Sick of meeting 'piece of shit' women

[Gaspari1255]

I'm 22 years old and I am pretty convinced that every female in my age group is either a) complete party girl/lush/rec. drug user b) total whore c) mind game-playing attention wanting douchebag or d) all of the above.

Where the fvck am I supposed to meet some quality women at? I bounce part time at a bunch of clubs and all I meet is these fvcking crumbs. The Godfather and I were having this discussion today. I think its almost impossible to find a keeper at a club/lounge/bar. What other options are out there----the town library, starbucks, the park??

Sorry for my mini rant...I'm aggravated, pissed off, depressed and have to go inject.

[gixxerboy1]

at 22 i would be having fun with the club girls. Why are you looking for something serious?

[BUTTERYGOODNESS]

at 22 i would be having fun with the club girls. Why are you looking for something serious?

lol im 19 and about to propose. been together for over 3 years now

[terraj]

lol im 19 and about to propose. been together for over 3 years now

Don't...really don't

[gixxerboy1]

lol im 19 and about to propose. been together for over 3 years now

fvck your crazy. people change so much at your age. Why rush it? if it is meant to be it still will be in a few years

[Gaspari1255]

lol im 19 and about to propose. Been together for over 3 years now

for the love of goddddddd..........noooooooooooooooooooooooo!

[gixxerboy1]

lol im 19 and about to propose. been together for over 3 years now

hall of shame post?

[calgarian]

hall of shame post?

nah just tell him to post pic of his balls after she chopped it off

[stevey_6t9]

lol im 19 and about to propose. been together for over 3 years now

This is only because you knocked her up right?

[gixxerboy1]

This is only because you knocked her up right?

or she is rich

[stack_it]

lol im 19 and about to propose. been together for over 3 years now

Wait til she hits 21 and watch how much she changes. I'd wait til after that before popping the question.

[calgarian]

Wait til she hits 21 and watch how much she changes. I'd wait til after that before popping the question.

if he doesnt listen (and he wont) wait till create the thread called "i want out"

[brad1986]

Wait til she hits 21 and watch how much she changes. I'd wait til after that before popping the question.

Yes!! everybody wants to pary and have fun at 21. If she sticks with you through taht age then marry her for sure but im only 25 and im married but if i wasnt able to get certain experiences in my life before i got married i would not be a happy guy and would probably seek it our regaurdless. Sorry to take form the op but no reason to rush into it... make sure you can stand to live with her first
p.s

Women change once that ring hit thier finger becuase at that point they have already won so the daily b.j's and her follwing your command...kiss it goodbye.

[wmaousley]

lol im 19 and about to propose. been together for over 3 years now

Your out of your Fvcking mind do propose, mush less be tied down @ 19years old. Dude play the field until your 30. Enjoy life to the max. I was married @ 26 and to me I was to young, but I am still married.


Statistically a 19yo getting married will have a 68% chance of divorce within the first 4 years.

[Shol'va]

lol im 19 and about to propose. been together for over 3 years now

Well I absolutely refuse to jump on the your crazy for marrying at 19 bandwagon, but your crazy for marrying at 19..lol
No if you are that secure and mentally ready for it, go for it. My great grandmother got married when she was 14 but then that was like 1902.

[awms]

lol im 19 and about to propose. been together for over 3 years now

Hold your horses bro!! dont propose at 19 big mistake imo! If you have a good relationship dont rush it its not like she is going to leave you and if she would over somthing like that then screw it you wouldnt want to be with her any way. Women change and mature alot from the age of 18-25 and although im sure you think you know what your doing I can show you thousands of men who were in your shoes and now are 30, 2 kids deep, and divorced paying child support.

I have one friend who married very young and had a couple kids, his wife cheated on him and the reason was she didnt get to "live" because she was married so young and then she left him....guess what she took everything! he slept in his car for a month because the hoe got the house and he still had to pay child support?? figure that one out lol he didint even want to break it off...he thought he was with his dream girl! guess not.

Take your time bro...I have been with my gf for almost 3 years, live with her now for a year and a half, im almost 24 and still dont want to get married for atleast another 4-5 years....shes not going any where and we both love each other so there is no need to rush things.

[Kawigirl]

Hold your horses bro!! dont propose at 19 big mistake imo! If you have a good relationship dont rush it its not like she is going to leave you and if she would over somthing like that then screw it you wouldnt want to be with her any way. Women change and mature alot from the age of 18-25 and although im sure you think you know what your doing I can show you thousands of men who were in your shoes and now are 30, 2 kids deep, and divorced paying child support.

