Canes, The guys who asked my daughter out were all very polite and well mannered. I heard alot of yes sirs and thank you's. They never said anything to me about my build but they did to my daughter. They all wanted to know if I liked them or not. She is marrying one of them this May. He is a big boy....6 ft. 4 in. and around 230 lbs. I like him alot. He's my son's best friend and we've known him for 15 yrs. He has became like a son to us.