GF Has been Lying to me......

[Natty99]

Dating this awesome girl for 1.5 years now. She told me that I was her first and that I took her virginity and all. I believe her of course. Then yestrerday she tells me she had an affair with a married 38 year old former boss when she was 18. (this was 5 year's ago) WTF!!!!! She claims she was "in love" and was like addicted to the sex.

She told me that she had some issues but never the whole story. This is really fvcked up. She seemed like the most innocent girl!

I'm flippin out!!!!!How would you guys handle this??????

[Natty99]

guess it wentr on for a year......makes me sick, i'm like shaking right now.

[USfighterFC]

Ehh **** it. Its in the past. I would just let it go and issue her a warning. Next offense and she'll get banned LOL j/k. Seriously I wouldnt let it bother you that much.

[steve0]

Dating this awesome girl for 1.5 years now. She told me that I was her first and that I took her virginity and all. I believe her of course. Then yestrerday she tells me she had an affair with a married 38 year old former boss when she was 18. (this was 5 year's ago) WTF!!!!! She claims she was "in love" and was like addicted to the sex.

She told me that she had some issues but never the whole story. This is really fvcked up. She seemed like the most innocent girl!

I'm flippin out!!!!!How would you guys handle this??????

whats new NATTY !!!! they all lie get used to it man majorty of woman are hoes so dont feel bad about either you gotta learn to live with it or let her go no ifs ands or buts about it,

it makes no sense to pound her with Questions about it so i hope ur not. but on the other hand dont feel bad at least you were her second, or so you think !

[firmechicano831]

Maybe she lied to you because she loved you and knew that If you told you that right from the beggining you would leave her or wouldn't be interested. I would leave it in the past as well but let her know that if she ever cheats on you or something you will be out in a second. **** her hard afterwords and make her scream your name to take the anger out.

[Natty99]

Maybe she lied to you because she loved you and knew that If you told you that right from the beggining you would leave her or wouldn't be interested. I would leave it in the past as well but let her know that if she ever cheats on you or something you will be out in a second. **** her hard afterwords and make her scream your name to take the anger out.

I think you'e right on bro...it's just really tuff on me.....mental pictures and sh;t, guess i'm just too sensitive

[USfighterFC]

I think you'e right on bro...it's just really tuff on me.....mental pictures and sh;t, guess i'm just too sensitive

Just let it go.....were you as pissed when you were with ex g/f's who have been with people before you? It's no big deal. My ex g/f had sex with more people than the graduating class at my high school.

[Natty99]

Just let it go.....were you as pissed when you were with ex g/f's who have been with people before you? It's no big deal. My ex g/f had sex with more people than the graduating class at my high school.

Thanks bro this stuff helps...I really had no one else to turn to. I love AR. One past lover is definately bettter than dozens

[USfighterFC]

Thanks bro this stuff helps...I really had no one else to turn to. I love AR. One past lover is definately bettter than dozens

Ahh no prob. It's just one person 5 years ago. Thats pretty amazing she hasnt had sex in like 4 years. Too amazing J/k there are people out there like that.

[Pooks]

Thanks bro this stuff helps...I really had no one else to turn to. I love AR. One past lover is definately bettter than dozens

yah bro, u're gonna have to do a good job communicating to her and making her understand u really dont mind at all, and maybe u find it funny.

if u can make her laugh about the subject, i think all will be good.

[steve0]

[QUOTE=USfighterFC]Just let it go.....were you as pissed when you were with ex g/f's who have been with people before you? It's no big deal. My ex g/f had sex with more people than the graduating class at my high school.[/QUOTE]



can i have her # USfighter ?? please ??

[steve0]

natty, did you ask her why she lied, NO but really man dont ask her a bunch of questions about it just keep it short man, then let the BS go its never worth it specially since you have been togather so long,

[Natty99]

natty, did you ask her why she lied, NO but really man dont ask her a bunch of questions about it just keep it short man, then let the BS go its never worth it specially since you have been togather so long,

She said it was really hard for her to talk about cause she just wanted to tottally forget about it. I just asked her some basics after she told me....She was a mess crying uncontrollably.

[steve0]

She said it was really hard for her to talk about cause she just wanted to tottally forget about it. I just asked her some basics after she told me....She was a mess crying uncontrollably.

dude im telling you just find out what you wanna know, and leave it at that and never bring it up again at all, no matter what. so next time you get in an arguement dont bring up the fact that she was lied to you in the past, if you ask me she didnt really lie to you she just lied to her-self,

[Natty99]

dude im telling you just find out what you wanna know, and leave it at that and never bring it up again at all, no matter what. so next time you get in an arguement dont bring up the fact that she was lied to you in the past, if you ask me she didnt really lie to you she just lied to her-self,

Thanks Steve o. I know it must have been really tuff for her to tell me. She really is super honest all the time.

