I don't agree with a woman giving ultimatums about what you do with your time. I could see if you were married or living together. You are a single adult and what you do with your time and $$ is still your business. If you continue to not do things because she doesn't want you to....it will only get worse. I just came back from Vegas and both the men that were there with me were perfect gentlemen and I think they managed to have a good time without hooking up with hookers/strippers.

Bottom line...either she trusts you or she doesn't. If she doesn't ... after two years... either she's not capable or you have given her reason not to. Either way....it WON'T get any better without a lot of work and time. If and when you ever married her...it would probably get worse.

There has to be compromise. Sounds like you already have....now it's her turn. Just remember....she may turn around and want to go off with her friends at some point and you better be prepared to suck it up and trust her.

Good luck.