My girlfriend has been pissed at me all day because I refuse to apologize for a dream she had in which I cheated on her.
How is that rational?
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My girlfriend has been pissed at me all day because I refuse to apologize for a dream she had in which I cheated on her.
How is that rational?
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WTF is wrong with her?????
It was her dream who the fvck u r responsible?
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****ed if I know.Originally Posted by calgarian
It was her dream who the fvck u r responsible?
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wow......thats a new one......
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God almighty
Suspended or Banned either way gone!
Post some pics of her...
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She's in cal's avatar.
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no matter how pretty she look someone is always tired of her shit.....
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Every time I see a hot chick walking down the street, and think about offering her a ride...I stop and think to myself "wait a minute...how come no one else would give her a ride?"
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i just say ...give her ONE ride..ride of her life and then run like hell
dont tell that to ur GF otherwise she will think u r cheating with her and then she will break up with u...jesus..is she bi-polar?
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Bingo! See how beautiful they are when they milk you for everything you have, and snatch your whole fvckin world right out from under you without a care in the world
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thats why i say fvck and forget...Bingo! See how beautiful they are when they milk you for everything you have, and snatch your whole fvckin world right out from under you without a care in the world
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Yeah thats what I'm going for. Actually I tried that last night, but I guess since everything is so new with my separation, and I got so much stress from this all, along with not being able to see my kid for a few months, I wasn't with it at all. I have had several girls who have hyped up my ego to be the shit in bed, including my wife, but something tells me that the one from last night is not going to feel the same
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I wish all my problems were as easy to solve as a quick "I'm sorry babe"
fuk dude, say it and move on! don't let your ego get in the way.
a happy woman is better than a bitchy woman?
or am i missing something real deep here?
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but he didnt do anything to apologize for?
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he may win the battle yet lose the war!
and you never know, if she sees he is willing to give on certain things, then maybe she will start to be more flexible too.
I'm not expert, but it's little tricks like this that has kept me and my woman together for 25 years.
Let me ask you this...
what's more important?
the "principal of the thing", or...
your woman's feelings?
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No way dude...I can't set the precedent of apologizing for shit I didn't do.
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That has gotten me in trouble SO many times. Im the same way. LOL
Dont worry, it will get worse and she will never forget it....
Rational and women don't go in the same sentence. Every time mine has a dream it HAS to mean something. I cant have anything to do with a movie or anything else, it has to be about something that happened or is going to happen. she has been right more times than she will ever know also. hehehehe
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if you don't want to reassure her, get used to masturbating alone..
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Wow
talk about her having trust n control issues!!!!
Usually the person with a guilty mind is the most guilty.
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The only thing you should be saying is get f*cked. This is crazy
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and this is why relationships do not last very long. Neither side is willing to give an inch
The only thing you should be saying is get f*cked. This is crazy
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because down deep, she knows you didnt do anything, but sometimes women just need to be coddled, held, and if they need to hear you are sorry to make them feel better....
....why wouldn't want your woman to feel better?
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just tell her you had a dream that you and her had crazy amazing anal sex and everything else you can think of. then tell her she isnt living up to herself in the dream and you demand her to do so. then say your sorry
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I really had to laugh at the listening particle of the male brain.
Listening "particle"! =)
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What you trying to say, us men should bow down and accept there pathetic mood swings and just say what they want to hear? sorry mate but some of aint door mats
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so you are more concerned in the principal of the thing
as opposed to your womans feelings?
I hear you loud and clear.
There are reasons some of us can't hold on to a woman for more than a year, and others can hold on to a woman for a life time.
Nothing personal. But this is the very essense of what is meant by "give and take" in a relationship. If you can't give a little, then how can you expect her to give any either?
Truth is, this is not a very advanced concept. Some get it right off the bat, some never get it. Me? I'm still struggling with it. Sometimes I'm selfish and forget. Sometimes I don't. Don't mean to come off preachy, mate.
But when I hear the words "doormat" on a simple thing like this, makes one wonder. Or at least I wonder. Ego is a mother fukker when it get's in the way. Sometimes you need to check your ego at the door and listen to your woman.
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lol mate, a person should never appologise for something they havent done...because it wouldnt mean anything...and a person should never apologise for his girl having a bumb ass dream.
Get with it bro, i could agree with what your saying if OP had said/done something but ...a dream
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I agree. It easy to keep a girl for a long time without ever apologizing for something you didnt do.lol mate, a person should never appologise for something they havent done...because it wouldnt mean anything...and a person should never apologise for his girl having a bumb ass dream.
Get with it bro, i could agree with what your saying if OP had said/done something but ...a dream
I would talk with her and have an understanding before i would apologize for cheating in a dream. I have enough pride to not just apologize because she got mad for no reason.
I would be more miserable trying to make a girl happy all the time by being her bitch and apologizing for her dreams, as opposed to taking the heat for it until she realizes its dumb
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Damn i find it hard to say what i want to say..thanks noles
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Look dude.Tomorrow morning wake up and act all p!ssed, don't let her touch you and when she asks whats going on say '' i'm mad cos in a dream I had last night you scked off a horse''. Hopefully that will shock her back into reality.
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Yeah just play off that you had a dream that she did something ridiculously crazy in and act the same way towards her
"3 stars and a sun"
Tell her to sleep again and you will apologize in her dreams!
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i think he did do something cause this sh*t just doesnt make sense
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She'll get over it. I'm way more stubborn than she is!
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Don't say you're sorry for something you didn't do bro. Because when you DO do something you'll have to do alot more than say sorry....
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Good point..if the OP is puting this straight, the girl has issues and he should get rid. or do what roman recomends, apologise and live with it day in day out
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she must think he has done something in order for her mind to trigger that dream. i know if i lay in bed thinking hard about something i will have a dream about it
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