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I allways thought that women loved muscle ,can you be too big though? there was a point when women liked my size but as ive got bigger a lot seem to be scared,now its only the odd one or two that like it, anyone else notice that or have i just gone ugly?
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I am told i am too big, and the wife likes me better more cut, and defined than big..
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i feel like now a days girls look for that ashton kutcher slim look. cant stand that shit, but there are girls that like the extra large muscle look.
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I do personally like bigger guys...whether it's thick (like off season), or cut...it doesn't matter; as long as he takes care of his body. And, I agree with lucabratzi...don't like the slim build...no offense to those...just my choice...!!!!
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Shame theres not more girls like you around !!!Originally Posted by Pinkvelvet
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kutcher blows
i gotta agree with this guy here. these chiks nowadays are looking more at the "kutcher" look then the guy that spends his time busting his ass in the gym. im a bartender and i see it ALL THE TIME. i used to be a scrawny shithead when i started and was always under the impression that buff was the thing to be. im not by any means huge but i get hated on for taking care of myself and being muscular.. not to mention that i get labeled a "whore" just because i look good. all i can say is WTF??
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I have same feelings about it.
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There are more girls that like a med cut build, then a huge guy. i hate women that think skinny fuckers are buff, its so stupid. If a star has a low bf to show their abs they are on the top 100 hottest bodies list.
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If I'm heavier than the guy..or can bench more than him......take a long walk off a short pier buddy!!!!! Nothing is less sexier to me than that!
Something about a big guy who can give his girl a big bear hug (without crushing her) is the pinnacle of my day!
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SoHow much you bench?
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So
i was wandering the same thing
i get compliments from friends that are girls but most girls i meet think i'm arrogant which i am definitely NOT - the reason i statred going to the gym all those years ago was cos i was a skinny, insecure kid who got bullied
now i get big and cut and apparently i'm up my own arse
cant win
although i dont get bullied anymore ah haa
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This is one reason why i fucking HATE high school. I'm from the midwest and I swear on my life, just about 80% of the girls in my school go for the skinny ass wife beater gangster kid look. I got one thing to say on that topic:
FUCK THAT!
Freshman year girls were all into the muscle look and shit, problem was I had none, I was a chubby small kid. Now i'm lean and have actually got some size and I only have 20% of the girls that are into it, and I dont like high school girls. My girlfriends 19 and a freshman in college, and I always end up dating chicks that are older.
I guess the older girls get they feel the need to be "safer" around bigger guys--but I guess there is a limit. I'm sure they wouldnt feel too safe around ronnie coleman or jay cutler.
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So
Well, not much as of yet...I would have to say...at least competition weight...mmmm....110..I'm actually a very tiny girl....
I know 110...pounds..not much..but, give me time...I'll be up there with the big boys.....
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Yes, I've heard that from a lot of girls, something about tha fact that women like to feel protected...I can honestly say that the Vin-diesel-pick-a-girl-up-and-wrap-her-legs-around-you move worked MORE THAN ONCE
Pinkevelvet, lookin' real good in your avatar
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Yes, I've heard that from a lot of girls, something about tha fact that women like to feel protected...I can honestly say that the Vin-diesel-pick-a-girl-up-and-wrap-her-legs-around-you move worked MORE THAN ONCE
Pinkevelvet, lookin' real good in your avatar
You should check out my pics... in the Members pic forum!!
Oh, and Thank you!!
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yea i've found that its really all a matter of abs and body fat levels... I mean you can't be like 140lbs or lower then your too skinny.. but i say if your between 150-190 and your ripped out. You've got it made. i'm 5'10ish and i'm tryin to make my way to about 185 like 8% bf.. i'll let u know wht the ladies think ha
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women prefer skinny guys for relationships but musclheads for sexual indiscretions. Depending on what the woman wants will depend how she prefers you. Women shy away from muscleheads for relationships cuz they see them as having too many sexual options and wont be faithfull.
Studies have been done. look it up on netscape
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I must say though...vice versa!!!!!!!!
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Yea, most girls who don't know me think I am the biggest man whore bc i am big and in good shape i guess.
Yes, I have found your observations to be true though, i only get the odd one or two girls that like me being big, others are not attracted to it I guess
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And, if they don't find you attractive...F*%@k them!
Yummy back by the way!
This is really ironic..I try to make eye contact with an attractive (very large) guy at the gym...and they kinda shy away...mmmm....
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i shy away from girls in the gym also when the make eye contact b/c i always think they aren't there to be hit on. If im wrong tell me b/c there are some hot ass girls at the gym....lol...
