would you date a girl who has a sugardaddy??

[longhorn814]

Hey guys, havent been on here in long ass time..figured I'd come here for some unbiased advice..please feel free to tell me Im an idiot or whatever...

Would any of you knowingly get involved with a girl that has a sugar daddy?? I got into this relationship about a year ago with a girl that has a sugar daddy and she told me it on the first date. I went into it very apprehensively, but b/c she was honest about it, i respected her for that and I didnt judge her. I try not to judge a book by its cover b/c you might miss a good story plus shes a 10!! Anyway as much as I fought it, we fell in love with each other. Things were great at first as in every relationship. Sugar daddy, i will call him fatman from this point on, isnt around much..flies in on his jet and takes her to dinner and do whatever (fukk) after then shes home..it didnt bother me at first, especially as she was making plans to leave his fatass supposedly..well as expected, she didnt leave him and things have just been getting worse and worse..and now all of her insecurity, jealously, and selfishness has manifested itself in our relationship..everything i do gets questioned, if a girls comments on my facebook she thinks im ****ing her, she thinks i try and hack into her email..its wearing me down and its caused me to behave the same way and I have never been like that...now the whole issue with having to fukk the fatman a couple times a week is no longer acceptable to me...i know what to do, the problem is that i really love this woman and underneath all those wounds and baggage is this amazing woman that i fell in love with..i know people cant change unless they want to change for themselves....this is just very hard since i have never had feelings for anybody like this..thats kinda of the long story made short..any comments, advice, suggestions would be appreciated..thanks

[JohnnyVegas]

I was going to type a long answer. I changed my mind.

Run for your life. It can only get worse. She cannot possibly love you. Actually, it is kinda gross.

[terraj]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QPRlJwN-mRM

[gixxerboy1]

my wifes good friend has a sugar daddy. She was actually our made of honor at the wedding. Great girl and gorgeous. But i would never recommend anyone date her. She doesn't pay rent or any bills. He got her a 5 series bmw. She is never going to give that stuff up. The only time it will end is if she gets to old and he gets a younger one.

[amcon]

run... first - she is sleeping with him, think y would a guy give here any thing if he is not getting something. second - second she would never leave him...


so bro unless it is just a poa for you let it go...

[longhorn814]

yes i know i need to run..just need to confirm that im not crazy!

FYI, he bought her a supercharged range rover

im an idiot for getting in this situation

[calgarian]

let me summrize it for u...u fall in LOVE knowingly she has a sugar daddy.........whos fault is that?

[cherrydrpepper]

I thought my life was ****ed up

My advice is to **** her on cam hidden or out if shes cool with it. If you have a perverse sexual fantasy this would be the time to explore it, maybe see if she will let you shit on her chest for example. My personal sick fantasy is I go to the gym and find the most good looking jacked guy that goes there and pay him to GB my girl. He takes the back I get the front. Slapping balls and taking the girl to pleasuretown. You get it on cam and now you have something you can wank to on a cold night. Considering its a vid of some girl who has a sugar daddy gets shit on and plowed in both holes you will never be tempted to call her up and rekindle the romance.

I'm trying to get my own column in the newspaper like a dear annie type thing so let me know how I did.

[gixxerboy1]

^^^^ lol. let me know when you get your column. I'd def read your advice. i would take it but i'd read it

[cherrydrpepper]

^^^^ lol. let me know when you get your column. I'd def read your advice. i would take it but i'd read it

hahahahaha. I think the funniest thing is Im almost never joking. It sounds like Im telling this long detailed joke but I'm almost always serious. LOLLLL

[gixxerboy1]

to be fair i think we need to see pics of this 10 to give good fair advice.

[DIESELPWR]

Second thread I've seen today where gixx asked for pics lol.. I agree tho.. Need pics.. But in all honesty it's you or him n she's gonna try to keep both.. Get out of there

[gixxerboy1]

^^^lol i'm lonely tonight

[Times Roman]

sorry, i don't share.

saying she's a 10 is just an excuse for weakness.

[Standby]

pics pics pics pics!

[Nooomoto]

Why date a girl that's involved on any level with another dude? Its just asking for problems. Its cool to **** a chick like that but not date them. Fail.

[Times Roman]

^^^lol i'm lonely tonight

no sympathy from me mate. as good looking as your womans legs are.......

.....just saying I'd find "something" to keep me from being lonely, ya know?

[longhorn814]

yes i know its a fukked up situation..but she has been good for me in a lot of ways..i quit smoking after 15 years, stopped partying and got back into my old profession doing what im great at and making a much better living and am all in all a much happier person...at least i can walk away knowing that

[JimmySidewalk]

I dont seem to be able to understand one thing. If you love one another, why on earth arent you taking advantage of the sugardaddy also ? Make her make him get the stuff you need thinking its for her. If the motherblocker has that much money you should at least wet your beak a little bit, not only in his girlfriend but his $$ aswell.

And yes, gixxer is right, its very hard to give a proper advice without a photo

[longhorn814]

oh i did take advantage of the situation at first..spent several weeks shacking up in his $3million penthouse on the beach in cabo (haciendacabosanlucas.com) and billing all the food and drinks to him!! Floor seats at the NBA finals were pretty sweet too

[SexySweetheart]

Sorry to disagree with popular oppinion here...but I would not lump her into a Sugarbaby sterio type, from what you are discribing of her and the poss effect she has on you.
Talk it out, you maybe surprised to hear the reasons why she hasnt stopped, and problem solve so she doesnt feel the need to stay a sb. Bottom line tho ~if she thinks you are serious and in it for the long term, she wont want another guy around regardless of the shinney bobbles he has or gives her. The jelaiousy thing tho will be a more diff challenge, only time, dedication, loyalty and reasurace can change it. Dont loose heart, sometimes love IS worth fighting for <3

[JohnnyVegas]

I am always confused when someone subjects themselves to pain "because she is hot." Life gets better when your expectations for a mate are higher than that.