I have one friend who married very young and had a couple kids, his wife cheated on him and the reason was she didnt get to "live" because she was married so young and then she left him....guess what she took everything! he slept in his car for a month because the hoe got the house and he still had to pay child support?? figure that one out lol he didint even want to break it off...he thought he was with his dream girl! guess not.

Take your time bro...I have been with my gf for almost 3 years, live with her now for a year and a half, im almost 24 and still dont want to get married for atleast another 4-5 years....shes not going any where and we both love each other so there is no need to rush things.

I'm going to attest to this.....

Happens more than people think.....good advice AWMS

[Standby]

I'm going to attest to this.....

Happens more than people think.....good advice AWMS

yep my old boss go tmarried at 18 and would bang every girl he could. said he loved his wife but he married her young and wants to have fun. now he lives in mexico banging everything making mad money and has a wife and 2 girlfriends here. they all know about each other too

[cyounger100]

lol im 19 and about to propose. been together for over 3 years now

what the fck is wrong with you 19 and marriage dont care if u have been with her since you were 4 bad idea live and learn i guess

[Narkissos]

lol im 19 and about to propose. been together for over 3 years now

Good for you bro.

Get some counseling first though... make sure you two are on the same page.

Good luck.

[lovbyts]

Good for you bro.

Get some counseling first though... make sure you two are on the same page.

Good luck.

They may be on the same page but will they at 25, 30, 35, 40 etc?

Ohhh to be young and dumb again. If I had it to do again I would have waited until I was..... maybe another 2 or 3 years from now....

[Narkissos]

They may be on the same page but will they at 25, 30, 35, 40 etc?

Ohhh to be young and dumb again. If I had it to do again I would have waited until I was..... maybe another 2 or 3 years from now....

In this day and age it's hard to say who will be where in 20+ years. Our parents and forefathers had a much simpler way of doing things.

However, if we chose to never do things based on the possibility that it would be obsolete/redundant/changed in a few years, none of us would do anything.

No school. No working out. Nothing.

*shrugs*

[Gaspari1255]

at 22 i would be having fun with the club girls. Why are you looking for something serious?

I'm very content with one woman. I don't need multiple to make me happy. Taking home a different broad every other night gets old...sick of the slobs..I'm a lot more mature than the average guy in their early 20s

[Windex]

I'm very content with one woman. I don't need multiple to make me happy. Taking home a different broad every other night gets old...sick of the slobs..I'm a lot more mature than the average guy in their early 20s

I know exactly how you feel. Canadian women are worse bro, be thankful you don't live up north. The worse is the women from Calgary, sneaky little vixens, and most only look 5/10 AFTER some shots.

[songdog]

Funny I hear women say the same thing about men all the time.You just need to relax.At your age you should be just havin a good time.And you need find when you are lookin.And Butterman Talk to me in 10 years.At your age you dont have a clue wats up.People change so much at that age.You couldnt give me a boat load of 20 yr old girls.

[gixxerboy1]

I'm 22 years old and I am pretty convinced that every female in my age group is either a) complete party girl/lush/rec. drug user b) total whore c) mind game-playing attention wanting douchebag or d) all of the above.

Where the fvck am I supposed to meet some quality women at? I bounce part time at a bunch of clubs and all I meet is these fvcking crumbs. The Godfather and I were having this discussion today. I think its almost impossible to find a keeper at a club/lounge/bar. What other options are out there----the town library, starbucks, the park??

Sorry for my mini rant...I'm aggravated, pissed off, depressed and have to go inject.

also i've from the same area as you. I wouldnt judge by how you see them in the club. Our shore house we used to get in avalon was a mess. If you would be there you would think everyone was a disaster. But every single person during the week had over 100k a year jobs and are very well education and responsible. They just let go hard

[Gaspari1255]

also i've from the same area as you. I wouldnt judge by how you see them in the club. Our shore house we used to get in avalon was a mess. If you would be there you would think everyone was a disaster. But every single person during the week had over 100k a year jobs and are very well education and responsible. They just let go hard

yeah some parties are very successful people. I just can't trust a party girl. Out every night, fvcking drunk, or on E..surrounded by other dudes. it's a nightmare. being a single respectful male in NJ means you are automatically fvcked when it comes to dating.

[gixxerboy1]

yeah some parties are very successful people. I just can't trust a party girl. Out every night, fvcking drunk, or on E..surrounded by other dudes. it's a nightmare. being a single respectful male in NJ means you are automatically fvcked when it comes to dating.

lol. its that age too. I was a crackhead in my early 20's also. Also just cause a girl parties doesnt mean she fvcks everyone and you cant trust her.

goto more upscale lounges in NYC. where the girls are out but not a mess

[terraj]

yeah some parties are very successful people. I just can't trust a party girl. Out every night, fvcking drunk, or on E..surrounded by other dudes. it's a nightmare. being a single respectful male in NJ means you are automatically fvcked when it comes to dating.

sounds like all the girls you meet are doing what all 22 years olds should be doing....

