"EQ was hard on my hair", "tren gave my insomnia", "deca shut me down hard", "winny really hardened me up".....
I know exactly what you mean, but all of the above statements cannot be made without having some point of reference.....sides in particular. You can't accurately gauge what works for you in terms of sides/gains without having something to which you can compare it. You started losing hair on your tren/test/EQ stack....which was the culprit?
I too believe that there aren't any more "dangers" to using a "stack" for your first cycle than using a single compound, but you're in a much better postion to design subsequent cycles after having gradually added compounds one at a time. "tren is too harsh for a first cycle".....

It has the same sides for some seasoned veteran going into his 2nd cycle as for some rookie doing his first cycle, but tren alone is not a cycle, so test must be included in that first cycle. Now, the sides you get from your test/tren cyle are attributed to which compound? Thankfully, due to the experiences of many users that have already used various compounds, you can narrow down from which compounds the sides originated, but there is still a lot of individual variation.
The one thing that I won't balk on is the use of anti e's, that's not overly cautious....it's just rational thinking. I despise the old-school mentality of keeping nolva "on hand just in case", no offense to those who subscribe to this mantra. With anti e's being so cheap and readily available these days, I'll give anyone the rest of their natural lives to give me a good reason why one shouldn't use Adex + nolva in any cycle. I know this isn't what DB was referring to, but I'll take every opportunity to drag my weather-beaten soap box out and climb upon it to preach the praises of proper use of anti e's during a cycle.