%. I feel like I'm stuck. I need help! Can I have permission to join the womens form? And yes, I'm a girl.