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    Anyone have s crazy ex girlfriend

    Just cut it off with my fiancé because we could never just have a disagreement or argument because she takes it to a whole different level, putting me down calling me every name in the book and then threatening to commit suicide. Last fight was last night and not only did she try cutting her self but then started popping pills and going crazy. She calmed down when she got ahold of her ex boyfriend, but got her father involved and he's suppose to come from 6 hours away to kick my ass ha ha.

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    You should have married her, that is what I always do. lol

    Get use to it, all women are nuts, just some more than other.

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    Man bro I've never gone through that till her and never want to again, I don't fear any man but shit I was afraid of her because she was so crazy and unpredictable, she threatens to run her car into my house one time. I wonder if Dan has these problems ha ha

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    I was thinking it was my ex as I was reading, but no one got ahold of me.

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    I have had more threats than I can remember, suicide threats and attempts, 2 successfully but not related to me at the time. Even found out one tried to hire a hit man except he told me about it because he had meet me and though I was a good guy so he didn't want to do it.

    Ive been hit, punched, scratched, had multiple projectiles fly by me, glass stuck in my knee from broken cup and more.
    There are some crazy b*tches out there for sure.

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    Not that my ex was crazy crazy. But when we would argue, disagree, or fight she would always result to calling me awful names and horrible put downs. And my response after the first big one was- i do not tolerate being talked to that way, and if you feel you can't control yourself there is the door. I would never speak to her that way is what I got into saying also. Long story short it lasted another year and she tried to fix this problem but couldn't seem too. She came from a.verbally abusive dad so I tried to help more so, but Nope didn't work out

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    I know wat you are talking about.You cant just break up and be civil they got to do all kinds of weird shit.Coming by your house all hours of the nite.Bad mouthing you to anyone who will listen.Women are nuts!

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    Quote Originally Posted by songdog View Post
    I know wat you are talking about.You cant just break up and be civil they got to do all kinds of weird shit.Coming by your house all hours of the nite.Bad mouthing you to anyone who will listen.Women are nuts!
    You mean like kicking in the front door of your house, vandalizing cars, calling your work and things like that? Isn't that considered normal? lol
    Oh and these are the same people who said they love you, cant live without you, want to have you baby and spend the rest of their life with you a few days earlier?

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    just do the right be single dont let them know where you live one nite stands and everyone will be alright were all men we can manage and maintain w/out being in a relationship well most of us but hey there is plenty and i mean plenty of ***** fcking guys out there the same way as the women its pathetic

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    One night I was riding my streetbike around the city for a few hours and noticed a car following me. So I took off and lost the car on purpose. I drove back home after that which is about 30 mins from and city. I get home and park my bike in front of the house. As I am getting off my bike I see the same car coming down the street. So I said to myself "here we go" and got my gear off ready to fight. Turns out my ex was following me around in her friends car. When I asked her what the &:&' she was doing she said "what, I was in the area." She lives an hour away from me!

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    cool, I'd go down and file an assault charge against him, then when he shows up any physical damage you do to him is self defense..

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    Hells yeah! But it was fun while it lasted. I really should be used as a diagnostic tool. Stick me in a stadium full of women, whoever I walk out with, get her to the flight deck, cuz she's about to blow.

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    I have a friend whose wife would go nuts during her period, it got to the point where she had him locking himself in the bathroom for an entire day while she was outside stabbing at the door with a kitchen knife......strange, he packed his shit and left the state, they seemed like such a nice couple.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JD250 View Post
    I have a friend whose wife would go nuts during her period, it got to the point where she had him locking himself in the bathroom for an entire day while she was outside stabbing at the door with a kitchen knife......strange, he packed his shit and left the state, they seemed like such a nice couple.
    Yup some women get extra crazy right before their period, Ive known a few. Why do women get off on the excuse of PMS for bad behavior but men are always held accountable?

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    Meh all women are crazy. In the last serious relationship I had she ended it for another guy. 6 months later when she has finished up with her new guy she called me and listed EVERY girl that I had been with since we broke up. She broke up with me but somehow she had the right to have a go at me about it

    One of the girls during that time actually asked me to meet her parents after one date, luckily I had my running shoes on.

