tell you what, think out of the dating shell for a sec. there is seriously nothing "confusing about it" at all. the circumstances may unfortunatly be in a cluster fk, but you shouldnt feel that your mind/her mind is confused about what you both want. Since it sounds like you each have a good head on your shoulders, I would sit down, and civily talk to her about her goals, she needs to realize your seriousness in dating her. Parting/getting back together works for some but not all easily. She needs to tell you what she wants right now in this time of her life. you can also explain your thoughts and what not regarding your advancing the relationship status, to perhaps getting married???Originally Posted by spound