[steve0]

Thanks Steve o. I know it must have been really tuff for her to tell me. She really is super honest all the time.

No prob natty, just be cool man brush it off and act like its no big deal when your around her, even though its eating up inside and eventually this will all pass,

[Evil Predator]

She didnt get good in bed without spending a little time there bro

i wouldnt even worry about it... im yet to nail a virgin i think....

[steve0]

She didnt get good in bed without spending a little time there bro

i wouldnt even worry about it... im yet to nail a virgin i think....

i nalid one virgin in my lifetime, it was actually ok !!

[PhishStasH]

i nalid one virgin in my lifetime, it was actually ok !!

I've taken 3...dang. St. Peter sendin' me straight to hell.

[Pooks]

I've taken 3...dang. St. Peter sendin' me straight to hell.

Stuff happens at those hippy shows huh?

[Pooks]

I almost nailed a virgin, but once i pulled out the sandwitch she had like a panic attack and got the shakes and passed out. LOL

well.... the girl started freakin out,and got shakes so i ended up just fingering her thats all....

apparently her last and only bf before, they would just lay in bed and hold hands.

so when i started twisting her and tossin her around, and arousing her, she went all insane.

[Pooks]

Back on subject.. i dont get why she would lie about something like that.. i'd be very suspicious from now on... it sucks... the thing is..

now even if u try to forgive her, she will feel guilty about it, and prolly will lead to other bs too.

[Natty99]

I still have one V-card under my belt! I hope (crosses fingers)

[Natty99]

I was a little skeptical the first time she gave me a BJ, definately not a rookie

[Smak]

Wow that's a tough one. At least she wasn't in the relationship with you when she had this affair so I wouldn't sweat it.

[Natty99]

Yeah she def. regrets it. I'm more pissed at the guy. He's the scumbag

[steve0]

Yeah she def. regrets it. I'm more pissed at the guy. He's the scumbag

Natty the guy is not a scumbag he had achance to get a young girl and he did, no im just saying it how it is so dont get pissed, but thats the truth,

[Natty99]

Natty the guy is not a scumbag he had achance to get a young girl and he did, no im just saying it how it is so dont get pissed, but thats the truth,

I know how it is bro, it's everymans dream.....but he was married

[Natty99]

I'm going to try to forget about it and not talk about it anymore with her. But im still just really pissed off in general. This will give me some good fuel for those really intense workouts

[STREETOFFICIAL]

Bro this is not a big deal, she most likely felt ashamed at what she did and was scared you were going to judge her, which you are now doing.

[Natty99]

Bro this is not a big deal, she most likely felt ashamed at what she did and was scared you were going to judge her, which you are now doing.

There's no avoiding the judging bro. But at least now I know how great of a girl she is.

[QuieTSToRM33]

It was in the past .... before you guys got together . Let it go.

Like USfighter said ..... issue her a warning .... if she lies to u again ... then take action.

[Tren Bull]

Dating this awesome girl for 1.5 years now. She told me that I was her first and that I took her virginity and all. I believe her of course. Then yestrerday she tells me she had an affair with a married 38 year old former boss when she was 18. (this was 5 year's ago) WTF!!!!! She claims she was "in love" and was like addicted to the sex.

She told me that she had some issues but never the whole story. This is really fvcked up. She seemed like the most innocent girl!

I'm flippin out!!!!!How would you guys handle this??????

it sucks she lied to you, but its not like she cheated on you

[Natty99]

it sucks she lied to you, but its not like she cheated on you

I know bro, its just sux. Makes me want to hulk up and break some shit

[Tren Bull]

I know bro, its just sux. Makes me want to hulk up and break some shit

i dont understand why you're so mad about it though bro. she probably just wanted you to think shes innocent so you wouldn't use her then leave her.

[Natty99]

i dont understand why you're so mad about it though bro. she probably just wanted you to think shes innocent so you wouldn't use her then leave her.

Because I love her and this is pretty fvcked up. I get the second part

[mavsluva]

This reminds me of a scene from the movie "Clerks" where Daunte (the cashier at the convenience store) had a run in with his girlfriend and he inquired about the number of guys that she had slept with since their breakup:

"YOU SUCKED HOW MANY DIKS? OH MY GOD! MY GIRLFRIEND SUCKED 37 DIKS"

[chest6]

all of them lie..just gotta deal with it I guess

[Evil Predator]

women....

they sure are pretty..

[Natty99]

women....

they sure are pretty..

This girl is smoking hot bro! Best Ass in the entire world. Guys just stare!