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    Yes i had a crazy girl i was with for 4 years. She did all the crazy stuff you mentioned. She did commit suicide about 8 months after i stopped talking to her.
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    Quote Originally Posted by gixxerboy1 View Post
    Yes i had a crazy girl i was with for 4 years. She did all the crazy stuff you mentioned. She did commit suicide about 8 months after i stopped talking to her.
    So you can use the same analogy as me, they cant live without you....

    Quote Originally Posted by gixxerboy1 View Post
    Antrio, you need to do whats best for you. And that is probably not being with her. But if you do care about her i would still be there for her for a while. Like i said my gf of 4 years hung herself 8 months after we stopped talking. If there is anyway i could go back in time i would.
    You cant so done blame yourself in any way. Some people cant be helped or dont want to. You cant foresee the future either. Hind sight is always 20/20. I saw my 2nd ex the day before she shot herself. A lot of the signs were there knowing what I know now but not before and it all hinged one one circumstance myself or no one had control of even a friend of hers who was with her at the time. 1 phone call and it was decided. You never know what will trigger someone.

    Best thing is to just stay away from people like that and dont get involved. As men we typically want to help/fix them but we end up getting dragged into it and become part of the problem.
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    Man I'm glad I'm not the only one going through stuff like this. When my ex would go crazy and call me names and put me down I would just try to be calm or plead with her to calm down and just talk but she couldn't do it, when she got her way though it was like nothing ever happened, I think she was bipolar, she even said she thought she was. I still can't get that image of her holding a knife to her neck trying to kill herself

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    Quote Originally Posted by antrio1 View Post
    Man I'm glad I'm not the only one going through stuff like this. When my ex would go crazy and call me names and put me down I would just try to be calm or plead with her to calm down and just talk but she couldn't do it, when she got her way though it was like nothing ever happened, I think she was bipolar, she even said she thought she was. I still can't get that image of her holding a knife to her neck trying to kill herself
    Oh yeah Bipolar chicks are fun, on moment things are the best they could ever be, on top of the world and next life is a total hell. No middle ground. lol

    A knife to her neck huh? You should try talking one down who has a 9mm pointed at her chest....

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    Quote Originally Posted by antrio1 View Post
    Man I'm glad I'm not the only one going through stuff like this. When my ex would go crazy and call me names and put me down I would just try to be calm or plead with her to calm down and just talk but she couldn't do it, when she got her way though it was like nothing ever happened, I think she was bipolar, she even said she thought she was. I still can't get that image of her holding a knife to her neck trying to kill herself
    The girl I dated was bipolar. There were several 911 calls. During one she put a knife to her neck. I pray that some day with science we can remove defects from peoples dna.

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    Antrio, you need to do whats best for you. And that is probably not being with her. But if you do care about her i would still be there for her for a while. Like i said my gf of 4 years hung herself 8 months after we stopped talking. If there is anyway i could go back in time i would.
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    Man guys I didn't know girls could get that extreme and I'm sorry for the things y'all went through with the losses. I had to separate myself from her though after trying so much and taking abuse and trying to get help and nothing would change and my feelings had changed because of the put downs and because of her threatening me and also because she was a flirt, I failed to mention that, she has done me wrong over 5 times and every time I tried to break it of she went crazy. I feel bad but I could only see me getting in trouble and emotionally beat. I told her that she was pushing me away emotionally every time but she wanted what she wanted.

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    Quote Originally Posted by antrio1 View Post
    Just cut it off with my fiancé because we could never just have a disagreement or argument because she takes it to a whole different level, putting me down calling me every name in the book and then threatening to commit suicide. Last fight was last night and not only did she try cutting her self but then started popping pills and going crazy. She calmed down when she got ahold of her ex boyfriend, but got her father involved and he's suppose to come from 6 hours away to kick my ass ha ha.
    Ok... that’s def. nutty

    ...and fathers going to come kick your azz....oh gee, I wonder where she learned to be dramatic and psychotic?
    lol

    threatening to end your life just cuz a person on this huge planet does not love you or you don’t want to be alone for a while...never understood this.
    I had an X that threatened the same thing and I was even more grossed out by him for it.
    Like really? you can’t stand your life or yourself that much...if even you can’t stand you, what makes you think I can either? Pathetic

