Whats up ladies and gents...I need some opinions here. Im starting my cycle, yay for me. Im done with my drinking and lighting up the occasional cigarette. Problem is, I want my lady to do the same. She agreed, but Im always asking her if she drank or smoke today. shes a sexy bartender and is surrounded with that sh!t all night. Now shes saying that this is my thing, why must she change. ****...why is it so hard. I know for **** well she would want me to do the same.. Am i wrong for being pissed off...i mean...yeah...its my thing...but i would do the same. I dont know, its some difficult sh!t, or am i being a baby. We had problems before, she drinks and turns into a she-devil. Grrr.