anger

[24tyrone]

how do you guys control / attemtp to control your anger
im talking everyday anger, you know when yu just get pissed off in an instant when your foods not cooked or whatver you know what it is,

you might be in a room with people yu like but just get that thought of hitting them,


or just general anger, i dont think the coutning to 10 works lol

[gixxerboy1]

i dont get that angry over little things.

[Hoggage_54]

If you get this sudden urge to hit people you like, you might need help...

[24tyrone]

i need to start controlling it i know that, i havent trained for a while suffered an injury, noticed im flipping and anything , sure once im back into the gym hitting those plates i wont be angry well not so much. was thinking about using halo next cycle too but had 2nd thoguhts obv

[Hoggage_54]

u mad?

[Noles12]

How old are you?

You may need to talk with someone if your anger is that serious. Something as simple as my food being undercooked i will say oh well and put it back on the heat

[24tyrone]

get mad quick. i do goto anger management , i think its gotta be coz im not using that agression up in the gym, whenver i have cycled i was never angry either 2 -in my mid 20s,

[RaginCajun]

i don't get mad everyday. i think there is something else going on here. have you been to a psychiatrist lately? if not, then you may want to go sit down and talk some things thru. just my .02

[gixxerboy1]

this thread pisses me the fvck off

[DSM4Life]

Whenever i get mad i punch my sister in the stomach.

[24tyrone]

not angry no more lol

[BgMc31]

Used to be the same way, up until my late 20s. Ruined by college football career AND had negative impacts on my NFL career as well. You sound like you need to talk to someone. I did, and it did a world of difference.

[Shol'va]

I take my aggression out by tearing off those labels on pillows in the department stores. You know the ones that state do not remove under penalty of law.

[number twelve]

negativity gets you nowhere

[punish]

Just get mad at a guy thats way bigger than you so he'll kick the shit out you. That might make you think twice before you get so mad over simple things. Just an idea HAHA

[lovbyts]

Never had an anger issue except when it comes to some women knowing how to push all the right buttons but then most of the time Ill still walk away instead of yelling. Yelling is the extent of it though, never been physical.

[meat&2veg]

If you get this sudden urge to hit people you like, you might need help...

Here, here...

They are your friends!!!

[Times Roman]

I think I'm quicker to anger with tren....


....i've been getting angry lately

[RaginCajun]

I think I'm quicker to anger with tren....


....i've been getting angry lately

nope, your just old an ornery!!!!!

[zaggahamma]

how do you guys control / attemtp to control your anger
im talking everyday anger, you know when yu just get pissed off in an instant when your foods not cooked or whatver you know what it is,

you might be in a room with people yu like but just get that thought of hitting them,


or just general anger, i dont think the coutning to 10 works lol

count to 20..if that dont work...increments of 10.....

hit someone you'll have too much time to count

[D7M]

I take my aggression out by tearing off those labels on pillows in the department stores. You know the ones that state do not remove under penalty of law.

[24tyrone]

bg you seem like you know what your saying- dont know why these ther clowns bothered replying losers if they havent got anything good to say coming out with their sarcy comments- n punish dont worry son id take out my anger on you, and size dont bother me im jiu jitsu blackbelt been training for 14 years my 8year old brothe would snap your arm lol

[zaggahamma]

bg you seem like you know what your saying- dont know why these ther clowns bothered replying losers if they havent got anything good to say coming out with their sarcy comments- n punish dont worry son id take out my anger on you, and size dont bother me im jiu jitsu blackbelt been training for 14 years my 8year old brothe would snap your arm lol

scary

[Times Roman]

bg you seem like you know what your saying- dont know why these ther clowns bothered replying losers if they havent got anything good to say coming out with their sarcy comments- n punish dont worry son id take out my anger on you, and size dont bother me im jiu jitsu blackbelt been training for 14 years my 8year old brothe would snap your arm lol

highly doubtful

[RaginCajun]

bg you seem like you know what your saying- dont know why these ther clowns bothered replying losers if they havent got anything good to say coming out with their sarcy comments- n punish dont worry son id take out my anger on you, and size dont bother me im jiu jitsu blackbelt been training for 14 years my 8year old brothe would snap your arm lol

serious issues going here, go get some professional help! and i think it shows your age

[zaggahamma]

bruce lee gonna kick all our as$es

[gixxerboy1]

bg you seem like you know what your saying- dont know why these ther clowns bothered replying losers if they havent got anything good to say coming out with their sarcy comments- n punish dont worry son id take out my anger on you, and size dont bother me im jiu jitsu blackbelt been training for 14 years my 8year old brothe would snap your arm lol

lol. well i'm a ninja and my 6 year old niece could snap your neck.

