I never had a problem with an OCCASIONAL guys or ladies night out...but every week IMO is too much, esp with single guys, on the prowl. You see them having the fun, on the hunt, seeking out new and exciting "strange". You on the other hand sit there, drink your beer and remember the "good ol' days" .....experiencing the grass is always greener syndrome. Of course there are the women that thrive on hitting on married men for the challenge...etc.

In my "world" in the military, I see a lot of problems. The married guys hanging out with the single guys...trying to be part of the crowd. My ex husband and I had the same problem. He was hanging out with the "guys" on his shift....going out after work, etc. A couple of the "guys" turned out to be female coworkers. Long story short....he started messing with one of them. I caught on before it got too far...but that was the beginning of the end. Once we started hanging out with other couples it got a little better. In the end our differences were just too great and after 14 yrs I gave him his walking papers. I don't feel like I wasted 14 yrs....I have two great kids and after some trial and error....finally found the person Im going to spend my life with.

A good marriage doesn't just "happen" it takes work, dedication and yes, even some sacrifice. Make sure if you end it you know you can look back with NO regrets. If that's the case, do her a favor and set her free to find a man that will love her as she deserves to be loved.

Quote Originally Posted by Sim Sima
yep, they're all single. They definelty have an influence on me.