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sexy4mySweetheart

    Ok... that’s def. nutty

    ...and fathers going to come kick your azz....oh gee, I wonder where she learned to be dramatic and psychotic?
    lol

    threatening to end your life just cuz a person on this huge planet does not love you or you don’t want to be alone for a while...never understood this.
    I had an X that threatened the same thing and I was even more grossed out by him for it.
    Like really? you can’t stand your life or yourself that much...if even you can’t stand you, what makes you think I can either? Pathetic
    Yes you have a very good point, plus I think it's in a way selfish thinking because they don't care of the impact it will leave on family and friends. I spent countless hours pleading and giving in to her that it wore me down emotionally, I wasn't happy anymore and I didn't want to see her anymore plus I could relax during the day or spend allot of time with my family

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    WOW, yeah any chick that threatens suicide or talks about/calls ex when fighting is out, no second chances there. My father comitted suicide when I was a kid so I have zero tolerance for those bullshit threats!! As far as the dude saying one night stands keep the crazies away, no such luck. Some of the craziest bithces ive dealt with were from one nighters that I didnt want back for round two. One time I ended up with all four of my tires slashed twice in a week! Not even sure who it was as I was on quite a run but didnt have any other enemies I know of as I was in a town for work and didnt know anyone other than chicks I met...

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    You guys can't top my ex off, Haz knew her personally, so he will second all of the information and details that are about to be released:

    My ex was 4 years older than me (26), had no education, had no day job, drank/smoked/popped molly every night and bartended twice a week as a career. Her mother killed herself when she was 16, so ever since the, she hasn't been "all there"

    She was the most jealous human being I have ever met in my life. She was a bartender where I bounced at and if a girl, co worker or customer, we're to speak to me, she wouldn't hesitate to hop over the bar and tee off on her..

    One time I was eating sour patch kids, and a bottle server asked for some, so I poured some into her hand and that was it. Later that night, my ex was drinking heavily and making a sandwich. She went off on me for "flirting" picked up the big steak knife and tried to stab me. I literally had to run and hide in the closet. We were at her apartment, and the transmission in my car went, so I was unable to escape. I snuck out of the closest to call a friend to come get me, but my phone was dead. So, I plugged it into the wall to make a call, she came running out of her room, punching and kicking me multiple times, ripped my phone out of the wall, tried to stomp on it...

    Another time we were out at the bar watching football, a friend of HER friend introduced herself to me. She jumped over the table, started swinging, embarrassing me in front of 100+ people...

    The moral of the story was she was cheating on me and left me for another guy. Yet, she still drives by my apartment complex, steals my laundry, shows up at my two jobs, hacked into my facebook, threatens every girl who used to "like" one of my statuses....I finally deleted the fvcking thing so she now has zero information on me.

    That broad had more problems in one day then the average person does in a lifetime.

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    If my girl turned out like this (if we break up which touch wood isn't looking likely! haha) I do not know what the hell I would do haha.

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    Quote Originally Posted by antrio1 View Post
    Just cut it off with my fiancé because we could never just have a disagreement or argument because she takes it to a whole different level, putting me down calling me every name in the book and then threatening to commit suicide. Last fight was last night and not only did she try cutting her self but then started popping pills and going crazy. She calmed down when she got ahold of her ex boyfriend, but got her father involved and he's suppose to come from 6 hours away to kick my ass ha ha.
    I was dating a girl exactly as you describe several years ago. We had a bad fight and I said some things I wish I hadn't. She overdosed on drugs and threw up blocking her airway. This cut off the oxygen to her brain. Half of her brain died. She was kept alive by machines for a month. Her mother told me she was going to pull the plug. I whispered in her ear how sorry I was and that I didn't think I would ever come back from this. A couple of days later her organs started working on their own. She is a paraplegic and will spend the rest of her life in a nursing home. I'm paraphrasing a bit.. things ive seen I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy. I visit her when I can.

    I sometimes think about the day I met her when she wrote her number on a napkin. If I had a time machine I would stop myself from taking that number even if I had to beat or shoot myself.

    You only have one play here. Get away from her even if you have to change your number.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cherrydrpepper

    I was dating a girl exactly as you describe several years ago. We had a bad fight and I said some things I wish I hadn't. She overdosed on drugs and threw up blocking her airway. This cut off the oxygen to her brain. Half of her brain died. She was kept alive by machines for a month. Her mother told me she was going to pull the plug. I whispered in her ear how sorry I was and that I didn't think I would ever come back from this. A couple of days later her organs started working on their own. She is a paraplegic and will spend the rest of her life in a nursing home. I'm paraphrasing a bit.. things ive seen I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy. I visit her when I can.

