Quote Originally Posted by Benches505
You got some great advice on this thread already so I won't be a broken record and sound off the same advice. One thing I will add is that it seems that one of her friends was in her ear while you were away and you have to play your own hand of poker or you will set a precedent that will set the tone of the relationship for the future with her being the one in the drivers seat.

There are a few key things that you did not mention..

How old is she? How long have you been dating? Remain strong right now since any sign of weakness may only strengthen her resolve to drag this out longer with teaching you a little lesson. After the weekend passes,assuming she has not heard from you, she will begin to second guess herself and that is when something will happen.
Yeah, I believe that she was talking to one of her friends about me while I was away. This friend didn't know me and my gf got back together in March after 5 months apart. A couple of weeks ago we (my gf and I) bumped into this freinds mother. She must have told her daughter about seeing us together. And I have no doubt in my mind that she was feeding my girlfreind propaganda about how rubbish I am.

BTW, she's 23, I'm 22 and we've been together for 3 years with a few long term breaks - when uni stopped for the summer, and usually got back when we came back in the autunm.