Target older girls then, bars, internet, social groups

[bjpennnn]

at 22 i would be having fun with the club girls. Why are you looking for something serious?

sounds like all the girls you meet are doing what all 22 years olds should be doing....

Target older girls then, bars, internet, social groups

I agree with all this. dont take this the wrong way but raise your standards if your always dating skanks its cause your picking em bro. They are cool to bang but if your looking for a good chick if there is any red flags move on.

[brad1986]

I agree with all this. dont take this the wrong way but raise your standards if your always dating skanks its cause your picking em bro. They are cool to bang but if your looking for a good chick if there is any red flags move on.

2 thumbs up!!! agree times 100

[BUTTERYGOODNESS]

lol im not rushing it tho lol im more then happy and in love with her and every thing is exactly how i want it in life (except for my own house) because i already have my dream job as a personnal trainer, already have 22 clients but enough about me, talk to OP bout him.

[Rockin Z28]

lol im not rushing it tho lol im more then happy and in love with her and every thing is exactly how i want it in life (except for my own house) because i already have my dream job as a personnal trainer, already have 22 clients but enough about me, talk to OP bout him.

at 19? you crazy son!!

[calgarian]

lol im 19 and about to propose. been together for over 3 years now

lol im not rushing it tho lol im more then happy and in love with her and every thing is exactly how i want it in life (except for my own house) because i already have my dream job as a personnal trainer, already have 22 clients but enough about me, talk to OP bout him.

oh thought you were self proclaimed sex expert.....turn out to be another pvssy whipped

Sorry couldnt resist.....

[BUTTERYGOODNESS]

oh thought you were self proclaimed sex expert.....turn out to be another pvssy whipped

Sorry couldnt resist.....

lmfao!!!!!! both be true!!!! and dont you forget it! lol

[gixxerboy1]

lmfao!!!!!! both be true!!!! and dont you forget it! lol

how are you going to compete when you loose your balls

[cyounger100]

oh thought you were self proclaimed sex expert.....turn out to be another pvssy whipped

Sorry couldnt resist.....

lollllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll llllllllllllllllll

[Times Roman]

lol im not rushing it tho lol im more then happy and in love with her and every thing is exactly how i want it in life (except for my own house) because i already have my dream job as a personnal trainer, already have 22 clients but enough about me, talk to OP bout him.

on the one hand, i was about to say too young. but then on the other hand, if she feels the same about you as you do about her, then I would suggest to go with your heart. There is no magic number for proposing that is optimal. If marriage feels like a natural evolutionary extension of a very good relationship that has withstood the test of time (3 years), and if neither of you is secretly wanting more experience with other people, then go for it.

19 is a tough age, there is still so much to do (college, etc.)

On the one hand, I'm glad you have 22 clients. On the other, I personally don't see this as a long term career. Obviously, I could be wrong. But for you, it seems this is a passion you need to explore. And even if it doesn't turn into a long term thing, who cares? I've had plenty of jobs that last only a year or so.

I wish you much luck my friend!

I see by your avi i cant call you butternutts anymore, I'll just call you BG from now on.

-----Roman (old fukker to you!)

[oscarjones]

Most club women turn into playettes after a few drinks. They are easy to approach and get involved with, but yeah who wants to date a playette? Too much work!

[Times Roman]

alot of people meet women at work. The women you meet at work probably don't have the mind set to give you what you want. (Consider the environment).

But then again, and no disrespect intended, but your job (and possibly your lifestyle) is probably not very attractive to a woman that is squared away.

Think about it. Put yourself in the shoes of a good looking professional woman.

She, in all likelyhood, works days. You work nights, right? Bummer for her, right?

You probably have ample opportunity to screw around, meeting many women. This would make many "squard away" women uncomfortable, possibly even insecure.

I would say the type of women you attract is conducive to you and your lifestyle.

If you want to attract a different type of woman, then you need to change your bait.

Get yourself squared away first to attract squared away women.

I'm thinking maybe even college? More women than men go to college. Plenty of opportuntiy to meet squared away women there.

But face it. You work in a party environment, yet complain about how only party girls seem to be available.

That's like a guy bouncing at a strip club complaining he only gets to meet strippers. Or at a whore house and only gets to meet whores.

So, you are 22 and still very young. Either don't change anything about yourself and just deal with what comes your way, our change you and your environment to attract a better quality of woman.

Good luck