ok i have 3 girls that like me alot. I think they all want to go out with me. Well the problem is that I can only go out with one of them. I still want to keep in contact with the other girls because the other one I like really well. Im not sure wich one to choose and even when I do choose one how do I tell that to the other girl without hurting the other ones feelings?

Also my brother is having this huge and I mean huge party at his house and I dont know if I should call the girl up tonight to go to the party or If i should take her out on a date first so we get to know each other because at the party there is gonna be lots of drinks.

Please provide your imput on both of these questions thanks