Quote Originally Posted by binder View Post
which loser would you rather have? one that is a druggy/alcoholic or one that spends his time in the gym doing something to improve his fitness?

i would choose the fitness route.


and yes, i understand too. I don't understand how some beautiful women with a lot going for them date guys that don't have a job, mooch off of them, treat them like shit and are ugly as hell. I'm sorry, looks play a part in it. No matter what someone says physical attraction plays a big part in attraction between 2 people.

it's disheartening. I'm a well educated guy and i would say i'm not bad looking. I have tons of male and female friends that all like being around me and are close friends therefore i would assume my personality is ok, yet it's impossible for me to get a date with someone. Now on the other hand these guys that are dirty, don't have a life and just don't care get all these hot chicks that have careers and good lives. wtf

Depends. if he is a person who just drinks socially on the weekend its not a big deal. It doesnt occupy his life. But your gy mand diet is 7 days a week and does take priority.

Also everyone finds different things attractive. Just because you think muscle are more attractive doesn't mean ever girl does. Just look at the female pic thread we post here. How many guys hate fake boobs some love them. some love skinny girls some like them with some meat on their bones. just because you have an idea what male should look like. doesn't mean all women agree