    I sometimes think about the day I met her when she wrote her number on a napkin. If I had a time machine I would stop myself from taking that number even if I had to beat or shoot myself.

    You only have one play here. Get away from her even if you have to change your number.
    Man I'm so sorry to hear that, thats what I'm afraid of I couldn't handle something like that I'm an ass but I have a big heart. I had to get away from her, I couldn't handle what was going on and like I said, if something were to happen there's no way I could bounce back

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    Quote Originally Posted by antrio1 View Post
    Man I'm so sorry to hear that, thats what I'm afraid of I couldn't handle something like that I'm an ass but I have a big heart. I had to get away from her, I couldn't handle what was going on and like I said, if something were to happen there's no way I could bounce back
    its hard to bounce back. My ex passed about 7 and a half years ago and i still think about her.
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    Holy sh*t. And I thought sleeping in the spare room and paying all the bills was bad......jeez.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kelkel View Post
    Holy sh*t. And I thought sleeping in the spare room and paying all the bills was bad......jeez.
    isnt that normal?
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    My best friend has a CRAZZZZZYYYYY! girlfriend! lol she hits him, threatens him, yells at his friends, she has a kid with another man and she treats the kid like shit! she a horrible parent! The only thing she has going for her is that she's hot as shit! shes a solid 9 or 10.....but man I cant stand this girl! she is literally ruining my friends life and he still sticks by her side???? Its sad because this chick is even pushing my friend and I apart.

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    Sometimes guys get that mentality where they think about her beauty and the sex and that makes them not want her to be with any other guys, or they're used to having her

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    Quote Originally Posted by antrio1 View Post
    Sometimes guys get that mentality where they think about her beauty and the sex and that makes them not want her to be with any other guys, or they're used to having her
    Yeah man thats all it is....Last time I was over she freaked out in front of a bunch of people, I told him he need to leave her and im no longer coming over because I cant support her abuse and he agreed with me and said they were done....well its been two weeks and they are together lol shes the kind of girl who knows shes hot and its the only thing she has going for her....she didnt even finish highschool so she uses it to get what she wants, my budy always tells me she so good in bed ect ect....but then he also tells me before they were together she was a big whore! lol he also caught her texting an ex yet he insists that she would never cheat haha if shes been with this many dudes no wonder she so good in bed! practice make perfect lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by awms View Post
    Yeah man thats all it is....Last time I was over she freaked out in front of a bunch of people, I told him he need to leave her and im no longer coming over because I cant support her abuse and he agreed with me and said they were done....well its been two weeks and they are together lol shes the kind of girl who knows shes hot and its the only thing she has going for her....she didnt even finish highschool so she uses it to get what she wants, my budy always tells me she so good in bed ect ect....but then he also tells me before they were together she was a big whore! lol he also caught her texting an ex yet he insists that she would never cheat haha if shes been with this many dudes no wonder she so good in bed! practice make perfect lol
    Your friend is an idiot and deserves what he gets. Myself it doesn't matter how hot a chick is or how good in bed if she is a bitch and has a bad attitude I'm not having sex with her. I need to like the person to want to put the effort into sex unless it's a 1 time deal, 1 night stand then who cares. If it's a relationship I need more than just physical attraction.

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    Ha ha sounds allot like my situation but I had no other choice but to cut it off

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    Yeah man I its sad because he has chose her over me and even though she does nothing but treat him like shiitt and sneak behind his back? I really don't understand it at all! she has never treated him well and he still moved in with her and now that they live together its even worse! he trust her 100%! yet she accuses him of cheating which is a red flag to me! lol I told the guy im always here for him no matter what yet when I tell him that hes to good for her he gets mad???? man oh man its frustrating! I have not talked to the guy in two weeks because the last time i did I told him his gf is crazy and that he needs to break up with her....whats he do? he tells her haha so she txt me and tells me to shut my mouth ect ect.....I feel like im in highschool all over or something lol

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    Dang yeah I was in the same boat but as much as I love her I had to leave because of everything she did, the bad just outweighed the good.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lovbyts
    You should have married her, that is what I always do. lol

    Get use to it, all women are nuts, just some more than other.
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