Originally Posted by
Skyler
My sister was a stripper. Although some guys here obviously have deep emotional issues and because they probably were dumb enought to fall in love with a stripper and then get burned for it, they will say they are whores, etc.
My sister told me how it works though. In my sister's case, she was a young mother, and wanted to give her kid a life better than she had. The problem is that the only jobs available to a young girl with a basic education are all shitty, low paying, no benefit jobs. So she decided to strip. She actually hated it. She said men can be creepier than she ever imagined possible, and ofcourse she feels very exposed, judged, etc. She is also aware that everyone in there thought she must be a whore, drug addict, etc, basically having zero respect for her as a person.
Here is the way she dealt with it. It payed really well, and her kid was living in style. The better she did her job, the more money she made, the more she could save, and the better her life was.
So she stopped feeling so emotionally destressed about it and saw it as straight business. It is her job to make men want to pay her, and not the other girls.
Some of her rules were to never do anything sexual (blow jobs, sex, hand jobs, etc), because as long as you she didn't the longer the guy stayed around and tipped her. She saw other girls who did "special favors" and the guy would be done with the girl right after, and never come back to see her again.
My sisters approach of listening to guys complain, acting interested, and keeping certain bounderies earned her alot of regulars, and alot of money.
Also, she avoided the young good looking guys. She wasn't there for a boyfriend or for sex. She was there to get paid. Besides, if she was looking for a boyfriend, she is the type of girl who oddly enough would never date a guy who spent his time and money in strip clubs.
So she never went for young guys. She says the younger and cuter they were, the less money they had, and the less they tipped. She only went for the middle aged and older guys, because they always had money, and always tipped well.
Ofcourse nobody knew her real name, because she used a stage name. Even the employees didn't know her real name.
Long story short, as lucky as alot of those guys thought they might get with her, when it came down to it, they didn't know anything about her, they didn't know her name, the very fact that they were in a strip club and tipping her meant that she would never be interested in them, they never impressed her, they never sounded original, at the end of the day, they got to enjoy spending their money thinking they were making progress with a hot stripper, and she got to enjoy taking home there paychecks. And as far as the "don't tip her" approach, well if the guy didn't tip, she would never even be on the same side of the club as him.
Just saying, as others have, she is a stripper, her job is to get you to tip her, and to make you think that you are special enough to come back and pay her again.
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