Personally, I go bonkers for that girl that was the math geek in high-school (and then undergrad...and then grad school). Cute and smart as hell. Good job. Likes talking about things that interest me. Doesn't watch the Kardashians. Cracks clever jokes. Self sufficient. Independent. Loyal. I can keep going, but spending time with someone with just half those qualities will make your life better.

[ecruz]

alright bro quick fix. Tell her to have him put her as his sole beneficiary, then take care of it.. bingo she's loaded your happy you guys get married then later down the rd u divorce her take her for half then You become someones sugar daddy!!

Disclaimer..."this is not advice and Dont try this at home"

[Kawigirl]

Why would this even be a question...?

[gixxerboy1]

I am always confused when someone subjects themselves to pain "because she is hot." Life gets better when your expectations for a mate are higher than that.

Personally, I go bonkers for that girl that was the math geek in high-school (and then undergrad...and then grad school). Cute and smart as hell. Good job. Likes talking about things that interest me. Doesn't watch the Kardashians. Cracks clever jokes. Self sufficient. Independent. Loyal. I can keep going, but spending time with someone with just half those qualities will make your life better.

i agree there should be more then looks. But i'll tell you from personal experience the hotter they are the more shit i'll put up with.

[lovbyts]

Date, sure, get involved with romantically, no way. As long as she was being my sugar momma showering me with gifts and?? sure but I would keep it wrapped up at all times.

[Xtrakt0r]

Can't believe you would even consider dating the girl... Just tap that a$$ and move on! Girls like that only see one thing and thats $.. wasted goods imo.

[Times Roman]

What if I were her sugardaddy?

[lovbyts]

What if I were her sugardaddy?

Do you mind her buying me trips to Hawaii, cruises to Caribbean and such with your money? If you don't care, I dont care.

[DSM4Life]

Make sure you wear 3 condoms at the same time.

[Times Roman]

Do you mind her buying me trips to Hawaii, cruises to Caribbean and such with your money? If you don't care, I dont care.

I'd spoiil her with my witty charm and rugged good looks. No need for a fat wallet? =)

[pheenyx1]

I am always confused when someone subjects themselves to pain "because she is hot." Life gets better when your expectations for a mate are higher than that.

Personally, I go bonkers for that girl that was the math geek in high-school (and then undergrad...and then grad school). Cute and smart as hell. Good job. Likes talking about things that interest me. Doesn't watch the Kardashians. Cracks clever jokes. Self sufficient. Independent. Loyal. I can keep going, but spending time with someone with just half those qualities will make your life better.

Good advice. Problem is, we all know the "right" answer. Whats right don't mean shit when it comes to how we feel. We all have these great theories about who we should get involved with and who we shouldn't. When it comes to who we fall in love with, the frontal lobe doesnt even get a vote. Feelings man, worst STD out there.

[pheenyx1]

BTW, I love smart chicks too. But lets be honest, I wouldn't have paid attention long enough to find out she was smart if she wasn't cute.

[Times Roman]

^ true. nobody wants to bag a hag

[SlimmerMe]

Sugar Daddy or not. The money is not the issue. She is not with you 100% ALL the time.
You are NOT her priority so don't make her yours.
So there is your answer.

And...

TR: charming wit with manly rugged looks? sure works for lots of us girls....

NOTE:
I WANT DR CHERRY to let us all know when he gets his column gig.......It will be the first thing I read every single day for guaranteed laughter.

[Xtrakt0r]

Book on understanding women.

[G-1000]

Dude really??

You don't need us to tell you what to do....

good luck!!!

[cherrydrpepper]

Lol slimmerme. IN all seriousness Im not sure what advice to give because I have a fatal flaw. If I can I will f- a beautiful woman and I will keep doing it no matter how dumb it seems. I suspect i'm not alone in this flaw. I dated this stripper one time and it was the biggest bitch to get away from her because the sex was so uninhibited and hardcore like the most violent german porno sex ever. My advice is to tap into those reasons you became interested in women in the first place like those childhood feelings before sex came into the picture. Latch onto that and use that mentality to leave her and find a good one. If you are ready.

[JohnnyVegas]

Good advice. Problem is, we all know the "right" answer. Whats right don't mean shit when it comes to how we feel. We all have these great theories about who we should get involved with and who we shouldn't. When it comes to who we fall in love with, the frontal lobe doesnt even get a vote. Feelings man, worst STD out there.

I have an interesting perspective on this as I paid close attention to how my "feelings" changed when I started TRT. I wanted to sleep with a LOT more women when my Test levels started to come up. I noticed them everywhere and wanted them all. The mall became like a candy store for the first time since I was in my teens. It also made me fall in love with my wife again. These "feelings" are part of the natural reproduction process, they are not rooted in anything intelligent. I think it is important to have an idea of what a good mate is, and then be selective. Following around every girl that we have "feelings" for isn't a good plan. That could be twenty women a year. Seriously, there are probably thousands of women I could fall for in this city since my lack of selection would lead to me having feelings for every girl with big boobs that I met. I have found it best to avoid the ones that I fight with, or don't enjoy talking too, or disagree on fundamental moral issues with...or are currently sleeping with other dudes.

[JohnnyVegas]

I dated this stripper one time...

This is ALWAYS the precursor to an awesome story!