Okay, so I got this friend, and he's been dating this girl for about 4 months now, which is a good long time. They have tons of things in common, and the relationship seems to be going well. They have done SOME things, fooling around, but not actual sex. Minor things, like strokin and kissing and feeling each other up. Now my friend wants to jump this chick pretty bad. The girl does seem willing, and she has done things like dry hump my buddy's leg, and stroke his meat. So, they are pretty intimate or wut not.

HOWEVER, recently, they went AWAY on a mini-vacation to a nice beach and they stayed in a nice motel for about 3 days (two nights). Very nice, clean place, and they went to the beach, did tons of things together, had overall a great time, BUT, both nights she didn't even seem REMOTELY interested in shagging. Now, she does like him, they both be attracted to each other and all that shit, but like I said, he tried to make some moves on her, but she just kinda brushed it off, or would say I'm really tired or full (from dinner), and just went to sleep. Poor friend of mine ended up staying up the WHOLE night, about 6 hours, just lying in bed thinking wut da fuck is going on!

What the hell happened? Why couldn't he get some yum yum?

I told him to calm down, and I gave him my two possible reasons:

1) It was that time of the month, and she didn't really know how to tell him, and so she wasn't really in the mood the two nights.

2) Because it's only been about 3 months they've been serious, but still they haven't become TOO personal (info wise), and they lack a bit in the communications department, I suggested that she thinks it's too soon, probably, and doesn't want to sleep with him yet. But all the other things that SHE HAS done, seems weird, it's like she's sending him mixed signals. So i'm bafoozled as to wtf is going on.