Female Member
Whoa...okey..be careful....
I do agree, I'm not there to be picked up...but if the vibes are they're from him...and I'm recipro
Anabolic Member
Why thank you
You look like you are in pretty damn good shape yourself....Lookin good in the avatar.
Yea, I kinda shy away when girls look at me at the gym too, but sometimes i think its b/c they are looking at me like im crazy for lifting a lot of weight or something. For example, one time I was deadlifting, and I had 4 plates on the bar, and did a set, then I went and put a 5th 45# on each side and this girl was like what the hell your doing more weight?!?! I was like uhhhh yea LOL
The only time i am really self concious about a girl not finding me attractive for the reason of me being too big though is when I am bulking on cycle and I am really bloated, it just makes me feel uncomfortable.
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Why thank you
You look like you are in pretty damn good shape yourself....Lookin good in the avatar.
Yea, I kinda shy away when girls look at me at the gym too, but sometimes i think its b/c they are looking at me like im crazy for lifting a lot of weight or something. For example, one time I was deadlifting, and I had 4 plates on the bar, and did a set, then I went and put a 5th 45# on each side and this girl was like what the hell your doing more weight?!?! I was like uhhhh yea LOL
The only time i am really self concious about a girl not finding me attractive for the reason of me being too big though is when I am bulking on cycle and I am really bloated, it just makes me feel uncomfortable.
This is uncanny....I think the exact same way when I'm bulking...(which; is right now by the way)...lucky for me...being in Canada...I can hide it quite easily now that I'm closer to the colder months!
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Be more aggressive! Grab a hand full of ass and don't just pinch it. Hold it for few seconds. I love aggressive gals like that. Makes me feel special.
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WRONG! It has nothing to do with skinny vs muscled or your BODY. It has to do with your facial features.A small majority of Women (55-60%) prefer men with boyish, baby faced features for relationships because they SEEM less likely to cheat, less likely to committ agressive acts and domestic violence and they look like better parents. On other hand some women (40-45%) prefer men with more masculine features (biggers jaws, higher shoulder to waist ratio...) because they look better in bed and more agressive. It is has nothing to do with muscle, al thought it can play a role in women's choice of men, but untimately face dictates that part.
Female Member
Send me a pic...and I'll be the judge of that last question...lol (wink)
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At 6 ft 4 240 I don't think you are falling under the too big category Bro, it might just be in your head. I got hit on the most when I was 260 and bloated over the summer and I'm only 5' 10"
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if he is good looking size doesn't matter in regards to muscle
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I saw i big MO FO today at my local gym shop. i asked him who mutch he was, he was 144kg with a bf of 5% , an i can tell that only a mother can love that size, man comon he was like 55 of me, i just say marcus ruhl and you understand.
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It's too bad things aren't so simple like they were in the days of cavemen. Us bigger guys would just walk up to the opposition, club the little guy in the head, and carry the chick into our caves. I mean, I think that's about how it went.
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My wife likes my size so that's all that matters.......... and so did all my old girlfriends
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I got more girls coming up to me and hitting one me - inititating things - back when I was 6'2" and weighed 140lbs. I'm 6'3" now and weigh 250-260lbs, and pretty ripped - most girls are afraid of me/intimidated. I have a girlfriend of 3 years though, and she knew me when I was skinny, so I don't really give a flying fvck if other girls think I'm too big. Girls now tell me I'm hot/handsome/cute and that I could be model - but they say that they are afraid I would hurt them! Since when does being big mean that you hit girls? I've never hit a girl in my life.
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I don’t think they like guys too big that cant move over in Taiwan if you’re to bug you can’t get a girl. Dam I am a monster compare to them lol
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yea, after i get to know a girl, they all say they were intimdated by me, or afraid of me, and i hate that, bc id never harm a girl
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Ya but thats just the way they are.
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same thing...theyre always like phew now i know you are a nice guy i can tell u this blah blah
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I honestly don't think they were afraid of you hurting them, I mean have you looked in the mirror lately.
GEESUS MAN...your one scary lookin mutherfukker.
(call me)
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Self-confidence is the most attractive thing in both men and women. If you feel good about yourself, the way you look, the way you live your life, it will radiate to others in the way you interact with them.
Having a jacked body, big tits, low body-fat, is one way to build self-esteem, but there are a lot of attractive guys and gals, we all know, who even though they don't have the best physiques are just the ones we want to be with.
(I'm embarrased that I'm attracted to a S.U.N.Y. student with mousy brown hair, who is taking out the compost, making coffee in long underwear.)
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