Quote Originally Posted by palme
I have been together with my gf for about 1½ years now, everything is great and i will move in with her shortly, but latley im getting more and more offers from other girls, almost like they all know im "off the market" and want to have me. It sucks!!! Today a girl who used to work at the place i bounce at came up to me and after awhile she said she wanted me ...it took all my willpower not to do her on the spot! (i swear!) She has the cutest smile, nice boobs and a ass like you have never seen!!! Its out of this world and she wanted me! Unbeliviable! I think that she is the hottest girl that ever have tryed to get me in bed.

Am i a dumbass? Should i have gone for it or am a winner for being faithfull? Nice people finish last they say.

I need to have a jerk or two, probly three.
She is probably playing you. She is in competition with your GF and you are the prize. She doesn't care about you, only about "winning". It doesn't bother her that she will be wrecking a promising relationship.

If your GF is satisfying you in every respect, avoid the hot chick like she has syphillis. If you don't think that your relationship will last, anyway, then go for the booty call, but remember what kind of person she is... one who does not respect a comitted relationship. Your GF is a GF. The other chick is just booty call material.

BTW this is pretty common. Single guys are seen by many chicks as desperate. Why is the guy single? What's wrong with him? But a guy with a chick in his life is seen as proven goods. Plus there is the competition thing.