About the kiss....First tell her what you really like about her, her eyes, heer lips, her smile...Then touche her face slowly and nicely, if your hands are too rough, then use the back of your hands, use your index finger to rub her lips, and then kiss the sides of her lips, no toungue yet, kiss her and sound it a little, while with the other hand pull her waist towards yoiu and get your boner near her...As soon as she gets the toungue out suck it a little, becareful not to suck it too hard because it hurst, however it is a great pleasure,l keep on rubbing your pelvic against her and follow the instincts....There are no greater lovers than those you pay attention to the other person's sensations and moves. Keep on doing small little thins to get her to purrrrrr like a cat...The more she moans tha more you do to get her hot. Also, make sure you star and help her take her clothes off, then yours, but not all at once, just one piece at a time, a kiss, a rub, and then the other...have fun