Ok i will probably get flamed for this by some but hoping for some intellgient answers or adivse.

Ive been with my fiance for over 1.5yrs now. Rescently stopped using condoms. And now i relize im basically sad to say a one minute man. Meaning i cant last more then 5 mins i would say. Its sad i know. Many problems with this. I never had an issue with other women or anything but again i always used condoms. Only my ex wife is the first person i never used a condom with. and it wasnt that often.

I do please my fiance, through oral and all. I know shes not faking as its pretty obvous visually. I even made her "squirt" through oral. And she said "she never did before". So i guess im half way there. It sucks though i would like to fulfill her more. And without using condom im afraid of going right back at it ith the chances of pregency. She is on birth control and i clean up if i do but still. We both are not ready for that.

Been cheated on before and not sure if those are the reason but alws a thought. Im a different type of guy, i dont sleep around. I keep it clean. I also would rather please her before me any day. I ould care less if i get off or not.

Funny thing is theres only been one girl to ever get me off through oral. I can last forever through that. I am also above average in size...8+.I also am on AR_R V and Cia sometimes for that extra hardness thinking that might help my issue. But could this be why i am not lsting as long? We get each other so excied most of the time. Everytime i go down or touch, she is dripping.

Ive looked int kegel excersises and all and just dont understand the whole concept. I honestly feel like less of a man right now and wouldnt blame her for cheating.

At my witts end and hence why im embarassing myself riht now in front of 1000's of people i dont know and askign for advse.

Please flame all you want, but any adivse is greatfully appricated. Thank you