Well I've been dating this girl for 3 years and we broke up about 4 months ago, mainly for the reason that I needed to change b/c I was starting to become a huge d*ck to her. So it took me a while to change and when I did and tried to come back to her she's turning me down. She says she doesn't feel that way anymore. I think shes just scared I'm going to treat her badly again. Any suggestions?