[Gaspari1255]

It's difficult. I have always had a really short fuse, and one of these days its going to get me in trouble. I have been bouncing since I started college and I think I have been fired from 5 or 6 clubs for assault charges. Its easy for people to sit here and say "Take a deep breath", "let it slide", but for people like me and you most likely, I get so fvcking pissed off that I black out and don't remember what I did (if I am provoked enough). You just need to look at your future and say to yourself, "If I don't calm down, where the fvck am I going to be in then next 5 years?"

Three days ago I was working the door outside of a strip club, and this douchebag Marine shows up (I cannot stand most men in the military, they all think they're so tough, and think we OWE them something, Motherfvcker you chose to be there, this isn't Vietnam, there was no draft). Anyway, back to my story, he is plastered and starts arguing with me that he should get in for free because he is a Marine. I tried to be respectful by telling him that its the owners choice and he has to pay. This jerkoff tries to push his way past me and I shove him a good 8-10 feet on the ground. However, he landed right in the middle of a busy street and came about 3-4 ft away from getting run over by a bus. The driver had to hit the breaks and the last second. In a matter of seconds, and because of this drunken asshole, my life would have never been the same.

Another example of how my temper almost got me in big trouble---My sophomore year of college I was working at this real shit hole bar in a real shit hole town, infested with thugs and ghetto trash. This little piece of shit flicked a cigarette in my face while we were arguing and I smashed his head into the ground outside. He was knocked out cold and I just left him there. A few hours later, when the bar closes, I head to my car with another bouncer that I was driving home, and this kid was waiting for me with a 9mm. Luckily, my friend I was with went to HS with him years before and talked him out of it. Otherwise, I would have been dead..

A few months ago, this asshole cuts me off on the highway and then gives me the finger. I hit my breaks, wrapped my shirt around my fist, and tried to bust his head through the fvcking window. He quickly drove away, but thats another incident that would have made me spend some time in county.

I'm 22 years old, and I reallly just don't give a fvck. I've had it with just about everyone. Due to my past, and growing up as a child, I know I have a few screws loose and I sometimes really scare myself with the thoughts that I get. But the incident the other day, involving the marine, really made me realize that I need to get a grip on reality and calm the fvck down.

Best of luck to you.

[Gaspari1255]

double post

[gixxerboy1]

^^^ i have some similiar stories. I think age has alot to do with it. I grew up and out of it

[calgarian]

^^^ i have some similiar stories. I think age has alot to do with it. I grew up and out of it

Now you are pissing the fvck outta me Gixxer

[Times Roman]

age DOES have a lot to do with it....

....that and the type of gear you use, if any

[Gaspari1255]

age DOES have a lot to do with it....

....that and the type of gear you use, if any

I'm hoping the older I get, the more I will calm down. Having a short fuse is a lot to do with genetics too. My grandfather had the Italian temper, my father does, etc...

[24tyrone]

still got a bit of temper, thats me, but i havent been angry in a long time now-think it may have something to do with a new gf and lotsa shaggin lol

[Panzerfaust]

I don't think you will find many people here who can sympathize since we all grew up long ago. You should try to do the same.

[toooosmall]

I get angry/irritable at times. Seems to relate to a few things (aside from the normal things that cause normal anger)...hunger and excessive stimulants such as caffeine and ephedrine are the main problems for me.

[PitMaster]

i need to start controlling it i know that, i havent trained for a while suffered an injury, noticed im flipping and anything , sure once im back into the gym hitting those plates i wont be angry well not so much. was thinking about using halo next cycle too but had 2nd thoguhts obv

I don't know how serious your injury is, but I can tell u from someone who has chronic pain. I am more irritable and impatient (slowly getting better) I believe I snap more cuz I'm always uncomfortable. If your physically uncomfortable this can lead u to be more irritable. Drastic changes in your life can also cause this. I don't adapt to change very well myself, this causes issues. If u hurt...work on that, it might help.

[PitMaster]

I'm hoping the older I get, the more I will calm down. Having a short fuse is a lot to do with genetics too. My grandfather had the Italian temper, my father does, etc...

I suppose getting older calmed me down..I still get pissed, but don't react as quickly and make is so dramatic. I think this is key.

[Tigershark]

If you are getting so pissed off you want to just hit people, you need some help.

[toooosmall]

If you are getting so pissed off you want to just hit people, you need some help.

agreed. I haven't felt that way since livin in the hood of DC, gettin jumped and dissed and 2 bikes stolen from my hands, etc. I fantasized alot about oozi-ing the gangstas that did so, but that was in my teens. and I needed help, unfortunately drugs were the only help I got at the time. can't imagine feeling that way nowadays, but... no judging you dude, been there myself. life can really suck. If you've experienced shit you wanna talk about, pm me. I understand. People think DC is just politicians. All I ever seen is ghettos and gangstas. but, that's because I loved drugs. not that I hate them now, I just wanna clean piss test, and correct decision making...nothin wrong with being a true human...